Javfly33

Of course it is. How couldn't be? Morality is based on guilt. If people were conscious we wouldn't need morality.

That's really a very accurate way to put it ? totally fits my experience.

Oh ok, just asked to know from which perspective I should approach the problem you describe here. So in my view you are in the classic "fuck everything, they suck" attitude, right? What's your diet/spiritual exercises/work balance looking like? You say you haven't accomplished anything. What's really your vision? If you could have all the acceptance and Love that you could, what would you create/do as a passion? I would use this emotion/energy you are feeling to move in the direction you really want in life. If you are 42 it's a good timing. Most people when they get to 50-60 they just get very complacent and their lifes really become boring as fuck. You could take advantage of this "crisis" (to call it something)...

@EugeneTheSage I mean it's obvious that black clothing don't attract/create the same kind of energy as other colours, but it's obviously an exaggeration to say that 20-30% of the problems are for wearing black clothing lol. That's ridiculous. I love Sadghuru and I have him in high, very high respect, but the guy can also be wrong in some things too

How old are you?

I guess you are talking about getting to that kind of ground-stable energy that really attractive men have. I agree with you, people get lost in concepts but forget you can't eat fine dining by being a beggar.

@DualityHurts Yeap, Sadghuru is one legit conscious motherfucka in a million of self proclaimed charlatan gurus with a lot of talk but fake hearts. I hope he is with us for a lot more years

Everybody always congratulame because i have an stable full time job. especially here in my country getting a stable full time job aint that easy. Most people Who Dont have a job for a long time go depressed or some shit like that. However since i started a full time job (1 year ago) i feel my overall stress levels have gone through the roof, especially during the work hours. Also i feel overall with way way less energy to work on my self actualization goals on my free time. It hasnt helped i Guess that i went to a bigger city where commute takes way more time than in my natal city and also housing is ridiculously expensive so i have to share flat Recently i took holidays and came back 1 month to my mothers House and natal town. Shit i felt so much fucking Better. All the time and energy in the world to Create What i really want, no waking Up with stress/palpitations, not a city where you are surrounded constantly by cars, cozy hometown. Etc. However its true also that i went to a big city to purposely work on my self actualization goals and Career dreams. But the problem is i feel its so damn difficult to accomplish anything because i might have overall anxiety disorder and going 8 hours a day in a job where i am anxious is fucking me Up my health and leaving me ungrounded and in stress Mode the rest of the day (because i am already thinking that the Next day i have to go to work). But withouth job i cant live here and accomplish What i want. So i just have to push through. But its so difficult. Sometimes i wonder if should go back to my hometown. But everybody says that a man must be self suficient and all that shit to grow. Idk i feel everything overwhelms me. The loneliness. The job. The stress. Ugh. Can i get advice?

I´ve gotten my first girlfriend ever (I say like its a trophy LoL) and I feel lately im getting too needy with her. Should I do pickup again to lose this neediness? In a way I know it would help to stop being attached to her, in other I feel it could be kinda cheating. Edit: Obviously I wouldn't do it to the intention of getting laid. With pickup I mean keep going out clubbing/nightgame and being proactively interacting with girls. Just to not lose the abundance/relaxation mindset. But I wouldn't do it with the intention of escalating it to anything.

I used to Love it. The problem is eventually it would feel very toxic. It would completely wreck my stomach if I ate anything during the day I took the dose. Recreationally wise, it's very good for trips as you said, it eases you into trip reducing a lot the anxiety and synergizes very well (even alone it has a psychedelic edge to it...). Combines well with lysergimes and phenitelamines, (not so much with tryptamines) Honestly if your stomach/body can handle it then yeah its quite an amazing drug. Just take proper breaks, I've heard the withdrawals are pretty nasty.

What would take you to unconditionally accept and Love your suffering? radical and probably bitter to swallow post coming but... ...Everyone seems to have an explanation why 'suffering' exists (or any kind of happening that the ego feels it shouldn't happen) . Psychologists will tell its conditionings, hardcore biologists will tell its genetics, spiritual schools will tell its trauma of the personality, Sadhguru will say its "because you haven't read the users manual!"), religions will tell its because your sins. See? Notice all humans need to tell themselves that suffering needs a cause and effect. This gives the ego a sort of control. The ego cannot handle that the suffering might have absolutely no reason to exist. And yet this is precisely what has to be observed. To stop judging reality and thinking there could be any other better way for reality to be. To stop believing that there are some things that "shouldn't happen" or that "are wrong" to exist. What if there is no apparent material cause and no effect for your suffering? What if your current 'traumas' of your ego, your ptsd, your anxiety, HAS ABSOLUTELY NO CAUSE but the only reason that God decided to give himself that life/create/dream precisely that life with those precise ailments so God could show itself something? There might be no cause to your suffering. The cause its something that God imagines to give itself a backstory on why you have that ailment. But is totally not the reason you have it. ? Oh, God, that brilliant motherfucker. Now you go all along preaching you have that thing because you heredited that genetics or even that karma, and turns out you are imagining that backstory because if not you would have to realize you literally created that ailment out of pure will and brilliant design strategy. What if there is no a cause for your suffering but its just something that is created so the play, the narrative, has a profound meaning behind it? Its kind like in the movies. A good dramatic movie might have normal usual common scenes, maybe there is a shooting. Maybe there is someone being murdered. But is really the point of the scene to show that murder? No, that murder happens so that whatever the emotional meaning the director might want to transmit the audience is brilliantly conveyed to you. Here is a mindfuck!: What if all of your suffering has absolutely no reason to exist? (and at the same time, its absolutely meaningful?) What if all of your ideas of "reality absolutely shouldn't be like this) are actually totally designed to be THAT WAY? What if what you think its a bug, its literally a very loving-brilliant feature? But of course, you can not see that. You prefer to assume that you know how reality should be and blame God/reality for being like that. Here's the thing. You don't get to say how life should be. Of course you can do the best you can. But you should also realize that you have absolutely no control and God is always fucking right. Don't be so naive in saying that your suffering shouldn't happen. Maybe your life has happened in the most perfect possible way imaginable. Can you open yourself to that possibility? But that would require a very inmense capacity to Love each aspect of your life. Can you do that? Of course you could. You are just scared that all aspect of your life could have been actually perfect. You don't want to let That possibility into your mind. Its too radical. The love its too radical. A very minuscule piece in an infinite puzzle of pieces which interconnects all within themselves in a perfect way that would make you fall on your knees and cry of the beauty of how crazy brilliant and infinite your mind is. When you told that person "I fucking hate you" its because that served you a certain purpose to show yourself some thing, and the other person probably took that as something "bad" that has happened to them, but actually that other person got exactly what he/she needed to also realize something. Quite mindfucky! And like this it goes infinitely. The perfect design goes infinitely in all directions. And how come this design is possible? Because God is infinite. So there's nothing that God could never do. So of course it Designed the perfect Movie. What a fucking 10 out of 10 movie it made! Oh my fucking god! That motherfucker! Namastè

Nice! Beautiful. And very good to watch it before you go to sleep Lol

30 years tops

So not long ago I started my first dev job, I like it but the salary is quite low. The job is quite easy too, I work from home and I find myself at the end of the workday still with plenty of energy and motivation to do more work. I would like to take advantage of this and try to make some money to support my finances since I soon plan to move and rent an apartment for myself. How should I do this? Ive looked in the famous freelancer websites but it seems they are way too many people there and also people from india and so on that will ask for 7$/hour or some things like that Lol so there is no point in competing with that.

What your guys opinion on the radical crazy incredible state of consciousness that is when you realize your room is absolutely and completely God. I guess this post is God asking for validation, so it's quite a useless post. Whatever you guys reply doesn't gonna change anything. either I give myself absolute authority or I project authority towards what your gonna say. I want to reaffirm myself in what was seen, but it's so good to be true, it's so beautiful that that room was 100% the whole universe that part of me wants to believe that it can't be correct. I can't handle the fact that reality can be that beautiful, that Love, that One. Hell Nah it's impossible. It goes against all logic. Distance and time and physicality can't explain Infinity. But who says that logic, time, distance and physicality it's correct? Hahaha. What if that was just a story? Hahaha. Let's just keep it aside and go on about life like nothing happened! It was just a drug hallucination, right? Right. It was just a drug hallucination ?

Yeah I mean I totally understand that, it took me probably 10 years to let that fucking shit go Lol. I was saying it because eventually that's the way to "solve it". I mean nobody is pushed to let go of anything. But as an option is important to recognize it. Think it like this: If you can scratch the itch on your ass right now and get it over with to start enjoying life, why hold it for a fucking lifetime and bitch about it every single second ?

I mean it was the universe because at that moment of the realization I was in the room.

+1000. Although I would go much deeper and let go of the low self esteem, social anxiety, and social anxious stuff.

His state of consciousness. Not a lot of humans have it.

I agree but I think the question is, are there any tools to access those insights and experiences right now? Meditation might be a tool but saying "practice for 20 years and you'll see" it's quite the leap faith. I agree but I think that is because there doesn't seem to be much evidence that meditating would produce those results you seem to speak of I agree, partially. There some instances where I think psychedelics can play a crucial role. Having said that I also think there has to be a point they must be dropped.

Yes, that is very important and one of the crucial unique benefits of psychedelics Vs other practices/tools.

@SQAAD Just go out in the street and see that hot girls have all type of boyfriends. Sure some of them might be guys with a lot of status/power but a lot of them too are just normal fucking guys like you. Just look and stop reading so many books. Good luck.

God has a deep innate sense of imagination and creation ( of course, duh, its creation and absolute imagination itself). So you can already imagine that it would be quite lame for God to always abide in a non-dual infinite state.

You want to awake to the bullshit of new-age modern gurus like David Deida and similar guys come up with this "masculine/energy" stuff? Guess what, the real difference between a man and a woman its their fu**** genitals. The perfect human being is that one with a 50% masculinity and 50% femininity. Only their genitals change. Of course this is idealistic at this point, but humanity is evolving into this direction. To the fall of all differences in energy (masculine-feminine) leaving only genitals as difference, in order to reproduce.

Oh Those two look interesting. Even if I can not get to them right now with my current experience I will save them for the future! Thanks Right... tbh I find the good paying ads too difficult/complex for me ?...so I guess I'll have to improve more my skills/knowledge as u say