kamill

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  1. Today, my girlfriend and I talked at McDonald's, and for the first time, I cried in front of her. She encouraged me to share the struggles of my daily life and open up about my feelings. I'm not used to this; in all my relationships after my first one, I've avoided being vulnerable. In my first relationship, I was needy, and the girl broke up with me because of it. After that, I got heavily into pickup culture and started treating girls like sex objects.

    But now, I want to break out of this pattern. I genuinely want to love my girlfriend and express my love to her, but I find it difficult. I previously followed Julien's "The Pimp" course, but I don’t listen to Andrew Tate or anything similar.

    She told me she feel iam not actracted to her

     


  2. Hi everyone,

    I need some advice. In all my relationships, I tend to act distant and feel like the girl isn't good enough for me. As a result, I don't treat her right, and eventually, the relationship falls apart because the girls get fed up with my behavior. I struggle with sharing my emotions and being open with them. Any tips on how to overcome this and build a healthier relationship would be greatly appreciated.

    Thanks!


  3. 20 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

    Good looks IS an important factor. Good looks also signify strength and physical health, which leaders require. You can't be an effective sick feeble leader.

    When you compare Joe Biden to Gavin Newsom you can see how much looks matters. Biden's lack of health cost him the president.

    Of course, a leader cannot be mentally dull or physically unwell. Yet, despite what you’ve said about not considering yourself very attractive, just look at you what a leader with integrity you are


  4. 50 minutes ago, sleep said:

    @kamill To be fair he said nothing about it being his particular case. "More easily accepted as leader" doesn't equate to "The only reason people follow others"

    But why woudl he even mention that.

    Expecting someone to be a good leader just because they are good-looking is like expecting someone to be a great chef just because they have a nice kitchen. It's not the appearance that makes a leader or a chef great, but the skills, knowledge, and experience they bring to the table.

     

    Leo probably spends a lot of time on the internet.


  5. In the video on shamanic breathing, Leo mentions that the practice should be done for 30 minutes. However, I struggle to continue beyond 5 minutes due to severe physical discomfort. Despite being generally healthy both physically and psychologically, I experience significant stiffness in my forearms and calves, along with intense bodily pain that prevents me from continuing. What could be the cause of this discomfort? Any thoughts or suggestions?


  6. Hi everyone,

    I'm facing a dilemma and could really use some advice. After taking Leo's life purpose course, I discovered a passion for music. I learned piano, guitar, and even got into opera school which was a great passion of mine. I also dabbled in rap and had some success, with a few songs reaching over 10k views on YouTube. Unfortunately, I damaged my voice and couldn't sing for a year, which led me to explore acting. I got involved in unscripted theater and did some hidden camera pranks, asking people funny questions.

    Now, my voice has somewhat recovered, and I'm still in opera school, though I paused it for a year. I initially got into music because of rap, and it remains a passion. However, with my voice not fully back to normal, I'm torn between returning to rap and music or focusing on theater and acting. Doing both doesn't seem sustainable, and at 26, I feel it's time to commit to a path rather than dabbling.

    If my voice were 100%, I'd lean heavily towards rap and music, but given the current uncertainty, I'm considering acting more seriously. Any advice on which path to choose would be greatly appreciated.

    Thanks! 


  7. From ages 20 to 23, I worked extremely hard to avoid getting expelled from school. During that time, I was incredibly frustrated and miserable, driven by intense sexual desire. However, from ages 23 to 25, I spent almost every day hitting the clubs and streets, and I ended up having a lot of casual encounters. Now that I'm 26, I find that I'm no longer driven by constant sexual desire, and my mood is remarkably stable. I never thought I could achieve this level of emotional balance without the highs and lows I used to experience.

    So my advice is to have sex a lot get it out of your system you probably spend lots of time thinking about sex like I use to.