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@assx95 i was in a relationship with a girl, that i was with only to bust a nut for a year she loved me and it was fun (for me), i had sex whenever i want, she couldn't say no to me but i didn't love her back and amount of karma i got hit back for it that was so fucking huge and my life went totally shit and all of it got me into self-development

i'm the same kind of person as you dude i'm acting cocky, like a rockstar and deep down i'm this scared, vulnerable, sensitive guy, that wants a warm hug (and warm pussy)

@silene yeah, it's exactly the thing that's on my mind right now, i want to try that not sure what "the healthiest" option of vaping is tho

i did dry fasting 2 times this week first day - 20-24 hours, two days off and 30-36 hours didn't eat anything, didn't drink anything, didn't even take shower to not get water into my body, hardcore mode all the way about breatharianism being bullshit - there is no bullshit in this world, everything is just a concept made by your mind - what you believe can happen, power of intention is the highest power there is something that is not possible now can be possible in a future, something that people didn't even dream about 500 years ago is something normal for us right now the more people believe in something the more true it becomes - that's like a law of universe, remember - it's all a fucking dream if in 1000 years people will believe that we can become immortal, we fucking will become immortal that's something i learned while transitioning into magician vibration - you are the creator, you create your beliefs and your reality, by changing your filters that you are looking at the world with ("higher" form of law of attraction)

@onacloudynight dude, go for it and don't wait, creating anime is too low consciouss is just a silly excuse made by your mind if you love doing it, following what you love will always make you more consciouss, because following love / joy is tapping more and more into the highest vibration there is : l o v e

i read Alan Carrs' book, but this method doesn't work for me tbh, cutting off smoking one day and never coming back sounds great on paper, but didn't work for me, reducing smoking worked so much better, i'm not smoking that much now, but still - wanna stop completely i tried shisha, but that's too much effort, where cigarettes are instant, same with smoking green tea from a pipe i'm thinking about smoking some healthy e-cigarette right now, but i'm aware that smoking anything is never healthy and not natural so - my question is - what do you suggest i should replace cigarettes with? need some new, healthy "addiction", the closer to smoking the better (i mean, something similar to trick my brain with) because i really fucking enjoy smoking as an activity

Astrology is not bullshit. Every full moon / new moon / planets conjunts / retrogrades bring some type of energy with them. You can acknowledge what type of energy it brings and use it as a tool. Like - use summer to go to a vacation, winter to grind in a gym etc. You can do these things whenever you fucking want, but why not do this effieciently, by tapping into global consciousness energy? (Power vs Force) Just connect with nature baby ^^

so - how do I handle this problem: improving my emotional mastery, meeting more women, becoming better with attracting women and fucking in general and at the same time not be needy for relationship and working on myself / self-love like - practical advices (let's say i got the second part handled)

yeah, i'm fucking 28 and just now i feel like i'm finally becoming emotionally mature, it was a hell of a ride, just like @Preety_India said it's all about self-love, after many breakups and heartbreaks you learn, that if something is ment to be, it will be - it's not a hollywood movie, where both of you have to go through a fucking emotional rollercoaster and kill each other first to then be together if a person is right then it will be smooth, joyful relationship, where you both don't give a damn and care for each other at the same time (or at least that's how i see that right now)

i tried both of these, after doing leo's life purpose course, for like 3 months and tbh these 2 methods didn't really resonate with me either it was just forced, grind work, just to make it done i think the key is to really feel what you want and then the visualisations and affirmations should become easy and smooth automatically but it's really hard to wipe out subconciouss, social conditioned needs, that are not really ours, to find out what we truly want out of life edit : just read this post: that's exactly what i'm talking about - how do you know, when you know for 100%, that something is your purpose, your dream, something you really want to visualise / affirm into your life? it's not that easy to find it and erase the false ones i guess there's no way around, just keep on digging, what do you guys think of all of that?

yeah, i've been to a similar process myself lately there were (are) two stages - first, when i had to let her go and start living for myself - do things that i love and that are mine, that bring me joy, let's call it self love right now i'm at a second stage - i'm letting go of judging thoughts in my head about her, what she have done and how she was behaving during this time, trying to be more of a perceiver than a judger (mbti stuff), i would call it Self love, it requires lots of empathy, love and understanding towards the other person and imo it's a lot harder thing to do

still - be aware of the fact, that you are a guy, that she needs just to "be there for her", an "orbiter", let's call it that way when you are not around, she will look for someone else, to validate her better if you just let her go so she can confront her trauma and herself it's gonna be tough and she may just go and fuck some other dude to feel better about herself, but still - it's not your problem, it's hers

be careful with that i'm going through a similar story right now, there's a girl, that i'm 100% sure is in love with me (i just want to bust a nut more then anything else tbh) she wanted me to get into conflict with her ex, because she was too afraid and ashamed to talk to him after i told her that i will not fight him, we are good and gucci and it's her shame and fear that is blocking her, she blocked me everywhere it might be trauma thing - she has self-worth issues and she needs to be with someone to validate her - and it's stronger then her, it actually controls her emotions so - let her go, don't contact her, don't trust her "ooo, i'm so sorry, i will not talk to him again", because whenever you and her will go back together and something bad will happen between two of you, she will feel abandoned and run to this/other guy again, just to feel secure and loved again she has to deal with her own demons first, otherwise, you will never be able to fully trust her (or - in your case - it might be the other way around, contamplate on that, i don't know the full story, so i might be wrong)

i got 2 warnings already soo

@Danioover9000 yeah, that's exactly what i was doing - trolling if people get offended by that, not responding with like: "haha, yeah i can be like that sometimes" and they get triggered emotionally, that always means that it's something in them that needs a fix, not you, that's just a friendly banter and i don't get offended by shit like that like ever, because i worked hard on myself and i know what is my worth and yeah, sometimes i'm acting too much like a dick, but fuck me dude, i'm just a mirror here

what do you guys think about lsd usage, to boost your creativity / progress with women? i was thinking about microdosing first and then trip on some higher dose

@Shin /looking for priestess for some buffs and party, pm me/

@Nickyy yeah, i get it, it's female, manipulative nature, to trigger you and then report you, because you called her "a bitch", boo-hoo everyone knows it wasn't to offend her, it was used in humorous way but when she calls guys incels, why isn't it seen and called "wuss behaviour"?

@Elham i wasn't masturbating for like 2-3 months and yesterday i decided to go for it, because "tention" was just too big i didn't use porn for that and where i was thinking "it will deplete my energy" or something (like eastern gurus say) after that i felt a lot better and suddenly got a lot of power to clean my room and stuff and a lot of stuff that was on my head lately that wasn't connected to "sexual frustration" in my head, just got sense, that i was just frustrated, needy, jealous fucker, that wanted to bust a nut then yeah - if you feel like fantasies and shit on your head are too much to handle, just go for it, have some fun, plan it like a trip or picnic and have a ride

@Nickyy @Anna1 yeah, it was - her calling guys that need help "incels" is fine, but when she needed help with her "bad boy abusive boyfriend" nobody was calling her names, like "coward" or "crybaby" so now i did, just to show how unfair it was from her and i'm getting warned by administrator, great fucking joke

@Preety_India that was pretty harsh, i don't really like this @Mikael89 guy, because he is an arrogant (edited by moderator) sometimes, but (edited by moderator) please, hold on i remember you crying about how your bad boy was treating you and you have to leave him and now you are calling guys incels hypocrisy and ego, (edited by moderator)

i started nofap like 2 years ago and right now i don't need to fap to feel good it's like cutting alcohol or weed out from your life, you don't need stimulants to make you feel good, you just feel good 24/7 the more you feel good without it, the easier it is to get it - i mean pussy (or dick in your example)

@Elham

@Elham we can try solving that problem together but - seriously - i would love to get answer for that too