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All dating is selfish agenda.

@Chumbimba a conspiracy theory group that Supports Trump

I want Twitter to ban Donald Trump's tweets or hide them. Or just flag them.

A thing of beauty is a joy forever. A thing of romance is a fuel forever

They will move to some other place.

Now this feeling is what a woman needs. The feeling of being loved. Truly. Loved. Something that can only come from a deep connection and not from casual flings with men. The relationships that doesn't make you feel really wanted is not a relationship, just a passing fling or a boring association of 2 people. But the relationship that makes you jump and do backflips is the real relationship. Because you're excited to be with your lovebird at all seasons of the year. When you experience something so exciting and beautiful and cosmic, you don't need anymore relationships in life. You are not excited to pursue anymore relationships Because your hunger is satisfied, thirst quenched. When you are in boring joyless relationships, you are restless... The restlessness increases. Your restless soul is looking for that feeling of true love, despite being with that person, you're still restless, because the culmination hasn't happened yet. Think of this as you're preparing to win in a car race. You are waiting and the waiting is producing so much restlessness. The car race is after a week. The whole week you're craving for it. You want the time to go by quicker.. The same restlessness you experience in a bad relationship. Now when you finally enter the car race and you win, that's where you're fulfilled. Now you're not craving anymore. Similarly when you meet that one true love of your life, you're suddenly in a different head space and heartspace. After experiencing that relationship you aren't craving anymore.

This experience is needed at least once in life to actually know what love feels like. If I have to be frank about how it feels to be truly in love I will say, it feels like a high vibration and perfect peace.. It's a point of peace. When you reach this point then you are ready to go. I can give the example of dance. True love is like a dance. When you have never danced in life, you have never experienced its true joy. But one day you hear the music and you suddenly break out into a dance, that's where you realize what you had been missing on for so long. I had been lackluster relationships in my college days. They were charming men. But the relationships weren't really meaningful. It was love, but passive love.. It felt like reading a book or watching TV. Or eating popcorn. But it didn't feel like amazing. It didn't feel like I was going crazy without that person. It was fine if he left me and went away for a few days,. There was no imminent loss. But this relationship was different. If I didn't snuggle with him for a day or if he was out, I'd miss him terribly. When I was with him, it felt like deep exhilaration. Deep joy. I would laugh for hours over nothing. We would feel a sense of joy in simply holding hands Even the most routine things were joyful when he was around. We would laugh. Because there was chemistry. Laughter and joy and caring. That's the kind of love you need. Not the boring regular type. No matter how attractive or charming the guy may be, if you don't feel like you can't live without him, the relationship just hasn't hit the jackpot. It's a beautiful feeling.

For some time I felt like I just can't function without a man's love. I needed it so bad. I was more detached in my past relationships because I wasn't feeling like I was getting love.. Meanwhile in the last relationship, there was a noticeable difference. I felt loved even though the relationship soured later. It's like good things don't last. They have to come to an end at some point. This acceptance is needed. That any fiery romance must end at some point.. Because there are always issues. I don't regret my past relationship. Not the fiery one.. Because I learned a lot. I understood the importance of eternal romance. I understood that love without that connection, that exact deep connection is fruitless and not love. And love with the connection is the only love you actually need. This love makes you a better person This chemistry is the fuel. You don't need to experience love many times in life. That's a lie. The love that you experience has to be quality love.. Or else it's a sham. It leaves you with a void. But a quality love fills you. It's like spring water, different from ordinary water. This love has great emotional quality or vibration. So even if you end the relationship, you still remember this love. Because it's so effervescent. It keeps inspiring you. Andrew is just the same. We have a strong sexual chemistry. This helps a lot. The strong sexual chemistry acts like a fuel It keeps you glued to your ground.

I had this homeless boyfriend before who I left. He was abusive. I think that that experience taught me a lot During the first period of the relationship, he was a total gentleman and then he started to suffer in life and take out his abuse on me. But I experienced deep romantic chemistry with him Maybe God wanted me to go through this experience. My past relationships weren't fun. Most of them lacked chemistry even if the guys were good. There was never this intense romantic chemistry with them. Just a relationship. I didnt think much of it. It was okay. But I did not feel any longing or madness. The relationship with Joseph drove me nuts. It was the strongest sexual chemistry I had experienced. Part of it was because I was so emotionally bonded to me That easily produced a lot of oxytocin. I always wanted him to make love to me. He wanted it to.. What I have realized that a romantic relationship, a deep type, is really needed in life to create that romantic energy or passion in life.. There's something about this passion that drives the heart and the mind to work..

@JosephKnecht what does that picture mean

I'm trying to get back to normal.

God is Love. Love is God

@K Ghoul thank you so much for the compliment I have seen you. You're absolutely beautiful

I have a huge problem with betrayals. This has been a recurrent theme in my life. I'm generally a very loyal person. But throughout my life I had to face multiple betrayals from friends, partners and acquaintances. They would use me for money or other help and after getting all the help, they would completely abandon me. Meanwhile I will be caring towards them and feel very hurt for how I got treated in return. Well it doesn't matter how much I helped them and I want nothing in return for what I did for them, but what hurts the most is the feeling that I was never wanted or loved. Only used. I don't help them for getting love but I do help them because I care about them. But when they show absolutely zero care or concern in return, it hurts big time. I feel like an abandoned puppy who always made everyone happy and when the owners were done with me, I was abandoned by the roadside. I was with a friend of mine for 3 years and I helped them so much, gave them so much emotional support, yet now they have completely forgotten me and don't even care to talk to me. How to identify and choose trustworthy people and how to deal with Betrayals and untrustworthy people? Also how can I recover and cope with such experience?

All this redneck politics sounds so ghoulish to me. Redneck Apocalypse

That's the price of sacrifice That you must pay to learn the harder way. .

@Jacob Morres at least here it's not.

But despite all my struggles I will keep my head high and be positive.

I don't even know where to begin But this year is Going to teach me so much. I'm so done. Just looking for a new start. I was so upset last year I didnt want to live Maybe finally I can live.

Biden might win a landslide Trump's antics will cost him

This really resonates with how I think and feel. I feel exactly the same. That I'm invested way too much into people who don't care or are very selfish. Thanks for the kind words. ❤️

@vizual agree

I don't know how to word this question. This thought just popped in my head, that all stages of spiral dynamics are equally important. And something from each stage can be integrated into life. I think that at each stage, we can have needs pertaining to that stage. I can't think of specific needs. But it would be nice if y'all can add some. Stage beige needs Survival Skills Stage purple needs Community needs Basic needs Not sure what to add here. Stage Red needs Ego needs Not sure what needs I can include here. Stage Blue needs Morality Foundation Structure Balance Stage Orange needs Achievement Reward Learning Skills Stage green needs Morality Egalitarian Unification Activism Democratic needs Ecosystem needs Stage yellow needs Understanding System based Different models Integrating different models Pragmatic solutions Stage turquoise needs Perspective change Structure versus content What more needs can you add to the above list? Input appreciated.

@Raphael yea I agree. The list is very huge I'm still thinking what more I can add. If you get more ideas in the next week, you could continue to add them here..

@SamC the friendship itself leads to deep romance.. It's called love through connection.