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Everything is a luxury on this planet. The water, the atmosphere, the life, the rocks. People take it for granted and instead demote “luxury” to a stupid chunk of clothing or accessories. Your brain is a luxury. @Thewritersunion Well said There are two sides to this coin. On one side there is the appeal for some people to buy something incredibly expensive and exclusive which most other people can't afford so they can feel special. On the other side is being able to appreciate artistic merit or the craftsmanship that went into it. Many of these brands put out extremely expensive collections and limited pieces that are art/design focused and which the rich patron. The business of art has always been like this. All those classical paintings from centuries ago were basically commissioned and paid for by rich patrons of the arts. Today, these brands have a difficult time just catering to those crowds and I imagine they have their sights set on a bigger market. They have to churn out a lot of generic garbage that middle class people can occasionally blow their money on. That white Gucci tshirt and LV belt come to mind. Seen the same few designer pieces worn by a lot of people. The more experimental and original pieces are reserved for the rich. If I had more cash I would probably buy some more clothes that was quite expensive but I'm not so into the mainstream design houses but more niche brands. I mainly like to buy stuff that is really well made and displays a master craftsman at work. The problem with a lot of mainstream design houses is that the quality isn't as good as you would think.

I like healthy orange and silent orange I was like that in some history of my existence.

@electroBeam Gotcha!

@DrewNows Drew always knows.

Dating is a reproductive value negotiation table. If you want to increase your chances with high quality women you need to first increase your value as a guy. Just like guys want to date the hottest feminine women, women want to date the most masculine guy they can find. Ways to increase your value as a guy: -Work on your personality. This is huge. Women are attracted magnets to hot personalities. Mainly loving yourself more. attractive qualities like confidence and humor are a natural expression of when one loves themselves enough to let their true self show. -Working on looks is good, but it's not nearly as important for attracting women as personality. Develop a solid sense of style and look that you feel yourself and confident in but don't obsess over it too much. -and lastly women are attracted to: -fame, status, and money since these also increase your value. Personality I've found is the easiest and most effective way to increase your value as a guy. ways to work on your personality: -meditation/ spiritual practice -practicing approaching women while consciously practicing techniques in books/ online and stuff. Being more authentic. -build a social circle. Socialize more. Meet new people. talk to women more in general, even ones you aren't attracted to. -read books on dating and attraction -eat healthier -work out at the gym

One thing I will say is that learning how to relate to women and putting yourself out there can be one of the most fun parts of your life, yes it dose involve a lot of rejection that can hurt but once you get past that it start becoming very fun. Once its sorted you realise getting your needs met so to speak is really just about realising that there is a high level of fulfilment we are all looking for and once you see through it you can never have the same joy from it again so enjoy while it lasts.

@electroBeam how does eft help with seduction?

For a long time I held on to this notion of "being smart" as a part of my ego because it gave me a sense of stability growing up. Now as I am trying to dissolve the ego, I'm seeing how problematic it is. As a result, I feel like I'm in a very unstable place mentally, emotionally, and spiritually. I'm looking to find better forms of stability by cultivating conscious discipline by building consistent habits and by not wearing myself out too much by brow beating myself or being too harsh (because that's typically when discipline itself becomes undisciplined which turns you away from discipline as a whole, thus being counter productive). I guess now I'm looking for stability in discipline rather than ego and that discipline is going to be centered around gentleness, consistency, and intentionality. I want to know yalls thoughts. Is this a more constructive way of creating a sense of stability? How have yall cultivated stability in yalls lives? I'm trying to figure out whether I'm approaching this correctly, if there is anything I'm missing because my ego is blinding me in someway, or if there is anything else that I can look into? can give you a couple of tips on how to navigate your current situation. I'm not aware of your school situation, like exactly what's going on with the school that is making you feel anxious about your future You'll need to stop thinking about your future at least for now. The Covid-19 situation is causing a lot of uncertainty. Wait till it is under control. Till then be relaxed and don't stress yourself out too much. The future right now is extremely uncertain for nearly everyone. So best is to not think too much about it. The problem with stability is that nothing is really stable, whether be relationships, career, job, finances etc. But the only thing that you can keep solidly stable is your physical health and your mental health. You'll need to take great care of your body and keep your mind always engaged in positive uplifting thoughts everyday. Do a ton of positive affirmations everyday because the negativity around you will gradually eat you up. To beat it, you'll have to constantly be upbeat. We live in uncertain times now. Whatever we have, we have to face. But for that we need good physical and mental health. That's really the motto for entire life because there will be many ups and downs in life. By keeping your mind and body stable everyday, you'll be ready to face whatever situation comes. Do a ton of self discipline but keep a balance with some entertainment. Don't be harsh on yourself. Keep doing your self discipline in slow consistent doses. Don't listen to your mind. The mind is always biased and tells us the worst possible case scenarios all the time. This is how the human mind works. It never allows space for anything peaceful to occur. The challenge lies in taming the mind, in essence you are taming your ego, because the ego has a great tendency to take over the mind and hijack it. So always learn to question anything that your mind tells you. Every thought and reaction to that thought has to be questioned critically. With daily 15 minutes meditation this is much easier to do. You can easily catch your mind telling you all sorts of wrong things. What I can see from your post that you're possibly pushing yourself or pressuring yourself to create instant stability. This will backfire very badly. Stability will come on its own when you willl have enough consistency. Also do not have a perfectionist mindset. That will backfire badly because we are never the same all days of the week and that's absolutely okay. Give yourself the permission to make mistakes. It's your inner child, let it run freely, constantly shouting at this inner child will take away your eagerness for life and you will stop your discipline out of boredom. So also allow your mind to do things that it loves to do to keep this child pampered and happy. But don't let this child play too much. Because that way you're losing stability. So gradually bring a little bit of discipline without being too harsh. This way you create a comfort zone, not a harsh discipline zone, but a comfort zone with enough discipline in it. So the key to stability is in creating balance between discipline and fun. The fact that you're not happy in your life tells me that somewhere you're lacking a bit of self love. You are being harsh to yourself. So your mind and body are resisting badly and it's backfiring. Love who you are and how you are Begin the practice of loving yourself gently everyday. This way your mind won't fight so hard against you. Let the future take care of itself. You can't take all the worries of life just yet. Let go of those thoughts. Those are intrusive thoughts creating anxiety in you. They need to be allowed to come and go. So as a summary here is what I can advice Build the stability by taking great care of your body and mind Do a ton of positive affirmations Always be critical of your thoughts Don't indulge in thoughts about future because it's not so much in our hands Don't have a perfectionist mindset. Allow yourself to make mistakes Do meditation everyday at least 15 mins Keep self discipline in slow consistent doses Create balance between discipline and fun Don't be too harsh on yourself Practice self love everyday Tame or block intrusive thoughts that appear in mind. Hope this helps

@Leo Gura the mind itself is sooooo dangerous tbh.

@soos_mite_ah I can give you a couple of tips on how to navigate your current situation. I'm not aware of your school situation, like exactly what's going on with the school that is making you feel anxious about your future You'll need to stop thinking about your future at least for now. The Covid-19 situation is causing a lot of uncertainty. Wait till it is under control. Till then be relaxed and don't stress yourself out too much. The future right now is extremely uncertain for nearly everyone. So best is to not think too much about it. The problem with stability is that nothing is really stable, whether be relationships, career, job, finances etc. But the only thing that you can keep solidly stable is your physical health and your mental health. You'll need to take great care of your body and keep your mind always engaged in positive uplifting thoughts everyday. Do a ton of positive affirmations everyday because the negativity around you will gradually eat you up. To beat it, you'll have to constantly be upbeat. We live in uncertain times now. Whatever we have, we have to face. But for that we need good physical and mental health. That's really the motto for entire life because there will be many ups and downs in life. By keeping your mind and body stable everyday, you'll be ready to face whatever situation comes. Do a ton of self discipline but keep a balance with some entertainment. Don't be harsh on yourself. Keep doing your self discipline in slow consistent doses. Don't listen to your mind. The mind is always biased and tells us the worst possible case scenarios all the time. This is how the human mind works. It never allows space for anything peaceful to occur. The challenge lies in taming the mind, in essence you are taming your ego, because the ego has a great tendency to take over the mind and hijack it. So always learn to question anything that your mind tells you. Every thought and reaction to that thought has to be questioned critically. With daily 15 minutes meditation this is much easier to do. You can easily catch your mind telling you all sorts of wrong things. What I can see from your post that you're possibly pushing yourself or pressuring yourself to create instant stability. This will backfire very badly. Stability will come on its own when you willl have enough consistency. Also do not have a perfectionist mindset. That will backfire badly because we are never the same all days of the week and that's absolutely okay. Give yourself the permission to make mistakes. It's your inner child, let it run freely, constantly shouting at this inner child will take away your eagerness for life and you will stop your discipline out of boredom. So also allow your mind to do things that it loves to do to keep this child pampered and happy. But don't let this child play too much. Because that way you're losing stability. So gradually bring a little bit of discipline without being too harsh. This way you create a comfort zone, not a harsh discipline zone, but a comfort zone with enough discipline in it. So the key to stability is in creating balance between discipline and fun. The fact that you're not happy in your life tells me that somewhere you're lacking a bit of self love. You are being harsh to yourself. So your mind and body are resisting badly and it's backfiring. Love who you are and how you are Begin the practice of loving yourself gently everyday. This way your mind won't fight so hard against you. Let the future take care of itself. You can't take all the worries of life just yet. Let go of those thoughts. Those are intrusive thoughts creating anxiety in you. They need to be allowed to come and go. So as a summary here is what I can advice Build the stability by taking great care of your body and mind Do a ton of positive affirmations Always be critical of your thoughts Don't indulge in thoughts about future because it's not so much in our hands Don't have a perfectionist mindset. Allow yourself to make mistakes Do meditation everyday at least 15 mins Keep self discipline in slow consistent doses Create balance between discipline and fun Don't be too harsh on yourself Practice self love everyday Tame or block intrusive thoughts that appear in mind. Hope this helps.

Are you happy in life?

Empowerment Be Vigilant Balance between Intuition and Productivity and Counterintuitive Absorb information and learn Implementation of knowledge Mindfulness Disperse negativity Self love and transcendence Be your authentic self Inner healing and resolving emotional stress and neediness Self awareness, self regulation, self control, self discipline, Mindfulness and Consciousness Values, Consciousness, Energy Filling the Void /Filling the Cup Detachment Self love Self regulation Self control Self care Self awareness Self healing Self appreciation Self honesty Self inquiry Keeping mind and body very stable Don't listen to the mind. Silencing the mind self discipline in slow consistent doses. Positive affirmations EFT Shadow work Meditation Silent Observer Critical questioning of thoughts Wait before a reaction Create a healthy comfort zone No perfectionist mindset Gentleness Transcendental meditation Getting rid of intrusive thoughts Decrease Dopamine addiction Balance between discipline and fun Escape Distraction Repression Self control Spiritual growth Freeing Filling the Void Filling the Cup. Self love Self awareness Management of signs of weaknesses Transcendence. Personal responsibility or ownership Self responsibility Self analysis Self preservation Self attachment Self Vigilance and self observation Finding a source of love Self care Shadow work Observation, Absorption, recognition Cleaning up Self connection Self confidence Self struggle Self worth Recognition of bad (recognition for safety) Tap into supernatural consciousness/ turquoise consciousness Turn your mind and body and home into a fortress. Great vulnerability can only have supernatural cures.

Live your true authentic essence I'm also going to train myself in a way where I use a certain language for a unique flow I'll call it the flow language. Flow being code for something. When you are your true authentic self, people love you for who you are, and not for someone who you're not. They like you authentically. When you're authentic, you also attract other authentic people. When you try to focus outward, bring the focus inward. All sorts of "love all" spiritual psycho-babble new agey mumbo jumbo is nothing but toxic positivity. If you feel good, say it. If you feel rage, say it too. That's called being authentic.

Be you. Be your authentic self You're not here to impress anyone. Disperse the negativity.

5-Meo DMT Ayahuasca

@Forestluv do you mean low orange in the sense toxic orange?

The focus will be on better performance and high productivity in every niche in life.

A bolt of lightning. A life of freedom.

Try to focus on better things from now 1 Now the strategy in my life is to completely focus on Integrating Chakra systems and Stage Orange and Stage Green of the Spiral Dynamics Model and use them to guide myself spiritually. 2 Also the other focus is going to be absorbing large amounts of information or precious knowledge and implementing and executing it. 3 And third is going to be focusing on shadow work and intense healing. Be nice and be with Nice. And bringing positive changes and growth in my life.. Finally. Also self love and transcendence and overcoming neediness. Lots of changes and developments on the way

Am I vigilant of my self right now The answer is.... No

Play RPG game Cyberpunk 2077..awesome Be done with those 2 player opponent games

@Kay100 I doubt if it's that helpful but here it is.

How to balance between selflessness and selfishness on the stage orange spiral. The answer is Be vigilant

@abundance exactly. Absolutely agree. It's been rising since Trump.

@Kay100 i don't have perfect knowledge on this topic I have done some shadow work in 2018 where I used to constantly ask myself a lot of questions during meditation and keep exploring a trauma or issue. I eventually got the insight that it is coming from my childhood. After that, I'm trying to heal by uplifting my self esteem, these days I'm trying to work on self love. I'm myself a victim of trauma so I try whatever method works for me. But I have very limited knowledge I suggest you look up online for resources on shadow work and trauma healing. Lots of videos and articles on it. Even I need to explore them.