Preety_India

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  1. Narcissists don't care about the truth. That's why they are narcissists. All they care about is grand delusions and daily narcissistic supply.
  2. You're lacking stage blue that's why this is happening to you. Focus a bit on stage Blue. It will correct itself.
  3. The thing with narcissistic abuse is that even if you wanted to leave a narcissist, it's not possible. You might reject and leave the narcissist but the narcissist doesn't leave you. For example I would disappear for weeks from Joseph in order to leave him but somehow he would find me out and get me back with his sympathy seeking tears and love bombing. So the goal here is to make the narcissist leave you and this can be done by not giving the narcissist anything at all. Just nothing. Zero. No affection. No praise. No support no nothing.
  4. I'm also going to talk about toxic stimulation both toxic emotional stimulation and dopamine related stimulation And also dopamine withdrawal.
  5. Don't be a push over Don't be a people pleaser Build solid boundaries Don't be naive Block Empathy and absorb the empathy back to yourself Raise barriers and filters Be a good judge of character Avoid narcissists in the future Connect with Self and nature and Heal the inner sanctum Learn to say No Learn to reject narcissists Don't be afraid of offending someone who is violating your boundaries Don't get scared or impacted by someone's domination Everything is mirror, shadow and karma Learn to psychoanalyse people before they take a seat in your life in a more personal way Keep yourself emotionally safe. Work on emotional safety. Stop giving narcissists their narcissistic supply, stop praising them Don't be a codependent
  6. That there are so many beautiful ways in which you can discover the love from God.
  7. Nahm gave me really good advice. On coping with narcissistic abuse. Self love...top of mind .... Enough sleep. A clean diet. Daily exercise. Daily meditation. Aligning thoughts with feeling. Some time spent each day on what you enjoy, and specifically activities which highlight and expand on your unique gifts. Break routine. Take a solo trip somewhere new. Order / try something new, outside your typical day to day. Could be a new food, a more expressive flamboyant blouse, anything. Body pampering...not sure what the options are over there in India but things like mani & pedi, massage, float tanks, etc, etc. Anything whatsoever which is creative. Drawing, painting, clay, anything. To ‘connect’ in creation is ‘connect’ in self love. Then, happiness, peace of mind, love, etc, all the Goodies, are far less contingent upon relationships with others. Sun’s just gotta shine that’s your thingy. ? Narcissists would avoid you like the plague.
  8. I love this godzilla stuff.
  9. I don't know if narcissists become more and more shameless over time.
  10. @PurpleTree lol it looks lame and it doesn't sound dangerous like the one I posted, it just sounds whiny. The one I posted shows the dangers of herd mentality. Rejecting Trump will actually be good for the herd
  11. The psychoanalysis of Lazarus
  12. @PurpleTree make a herd mentality left Meme then. Let's see.
  13. @egoeimai it's good you're not scared of him. Never have any fear at all. Fear is what they try to feed on. They become powerless when you are fearless.
  14. @egoeimai I'm sorry to hear about that. Does that man live in your country? And if he does, can you file a complaint with the police? If he is from a different country, filing a complaint can be almost impossible. I agree that online dating can be very dangerous. Don't ever do that. Some of my girlfriends are suffering similar situations.
  15. Haha Ok I'm just joking here, I invented my own silly logic. 2016 the year trump was elected. 2016 + 666 = 2682 Trump's birth year is 1946 and birth day is number 14. 2682 - 1946 = 736 736 + 14 = 750 Trump paid the tax of just 750 dollars in 2016. This is not to say that Trump is the antichrist. Just joking.
  16. God created the world in 6 days. And on the 7th day, he created the Devil. (joking) ...
  17. @Frylock thanks. I hope this thread remains alive till then.
  18. I'm going to order a special cake and post the picture here with nice labeling the day Trump leaves the white house. Can anyone please tell me the exact date of his physical departure from WH so I can place the order a week before?
  19. What is the most healthy alternative source of love? The answer is God.