Preety_India

Being ignorant and being destructive are two different things.

I see it more as unconscious versus conscious drives. So your unconscious drives are to sit around, get lazy, get rest whereas you your conscious drives are to workout zest organic etc. As with everything else, both should be in balance and moderation What I found is if I give in too much to my unconscious drives, it's instant gratification but long term loss whereas if I invested totally into conscious drives, it leaves me feeling very robotic and controlled.. That's why you need a balance.

I was talking about the the devdoot concept. It's about angels from God. Try to bring power to yourself and don't spread this power into people who don't deserve it Be with people with at least normal Decency.

It's important to have emotional balance.

In my opinion, Shannan was a narcissist as shown in this video and Chris was a codependent in the marriage. I don't know what to say about Nicole. About Jodi, I really dont see any signs of narcissism in her, she is more manipulative. I'd rather say Travis was more of a narcissist. However Jodi fits the profile of a psychopath. Casey Anthony who I would consider a psychopath and Elliot Rodger a known narcissist..

So what are your values exactly? You're being a bit vague by simply throwing in words like etiquette, culture, society, values, environment, etc. But you never said what exactly are these things that you find objection with? Like specific examples. Also how would you lay out your own plan or value system about it all? Because we're not just individuals but also members of a society. So social needs also have to be factored in. Relationship is a two way street. If you think a certain way doesn't accommodate your needs then maybe it could be that your way doesn't accommodate their needs?

@Eph75 that's why I said I don't know for sure.

It's about connection. A feeling rather than a need. A mutual feeling

Not really. It's all about getting along and having a sense of connection. This is not a criteria though. You basically don't measure that person from top to bottom, you love them for who they really are. I'd call it stage green harmonious dating.

She could be an NPD/BPD. I don't know for sure. But she is definitely not a good mother if she doesn't have the instinct to understand that this is hurting you.

@ertopolice but there are so many people who don't go to the gym and don't train and yet are decently healthy. There are millions who can't afford a gym or they just don't have gym around in their place I don't get it. People in the 1940s didn't have 'going to gym' lifestyle Didn't they date, marry or have children? This is a very new thing that the current, basically my generation is very obsessed about I kinda don't like it. I'm not saying that someone should be fat and lazy But this whole idea translates like those who don't go to the gym just aren't healthy, but there are millions with no health problems and they are not into fitness and they don't go the gym. It's almost like saying a woman will only like a man who has biceps or a man will only like a woman with a totally flat tummy. It looks kinda egoic to me. It's also similar to saying that someone will date someone only if they have a certain kind of money. It's the whole money sex obsession that doesn't whet my appetite. I think dating should be less about criteria selection and more about falling in love. I can fall in love with anyone as long as they are loving. I'd want them to be healthy but let's see if they have a bad habit, I wouldn't reject them for that. The world is getting to a point where pe are either too obsessed with the latest trend or are very social media savvy, it's getting scary because this trend is in itself very unhealthy the way it plays on the human psyche. There is no nothing natural about this stage Orange Kinda dating. I can easily see why it's a recipe for divorce. It looks very shallow and self serving, dump when not useful kind of a culture.

I need to be more direct henceforth and say what I want to say and then just scream END OF DISCUSSION.

The typical NPD/BPD kind of moms that drive me nuts.

Nice shoes. Not sharp but nice. People always talk about the polished look. How about a rugged look from the 1930s Wild West movies, it's not like a rough look cannot look cool, sometimes it does if someone knows how to pull it off.. Tip - just wear a rusty leather jacket and boots. Of course you can't wear that in a mall. People might think it's period costume and assume you are cosplaying. But hey, in those good old days, people wore some nice things. What can be possibly more stylish than a cigar, a belt and a pistol!

I'd say that they are more conscientious..

How much bad karma are you going to collect? Some people never change. People like you. Yesterday you came and hit me.. Why don't you admit that you are a toxic person who ruined my life?

Wouldn't you trust God completely?

@Khr yea the first one looks clownish. The last one looks very cute.

That God led you here no matter what

I never got the whole fitness freak craze. I like a naturally solid man with a rugged chest and arms. The whole buffed look from the gym like "social media ready" look seems very contrived and superficial. Is it only me? To me it's like "trying too hard." I don't know. But the man who seems like he just came back from some heavy labor, that natural tough look on his face and his hardened body, that looks amazing. To me the whole gym thing looks lame and nerdy Putin, maybe he goes to the gym, I don't know but he has this rugged look on his body that is very appealing

It looks like a big long dick to be honest. I personally prefer the whole cowboy costume. It makes a man look so sexy omg.

December 26, 2020. Merry Christmas to all journalers and users. Have a great day. Spreading the Christmas vibe.

I really want some deep deep insights to permeate my space.