Preety_India

Yep. Kinda complex.

I'm so happy, yoohooo

This is the ultimate reality, so true. This is so beautiful Mandy.

Awesome. ??

This is so beautiful Mandy.

I find it funny how someone who doesn't want kids demonizes those who have kids and those who have kids demonize those who don't. It's a weird dynamic. I think there is nothing wrong with either With the fall in family values across the globe, more people are into demonizing those who want children or already have kids. Kinda reverse mode.

Having children is a matter of biology because the body produces hormones. It's a scientific survival based process for all species. And at the fundamental levels, we are animals. But we like to think we are different because of additional cognitive faculties. But remove all that helps to make decisions, then we come back to animal state. Modern living removes interest in children. In the 4th century, not having children would've been considered unthinkable, not just culturally but biologically as well.. Our evolution has definitely shunted and diminished some of those raw animal instincts.

This is the big people family, the one that you create when you grow up with your friends and teammates. Have you heard of such Families?

@Understander this is not completely true. People have kids because they love children and family. People who don't have kids or don't want to have, won't understand this sentiment. My dad used to love kids. He wanted many kids. Although his financial situation was not going to support his desires. Some people want big families. Growing up as a child, I always imagined a big family with many siblings and relatives. I craved for it. There is a certain warmth in having children and family around you. I do find solace in Solitude. But having a family is a special gift.. It's just that it's quite difficult especially the financial part. A lot of people want to have many children..

@Philipp this thought did come to my mind at some point. I'm glad you made the post.

Because the devil wants to snatch you from you.

Just a loving embrace, just a loving embrace

@Blackbeat thank you, sis.

@mmKay hey you have a lovely child. ❤️❤️❤️❤️

@DocWatts your profile pic is a good example

I want to have kids, not right now but a few years down the road, right now I'm still not prepared for life yet. (wasted all my time with fuckboys, ugh)

@Intraplanetary that's awesome.

But how is that selfish? Isn't wanting a baby the most selfless agenda in the world? It's about nurturing and raising a life. The way you raise a pet, the way you grow a tree, the way you grow a farm Children of today become the contributors of tomorrow. What can be more selfless than creation?

What agenda exactly?

Yea I understand that child birth is difficult. But I'm here today because some woman (ofc my mom) wanted a child and was ready to go through the pain of child birth. Without that pain, I wouldn't be here today

@mandyjw @Leo Gura Children are the most beautiful things God created Mandy you're lucky, treasure your family

Yep totally.

@datamonster I know these things aren't cheap. Fingers crossed on this one. I think the OP(diamond penguin) should ask other students if it worked for them, please don't take blind decisions. Can fuck up your career early on.

@Hello from Russia I think Bernie is definitely gonna try his mittens

The first thought in your mind should be " I'M NOT A FAILURE. AND I'LL NEVER THINK I'M A FAILURE. I'M COMPLETELY FINE THE WAY I AM AND I WILL ONLY GET BETTER. " Please work on this everyday.