Preety_India

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  1. I think this world is divided into good and bad people. Good people aren't materialistic. Evil people want to dominate whereas good people want to surrender. Power is like a litmus test. Most people who are good are not power hungry and won't put themselves into positions of power. Bad people see any way to dominate as a great opportunity. They easily put themselves into positions of power. Naturally most people who compete for power are evil people We cannot solve this paradox until we find a solution for what predatory people use and that is weapons. Weapons create a problem.. What do groups of bad people use against good people? Weapons to create fear some of these weapons are - fear, violence, death threats. These are the basic weapons that causes good people to back off and not fight the bad. It's important to destroy these weapons. To reduce threat, fear, violence by punishing anyone who uses them. By putting such people in jail. By retracting the very thing used that causes suppression. The weapons. The weapons need to be destroyed. They need to be neutralized in order to create balance of power. When weapons are used, the predators get more powerful than the prey very easily. Remove the teeth and nails of the tiger and the tiger can do nothing. In a stage Red culture and even in stage Blue, these weapons are the main source of the problem. Such weapons are extensively used against good people to keep them from getting power. Good people back off out of fear. This is the strategy. Good people don't use such weapons because they don't want unity, they don't like to create fear or violence. So this gives an unhealthy advantage to sociopaths who use these weapons since they will only be used against good people but nobody will use it against bad people So one way of tackling the situation that evil people dominating good people is to have a universal restriction on the use of threat, fear, suppression and violence. This needs a strong law enforcement system that will handle the ones who use such weapons. An independent body that is not influenced by the power in the state. A body that simply restrains the use of weapons. This way it would create more opportunities to compete against bad people and get power. Once you get a powerful good leader who only has best interests in his mind, in the absence of threat and violence he can execute important actions and resolve issues, putting an end to corruption.
  2. You over analyze online stuff.
  3. This is what PTSD looks like
  4. Another technique to deal with a stressor is to create a Fertile Film between you and the stressor. What does this mean? You crser
  5. Another fundamental principle of my life system is - You need to take full responsibility and ownership of your life in every manner possible.
  6. @Rilles gather resources on YouTube and articles on ways to reduce hypochondriac tendencies. My brother had it. He tried suggestions and tips on the internet. He is doing much better now. It's easy to heal it if you start working on it
  7. One thing is to learn how not to react but to respond Respond rather than react. It's the first step.
  8. Hypochondria. Get therapy for it Mind programming.
  9. How to heal PTSD? One thing is to know to react to a stressor. I'm a long term sufferer of PTSD probably more than 5 years.
  10. Maybe not focus so much on parameters and metrics. If the goal is dating, you could date anyone and anyone could date you. The possibilities in dating are endless. I have watched 50 year olds getting married and finding life partners when they are so old and they don't give up dating. What matters is what you make out of life. Don't put limits on what you can do in life
  11. The other part of the life system is morality. Morality is an essential component of my life system because I've always believed that morality is a key component of living. Without which we are led astray. In regard to this, I've created two basic principles of morality in my life system These are - 1) to Be a good person 2) to be an authentic or genuine person Now I classify people on the traits of goodness (moral traits ) and authenticity and the following is the scale to determine this classification Good and genuine Good and not genuine (faking good ) Bad and genuine (openly declaring how bad you are ) Bad and not genuine (trying to hide how bad you are ) In this classification, number 1 is very good. Number 2 is slightly good or okay. Number 3 is a bit confusing. It could be that you're ignorant but honest about your bad nature. Maybe you don't have ill intent but just ignorant. Or you're totally shameless about being bad, just extraordinarily bad. Extremely bad. Number 4 is bad. Extremely bad. While following the Life System Program, you will try your best to be a Good person and to be a Genuine person who is being honest about their intentions in life whether it's dating, career, spirituality. Which means you are going to focus on 2 major values Being morally and ethically good Being Open hearted about yourself and your intentions. You will always express yourself authentically.
  12. The foundational Principle of my Life System Program. This is not just a course it's also like a program. So in the beginning it's like a course because it teaches certain fundamental concepts and parts of the system. Later on in the practice session or implemention phase, you can use it like a program or system. That's why I call it a system. It embodies every component of life. The foundational Principle of my Life System Program. The foundational principle of this system is that your life loves you infinitely. More than you'll ever know. So you need to love your life in the same way. Your life will love you back even more. Treat your life like this. Always remember that no matter how much you hate your life, your life loves you more than anyone in the world.
  13. Here I'll try to emphasize two types of brains and therefore two types of loci. One is the reptilian brain And the higher is the higher brain Higher brain = rational brain + cognitive brain(analytical brain ) + reasoning brain (causative analysis ) + spiritual brain (absorbing brain ) One is locus of survival. And the other is locus of higher self.
  14. The life system is going to be a combination of both survival and non survival components and an optimal balance between the two.
  15. One component of the system is "understanding dynamic " However dynamic operates on many levels. It's important to cultivate systems thinking. In understanding dynamic, whatever dynamic you're trying to understand there's a crucial factor. And it's the level. Many dynamics are operating at different levels.. For example I can say a current situation has a certain basic dynamic operating in it. But I think of the situation from a distant angle, I can catch another dynamic hovering over this dynamic. I'll call it the secondary dynamic.. When I go further with my Meta analysis, I see another dynamic from top controlling and influencing all the dynamics below. I'll call this the Tertiary dynamic. So here we go. I've the Primary Dynamic. The Secondary Dynamic and the Tertiary Dynamic..
  16. Other components of the Life System The components are as follows - Awareness of self and system Progress Focus. Protection. Resolution (of situations and hurdles) Attention Perception Connection (to selves) Understanding dynamic Compensation (try to have which you don't have or are lacking ) Integration (integrate a little bit of everything ) You will include these components in your daily routine. Detailed Explanation of these components will be given later.
  17. third step - Mountain based Resolution track The third step involves keeping a track on the obstacles and challenges in life and keeping a record of how you deal with them.. Life is not just about linear growth or spiritual growth In the picture below, you can see mountain shaped triangular structures. These represent challenges. The numbers indicate the number of hurdles or challenges or obstacles resolved or dealt with. The black structures represent bigger or harder hurdles/problems/situations and the blue structures indicate lighter hurdles. You can even write numbers at the bottom of these structures to keep a tab on the problems or the number of problems that were unresolved. That way you get a clearer picture of what problems were resolved and what weren't you could leave a small description of this problem on your assessment paper.
  18. The Second step - Plane based Growth Track This growth is upwards. Means it is going through several planes or dimensions. It's about bringing a change in mindset through contemplation. Expanding your consciousness. This requires deep work. This is not everyday mechanical progress. Here the progress is more spirituality and consciousness oriented. It's not about diet, fitness, dating or career. It's about a deeper understanding of the world, reality and the universe. It needs deeper knowledge. As your knowledge and awareness deepens (through insight, visualization and contemplation and experience ) you go from one plane of consciousness to the next higher plane. You can see changes in your perception of the world, gradual shifts in your mentality, perception and mindset, shifts in your level of awareness and consciousness and different paradigms getting integrated into your thinking, you will discover something new and insightful and your spiritual growth will happen in doses. You will feel you are on a new plane. On every new plane you will feel like you know reality better and you will know something more about you, about life about universe, about spirituality and you will outgrow your last phase or plane. I'll call this growth vertical growth. And it's more of a spiritual growth than mechanical. As you grow, you can number the planes. For example you might say that you are at plane 1 right now. Maybe a month later when you see a significant change, you can say you are at plane 2, this change can happen in weeks as well. The higher the plane, the better you're doing progress wise. Keep a track of your progress by going through the planes, advancing through them, how you decide if you have reached the next plane is arbitrary and up to you. If you feel you have grown psychologically and spiritually, note it down and mark it.
  19. So the first step of the course is to focus on Mechanical Growth Tracking. This means you focus on certain aspects of your life that you can easily change without needing extreme changes in your consciousness. For example. Diet. You can change your diet. Track the progress on your diet everyday. I'll call this linear growth. You could improve your health, fitness, meditation, yoga, career, passion, hobbies, job etc. This is mechanical progress because you can do these things without much contemplation or mindset change. These are basic routine everyday things that you can work on to improve. So I'll call it mechanical growth. How to track this growth? For example if you started dieting and exercising to improve your fitness like a week ago. Then give yourself points depending on your progress. These are not reward points. These are progress points or indicators of how much progress you did. For example for day 1, you can say your progress point is 1. If on day 4 you made good progress, you could allot yourself 10 points and so on. So let's say you get 100 points. This mean you made considerable progress. There is no end point. It's an infinite scale that will continue through and track your progress. This figure is good at understanding this concept. This is the first step of the Life System Course.
  20. I finished reading all of your posts. I hope Bulgaria decriminalizes marijuana and legalizes gay marriage. From the looks of it, it seems Bulgaria is steeped in traditional more Orthodox Christianity. Regarding the mafia issue, it takes an army of men with a big spine to take over heroically or else it becomes a pipe dream. You have only €200 in your pocket so don't get duped or scammed. Try to have a strong survival first. You need money to get things done. Even if you have money being a revolutionary means you can easily lose it. I can sense that there is a lot of violence in your country, correct me if I'm wrong. This violence can easily hinder people from taking action as violence generates fear and suppression. The people are going through deep trauma because of mafia control. In order to fight such an environment, you need plenty of resources and support. You might want to find like minded people in your town or city and create a political party out of it. Gather these people. Open a blog where you can share updates. I recommend starting a youtube channel and transfer the videos to the blog to highlight different situations in your country. If there is an international media in your country, get in touch with them. International media provides protection from mafia or bad controlling government The most important tool is education. Write pamphlets and tell people on the street. This is creating awareness from the grassroots. Get heard more, on twitter or youtube or a media outlet. Hope you do the necessary on your journey. @TheDude0
  21. That's too vague. You could pm me about it to be more precise. Wait I'll pm you.
  22. A shortlist Bloomberg The Conversation Reuters allsides.com David Pakman( left leaning mainstream but good analysis ) Ground News The Associated Press
  23. A shortlist Bloomberg The Conversation Reuters allsides.com David Pakman( left leaning mainstream but good analysis ) Ground News The Associated Press
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