Preety_India

Lmao don't get me wrong. I'm not like that at all. I have never hired anyone. I was only saying that I won't judge it or I don't see anything wrong with it. I love deep intimacy and connection and emotional bonding. In fact I have never had casual sex. I only have LTR, long term relationship and I have never slept with some stranger or engaged in casual sex. I don't believe in only satisfying sexual needs because I'm an emotional kind of person who loves emotional connection and affection. I am the lovey dovey poet type. But like I said I don't demonize or think bad about those who want to fulfill their wants by commercial means..

@Something Funny I'm not going to believe a bunch of posts on the internet. Whatever I have said is speculative but it's not bad or far fetched. It's not like men don't hire them, they do it all the time. Yes of course it's not a substitute for a relationship, it's only meant for sex. Religious and cultural beliefs tend to demonize this side of things and make it seem or look dirty or bad or unholy.

Or it could become reverse where someone brags about hiring an expensive escort.

Felt too exhausted and tired right now.

I don't agree with this at all. If I were (which I have never) to hire a male escort, these thoughts would not even ever cross my mind, I would simply order it like ordering pizza. I wouldn't think emotionally about it, it would be simply for getting sexual pleasure, that is all. I think you probably don't get my point. It could be completely reverse. It could be that I've a great personality yet the sex I received from most guys was boring or average and I want to be adventurous and I want mind blowing sex and maybe that's the reason I want to hire an expert or professional who knows how to offer that. Plus paying someone to have sex or give sex is far safer and better than going on a one night stand with some weird stranger who is just drunk or wants to use me for a one night stand, that is hurtful rather than pleasurable and kinda weird why I would subject myself to such a weird experience. Rather I would spend my money safely on a service that makes me feel happy. It's almost ordering massage service, I'm not going to feel used that way plus my urges are fulfilled for the night. Maybe the male prostitute or escort can give me the hottest sex, remember sex generates hormones of feeling relaxed, loved, accepted. So sexual affection is also something. Plus escorts are not exactly only for sex as you're being led to believe. Some escorts provide services (or at least I saw this on a show or documentary) where they spend a lot of time with you, chatting and listening so you feel loved and cared for, it almost becomes like a relationship, rather a professional relationship where you meet them every week at a specific rate and they are tied to you like a regular service. They will spend hours with you and you get not only sex but also venting your issues and talking. Some guys get addicted to that and keep coming back to the same prostitute or escort every week. It almost becomes like a relationship, yet it has no foundation, it is just a way of feeling good. Honestly I don't judge how someone chooses to make themselves happy. The escorts business is a billion dollar industry. So a lot of people pay escorts to get easy sex. The only two fears that are prevalent are the fear of being robbed or the fear of Stds. Other than that the fears or concerns one might have are the same that one has while sleeping with a stranger. In fact sleeping with a stranger on a one night stand is rather risky and dangerous. Whereas an escort from an escort agency is probably safe because of ratings and reviews and the fact that they are hired by these companies by doing background checks so they won't hire malicious individuals. I would actually prefer the sex industry to grow in the future. Especially for women. Because I rarely ever hear about male prostitutes. And women need to be open to this idea. There should be bars or clubs like stripper bars for women to hang out with male escorts dressed like the male version of playboy bunny. I don't see the harm. Women want fun too, especially safe fun. They can hang out with a guy who is not only experienced sexually but is also offering his company and is good at chatting up the woman. It doesn't have to be something bad or nefarious. In fact for some men this could be a delightful job, not only do they get sex but also money for the kind of sex they offer and the pleasure to sleep with multiple female clients. This could be amazing if looked at without judgement or suspicion and if the security measures are taken good care. I find it ethical if it is done in an ethical manner where people are screened for background verification, Stds screening, and only "safe" people are hired to do the job so clients aren't robbed or mistreated. This can be an ethical business. In fact I'm looking forward to a future where selling sex in such a way would be made ethical and safer. It's almost like selling food. I also don't see any problem with it. In fact those who enjoy such things might love such a job as long as safety is considered on both sides.. That is the client should also be equally safe with background checks etc. This seems to be a safer way of experiencing sexual intimacy rather than taking the risk of sleeping with a stranger whose background you are probably not very sure about, especially if they are drunk.

Again I see this as social conditioning, as though getting sex by other means should be demonized for some reason. Here I'm not talking about love or relationship. It's only about sex. So if someone isn't able to get sex in usual or social ways, they can resort to such means to get their sexual desires fulfilled, gender being irrelevant. I don't see a problem with it, instead of thinking of it as something horrible or garbage, I see it as a suitable alternative for those who have a high sex drive and have been sex deprived for long. I absolutely don't see any problem with it. Anything against is a deeply held social belief that anyone who wants to satisfy themselves this way is a loser, which shouldn't have to be.

I can't speak for other women. But for me, it's primarily the face of a guy, a cute face turns me on. The eyes especially. If he has beautiful eyes. And then it's how he speaks. He needs to be affectionate and respectful and sweet, I find that extremely sexy about a guy.

Prostitutes and escorts are a bit different. Escorts can be really hot looking. I think this is pure social conditioning. I don't see anything wrong with seeking sex via a prostitute or escort. If someone wanted to be experimental with sex, they can choose how they want it to be. Of course the game component doesn't exist. I wouldn't feel bad at all. I won't judge it. It's just me having fun I won't stoop to social conditioning to get my needs met.

Yes why not. Attraction cannot be decided. It can happen on both sides-male and female. Nobody needs to be immature here unless you're opting for a really bad partner just for a relationship. In that case I would say it's a rather dumb idea. Otherwise most people actually get sexually or physically attracted to the person they fall in love with. Physical attraction, whether male or female has a lot to do with it. So if a man is hot and sexy, females will fall for him, even though he is dumb. Just like men fall for attractive females without looking for much else.

If you just want these girls for a night of sex, then why do you spend at these expensive nightclubs. Why don't you just hire escorts? Why do you need to do all this if your goal is to get sex for a night? Just curious.

I'm not sure if 50€ is a huge thing. But imo I still would never spend money on these gigs, clubs, concerts etc, seems like filling up the pockets of shallow pop stars who are already swimming in money thanks to naive people throwing money at them simply to get a glimpse, not saying that they don't have talent, yet in my opinion they are mostly hyped and overpaid. My money can go to something useful like a great meal at a cozy restaurant or a nice book or beach drinks. At least I get something of value in return. Some relaxation.

My God, please tell me who this Calvin Harris is. And I'm no newbie. I know major Hollywood pop stars like Justin Bieber and all the Hollywood current famous artists in music, yet I haven't heard of this Calvin guy lol. By the way I won't pay even $10 to watch Drake. Too boring.

I see now.

Now it makes sense lmao. I was thinking that these girls are paying to be there. So I was wondering why would a girl spend so much money just to meet a guy Lmfao!!

If the girls don't pay for it,then how do they get entry into such expensive clubs? And of course if these girls fly in to be at such places, aren't they at least paying for the flight tickets? And what's the motive for these girls to come to such clubs in the first place? If these are hot girls, then hot girls can literally get any guy for sex. Why would hot girls come to an expensive club for sex? Something sounds fishy.

I'm a bit confused. Are these girls so rich that they can afford these entry prices every week? And they also fly in to these places just for sex? But why would these party girls spend so much money just for sex? It doesn't make sense. They can be with any guy who lives around them and have sex with them for free. Why would these women pay so much every week for sex? Are they sex workers, high class models, or simply very rich women or are these women looking for something more other than sex, like getting some millionaire? @Tangerinedream are these super rich girls or something? How does someone spend that kind of money?

You slowly slowly go from one to another. I went from Blue to Green. But I struggle at yellow. So I'm still at Green developmentally and ethically.

Decent people find other decent people.

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No nonsense in my journal please. Any unpleasant comment by anyone will be deleted. People have a bad habit of commenting unpleasant stuff and I have low tolerance for that shit. Learning how to keep my boundaries intact.

Hehe back after 3 hours. I love talking to myself. I like this journaling style where I talk to myself.

I'll use this page to discuss Taskmasters as well

It seems as though I slept off despite my best efforts to stay awake. Nevermind Maybe I needed that rest

I feel so frightened, nervous, tired and exhausted all the time, on top of feeling cold and weak. I threw up last night, when I woke up I had a severe headache because the cold air got into my ears. My mom told me to get a cancer test. I don't know why I have so much to work on and I sometimes feel very defeated as though I just can't ever have the energy to get stuff done.

Genetics has a huge role to play. My family has a long history of it.