Preety_India

I thought Canada was/is a democracy. I don't know much about Canada.

Would a girl tolerate if her boyfriend was drooling over some hot celebrity model day in day out? I know that girls would easily break up with the guy, jealous or not jealous. Let's not be sexist here. If you feel jealous, validate those emotions instead of guilting yourself. If I were in your position, I would have never put up being the side guy. Like fuck it. There are better girls who respect their guy. I mean this is not some ordinary celebrity crush of simply having posters and listening to their music, it goes way beyond that and it's obviously hurtful behavior. I also had crushes. But I never outrightly rubbed it into my boyfriend's face or expect him to put up with a full load of it. I didn't take my boyfriends so much for granted. You sure you won't find a better girl. And that lack of self confidence is on you. I hate it when people encourage a guy to simply put up with a woman's bullshit in a relationship (call it feminism lol). Blatant sexism. Put your foot down or keep dealing with girls who give you a shitty treatment for simping them. Choice is yours Mind you. These same girls will dump you when their job is done. Then you will come crying home regretting everything you did for them.. Don't encourage this guy to act like a sucker. Man up

There are information poachers on the internet I kinda get it.

I was just pointing out that sometimes a lot of people aren't interested in going to clubs. Clubs can be loud. Some people don't feel very nice in a club environment. Especially introverted people like me.

You're so elegant and a hottie. Anyone who rejects you, it's their loss.

This post kinda hurt me today. This post kinda hurt me a bit. Watching blatant racism. Yea when you're ethnic and then considered a less important person. However my spiritual work helps me deal with it.

2022.

You can improve your core intelligence and cultivate other skills. We all have moments where we feel dumb They key is to not ruminate on it, but to get back up and fix it. Don't let such thoughts discourage you.

Spiritual work helps to deal with racism. My hurt feelings have gone down significantly due to spiritual work in the area of racism. This involves kindness, acceptance, grace, understanding and letting go. Knowing that I can't control how humanity acts. And at the same time understanding human nature. This post touched me but I'm trying not to cry. That's understandable and I feel sorry for you brother. But remember when they go low, you go high. Embrace the nature of humanity. I've faced racism too. But I let it go. I don't allow it to create hate in me. God gives grace to those who have been neglected, persecuted and looked down upon. I understand your feelings. At the same time, your honor does not lie with how others treat you, it lies in your own grace. Anyways I don't make a big deal out of racism. I have a matured outlook towards it now after doing spiritual work. I understand human nature now. Spiritual works helps to deal with racism. Take care.

Schnugglingly wakes up.

I can't imagine living in Russia. Feels like a totalitarian hell hole. Good Leo left Russia for US. That's why we have him or else? I remember Leo saying that he would stand in line for bread and his days in Russia were painful. Honestly I'm so glad Leo left that country.

Hehe I wasn't able to sleep, I tried but some pain in my shoulder didn't allow me to sleep. I feel like I'm sitting on a flight. Okay buttercup, time to sleep and snore. Get up after a few hours and start journaling again.

I was waiting for this. Thanks for sharing.

What others say shouldn't matter to you. Just because someone's on a spiritual platform, they're not automatically spiritual. They aren't screened in advance to be here, so anybody can join. So technically it's not spiritual recklessness. It is simply "recklessness." You applied the precursor "spiritual" to it because you're on a spiritual forum expecting things to be a certain way. Handsome is as handsome does. Stupid is as stupid does. Spiritual is as spiritual does. Don't judge people by title or place, judge by actions and words.

May your dad find strength.

I'm talking about even before feelings are involved not after, just to clarify. In that case it's not manipulation if the guy directly tells me in the very first conversation that he wants sex. He is simply expressing what he wants. But it still feels like he doesn't see me as a human being but more as an object that is to be used for his needs. It hurts self esteem because it feels like I'm good for nothing other than sex. Also the feeling that I am an instrument to be used for sex and forgotten later. As though I'm not a woman, as though I have no emotions. It feels antithetical to my womanhood because a woman feels emotional. I can't speak for other women though. But I feel like utter garbage if a man approached me and asked me for sex. (being treated like a prostitute) It's one thing to be approached for romance, relationship and marriage (there's respect in this) and it's another thing to be approached just for sex (you think I'm a whore is the question that immediately pops in mind) If a guy said that he wants me as a gf lover or partner for life, there is a certain respect for that. Imagine if I approached a man who is wealthy and said "hey I want to hang out with you just for your money or else I won't even look at you," would that man feel good about himself if every woman did this to him It's a matter of respect and disrespect not about manipulation That's why I cried because I felt disrespected I hope you understood now @something_else I won't feel disrespected if a guy asked me to be his gf. In that case I would feel adored.

I think I would really prefer an emotional connection before someone brings up sex. There's no point in being with a person who is not genuinely interested in me but simply attracted to me for sex. Without my emotional needs met, I would feel very deprived and hollow. I don't like casual sex for the same reason. I can only have sex in the context of a relationship, otherwise I feel empty.

To each his own. Just be honest with your intent and it won't lead to broken hearts.

Hmm. One guy asked me out for sex very outrightly. I was offended and blocked him immediately. Guess depends on who you are texting. I felt objectified and broke down in tears later. (nothing worse than feeling objectified as a body or piece of meat for sexual gratification)

Time for me to fall asleep again *sends a cute heart to honeydew and a kiss.

What percentage population of Ukraine is Jewish?

It's usually when you suffer from mania.

You cannot love yourself if you cannot accept yourself.