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I can go into Low attraction phases. Silent mode Solitude in my shell mode Memory loss mode.

If you give a woman love, protection, value, security, fulfillment and intimacy, then she will definitely want kids with you. Hell women have kids for way less.

After contemplating for hours, my mind came up with these insights. Never trust anyone completely Never be too attached to human life, life can change on a dime. Never be too attached to human love Only be attached to one thing - that is your own mind, that's the only thing within your control and the only thing where you will eventually find peace. Cultivate a garden in your mind, that's the only thing that will stay forever other than your heart. Cultivate a garden in your mind and in your heart. This is the wisdom that came to me today.

After contemplating for hours, my mind came up with these insights. Never trust anyone completely Never be too attached to human life, life can change on a dime. Never be too attached to human love Only be attached to one thing - that is your own mind, that's the only thing within your control and the only thing where you will eventually find peace. Cultivate a garden in your mind, that's the only thing that will stay forever other than your heart. Cultivate a garden in your mind and in your heart. This is the wisdom that came to me today.

Question to all the men on the forum. What traits internal and external do you guys consider to be feminine? I think I'm physically feminine. But when I look at extremely feminine women and the way they talk and move and behave, it makes me wonder how they do that. I juggle between wanting to be feminine and following feminist ideals of ambition, power and success. Sometimes I want to be peaceful, delicate and quiet. Sometimes I want to unleash my inner tiger. When I get confrontational, it is usually not a very feminine thing to watch. It's a very attractive look when I see an extremely feminine woman speak and act. Sometimes it feels like they're putting on a fake act, yet it is still attractive. I want to know how to be more feminine. And also I want to ask the men on the forum what qualities both external (like style of speaking and mannerisms) and internal (like inner traits and virtues) do you consider feminine? Please be honest. Please don't troll with answers like big boobs. I'm sure you look for more in a woman than just that. More responses will be helpful.

Masculinity is your ability to step into tension and be grounded in tension. Look at navy seals, firemen, police men, or men who are good with women. Look how grounded they are in their body. They are in control, completely vulnerable, yet containing and penetrating the world through their level of emotional embodiment. Becoming masculine is all about developing your grounding ability in relationship to tension. Those examples above, if you visualize their energy for a bit, you can start to feel the contrast with your own internal energy and see the gap in masculine grounding ability. Walk a bit through the city, and feel your level of contraction in relationship to the world around you. How penetrative are you with your energy? How expansive are you? Is your self-expression limited? How reactive are you to your external environment and also to your internal one; the emotions and thoughts about yourself. Do you have a lot of fear, shame and apathy? Are you taking any responsibility? Are you making decisions? Are you procrastinating and lazy? What is your long term vision? Do you always want to be contained instead of being your own container? Your masculine is only going to develop through challenge and serious embodiment work. It is uncomfortable for sure. Especially if you lack solid grounding. It takes time to build that. You will need to walk a path where you are being confronted with all the uncomfortable stuff that will build you over time. Get out there, be challenged, seek challenge. Seek confrontation, spend time in nature, walk around the city without shirt and shoes, become primal again. Do martial arts, build a masculine physique, stop masturbating and half-assing things. Go to men retreats such as awakened masculinity. Face your social fears, face social rejection, confront your emotions, start to build a conscious relationship with your body where you release tension systematically, start to model your reality energetically and then bring it down into the physical body, spend time with other men, get good at game and socialization. Are you taking responsibility in fixing your diet, doing your routines, sticking with right habits, focussing on money stuff, doing daily chores? Are you sticking to a right sleeping schedule? Are you focussing on a deeper purpose in terms of career? So much stuff you can do man, but the key is: Face tension, gain experience, get out there, stop jacking off, and commit fully. Embodiment is what you are after and it comes after a lot of experience in the physical world where you are confronting emotions, both internal from childhood such as fear and shame for example, but also emotions that external reality pushes onto you where you have to be able to contain them and ground them, such as being physically confronted by dominant aggressive males for example. If you want a feminine women, you need to be able to contain her. Your energy needs to feel solid, where the flow of your consciousness is going down into the earth, because you feel stable and powerful, ready for anything. This is all the result of a lot of experience. A feminine woman has the deepest desire to be contained in a relationship, to feel safe to express her feminine energy. Make it your life purpose to connect to this masculine energy, and once you do, you can drop this intention because you are embodied. This karma is then gone away from your identity and you make place for other purpose. Some practices to start: Join a gym, build strength Eat healthy Do Martial arts, jiu jitsu, muay thai, mma, .... Wake up early, take a cold shower Walk in nature barefoot, expose your body to the world, leave t shirt home Social exposure: Become comfortable facing rejection. Face rejection and let go of attachment to validation. Letting go / releasing practices: Hypnosis, meditation, body awareness, sedona/lester levenson/ hawkins Approach women Do oshos dynamic meditation early in the morning in a public park. Find a community of like minded men: The Fearless man on youtube for example. Go to workshops and retreats for men: Awakened masculinity, fearless man workshops, .... Psychedelics: Letting go of your self-identity Full body awareness when outdoors: relaxation and belly breathing Look people in the eyes when you walk down the street, feel the tension. Penetrate people with your energy. No half-assing These things have the aim to release feelings that are currently blocking your natural flow of masculine energy. When done as daily routines, with full commitment, these things will adapt your nervous system over the months and years and there comes a point of permanent embodiment where these shifts in feeling that result from the practices, form a natural part of your identity. Things are effortless and expansive then. You have total freedom. You can then start to let go of some of the practices if you wish. You have a lot more dynamic range in the things you can do because you are not contracted by blockages any more. Your feminine and masculine become more synergistic and harmonize, and you can bounce between them whenever you wish to. And the most important thing... Stop compulsive consumption of theory. And let go of needing to change over night. Change never happens as a result of one thing you do. It is compounded effect over time that is what changes you, just as building muscles will change the body. Tension and resistance will change your masculine embodiment level. And it is a proces that works over time. 1% each day. Take action and let go of needing to understand everything, needing to find the big answer, the next book that contains all the answers etc. Do the practices that are causing you to feel resistance, and do them rigorously with a david goggins mentality.

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That's a very interesting take. I like it. Thanks for sharing it.

@RickyFitts why don't you start a different journal? I would have preferred to sometimes discuss things with you. This journal is only about songs so I kinda don't feel writing here. I would have appreciated if you had another separate journal.

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Lmao what's going on with Musk? I have seen a lot of people do this. One guy here changed his profile to a female. Then Nahm changed his profile to female. I've seen such trends before where the men change their gender to female on the profile. Is it supposed to be some kind of statement?

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Why don't you start a journal?

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Sexual intimacy is extremely important to me. It's opening new doors. I had some repression going on. Maybe these repressed fantasies are related to a state of security. Maybe the snake is a symbol of protection and security to me. Bhuragajar and Princess Jalveni. Nazranzet is the new name for the snake. ... The snake has sex with Princess Jalveni. Now I'm thinking that these sexual fantasies which have always been repressed are an indicator of the fact that my mind is searching for security in some form..

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Do you think a person can improve in the areas of emotional IQ?

Thank you.

I will be following this person, it seems he has a wealth of information.

You're making me exxxxstatic

Omg. I'm getting tingling all over. Dances like a crazy rabbit around a pole. @Marcel you make me crazy Mr Supercomputer. You are so intoxicating.

@Marcel am I poley hase too?

I was feeling a bit insecure about uploading my own picture. But uploaded my own picture once again.

Investing in a guy with zero game is like buying a pack of cigarettes that doesn't have cigarettes in it, waste of money. So to answer your question, I'd prefer the guy who is gaming me versus the other guy (who isn't) in that scenario. Also a man with zero game won't treat you right. A man with zero game is in the relationship mostly only for sex like a fuckboy, it's not intimate for him, he is in it for his own sexual needs and will hardly care for her sexual needs, it's like he does not care if he loses her, he only regrets the loss of sex. He only wants her around for sex.