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Same with me. I don't keep social circles because they are too tedious.

@kagaria you have an extremely beautiful and cute face. Awesome that you uploaded it. I can understand all the appearance related self esteem issues because people on the internet pick on other's looks. I will need to work on my childhood trauma patterns and subconscious rewiring. Much of it comes from my mother who was a central figure in my life, so not being accepted by her caused me tremendous trauma and misery.

@nistake I'm having difficulty here. I kinda agree with you a bit but I also disagree. The agreement is this - I shouldn't get too neurotic about my problems and obsess too much because it will take up all of my mental space leaving me drained and frustration and not in a healthy state of mind to solve my problems. The disagreement is this - if I let all the fear and anxiety dissipate I'll be likely to either ignore my problem or not be too heavily or urgently invested in solving it because I don't have the real dreadful primal energy to get my ass off the couch and actually do something on a war footing. To get this primal motivation, I'll need some raw primal fear and anxiety, the way you get during a fight or flight response which will bring an impounding sense of fear and if I carefully manage this fear, it will motivate me to get stuff done quicker and forcefully with more energy and drive that I cannot artificially create in me.

@Verg0 agree wholeheartedly. I always treasure my most precious friendships. Real people are hard to come by. I don't believe in the idea of a large social circle, of course it can be beneficial but toxic at the same time, so I really don't know how to balance it out because often the bad outweighs the good when it comes to social relations, but this video was a bit startling, I hadn't really thought that way before,that some of your own friends don't like you. There’s a limited amount of time and emotional capital we can distribute, so we only have five slots for the most intense type of relationships. People may say they have more than five, but you can be pretty sure they’re not high-quality friendships. While you may not have the largest quantity of friends, it's the quality of those relationships that really matters. Round up the people in your life who you truly care about (and who reciprocate those feelings).

It's very easy to simply forget problems by saying whoosh in the present moment and then you have awareness of your presence only. But in a more pragmatic sense, responsible individuals sit at a round table, brainstorm ideas and find ways to solve a problem, it's a way of bringing consciousness into action.. Life cannot be this simplistic as to simply be present in a moment and forget all your problems unless your life is comfy and you're cozying in a spa.

@universe thank you

Well there you go. Glad to know you had a glimpse of infinite love.

Awakening can help you a bit with improving the quality of your consciousness, helping you understand deeper truths, give you important breakthroughs to solve your issues but it cannot guarantee a perfect life. You can still have the same problems as you had before. The reason why you want to be awakened is not because you want to find solutions to all of your problems and needs but to seek the higher truth. It's a process of seeking, like an explorer seeks new lands and experiences. It's also an experience and an opportunity to grow inwardly. In fact if you are looking for a more perfect life where all your needs are accommodated and problems resolved, you should probably be more interested in pd and self actualization.

By letting go Not everything is in our control. This realization comes sooner or later.

@Amit agree

Nice. Great progress

Lol I guess everyone is done Gaslighting the poor guy for not adopting kids. See, adoption is a choice. You can't guilt someone if they don't want to. Some people are unable to love kids who are not their biological children. Is that okay? Respect people's authenticity. Maybe this is the reason why some people just can't open up about their frank feelings. Telling someone to do what you think is morally superior is imposing your will on them..respect the freedom of individual choices. Not everyone has to do what you think is right.

Is it legal in India?

@Keyhole yea exactly. It felt very weird. I have noticed that she doesn't blink much and doesn't look away

I didn't get any bad vibes from her. Seems like she has good intentions. But one time when I was watching her video, I felt I was hypnotized. For some time I wasn't able to move or look away. Transfixed. I don't know why that happened. Never happened with anyone before

@Socrates you can get a new gaming PC for just $1000? Then I'm gonna buy lol.

It's ok mate. It's good to know that I'm not alone.

@flume thank you

I'm open minded to fat, thin, homeless, jobless, ugly, shy, introvert, old, awkward, unsexy, blue, red, purple, orange, turquoise, all races, all countries, all cultures, all religions, all sorts of people. I wish all the people on the forum were also like this so we could all live in peace and harmony on this planet and not have to deal with judgemental and racist bullshit from people. Now I don't have any video that challenges me. I don't know if I'm the only one. Be open minded and accept all people with all differences. All humans are equal. Nobody deserves to be treated with closed mindedness. Trying placing yourself in the shoes of the people you have come to demonize. It's not them. It's your own shadow and bias that makes you prejudiced towards them. You can't be spiritual without being loving. You can't play God if you can't love everyone. A lot of the closed mindedness that you see is just egoic games, narcissism, stupid pathetic politics of humanity.

My new high consciousness hobby during this quarantine has been visualization exercises. Did a couple of them. Immensely helpful.

@DrewNows nice

@IJB063 is that Hugh Hefner

@The observer thanks

@Keyhole @DrewNows @Meta-Man thank you.

Thanks for your understanding of my state of mind. What is this super ego? No. I'm not able to differentiate whether it's authentic or not.