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@Evil Raccoon Don't pay attention to those people. They are fake. They do everything for social image and to look cool. They don't have real growth, all gimmick and games. It's kinda stupid.

No idea. I don't think we regress. Doesn't look logically possible.

Sorry you had such a bad experience. But it does feel the way you are describing. You feel that person is special. You are enamored and you like everything about that person. When I met my ex, it felt like we already knew each other so I can relate to that aspect of a crush

Simply let them be who they are. If they are hating, you keep rolling Let the devil die in ennui.

Beauty is both subjective and absolute. Yes it depends on how you see it. I've found guys who are just normal very attractive and someone else might tell me that they are not that attractive. So yes it's subjective Also beauty standards change with time. That again shows you that it's subjective. At some point smaller breasts were considered attractive. And pin up girls from older times were shown with smaller breasts and a demure look. But today the beauty standards have drastically changed because the demure look is considered plain whereas bigger breasts are now considered the beauty standard. So you see it's subjective or else it would have stayed the same. However the capacity to see beauty in people varies from person to person. Some people have a very small capacity for this. Whereas some people can find a wide variety of people beautiful. But this is also proportional to their gains. People who cast a smaller net have difficulty finding a partner because they screen out most people and rarely ever find someone attractive thus reducing their opportunities to date because they are less likely to find that perfect or desirable person. However people who cast a wider net are at an advantage because they can easily find the mate they want and even switch them equally easily if things don't pan out. Survival of the fittest. Now you don't have to guilt yourself because your preference is a choice. It should come from the heart. You shouldn't force yourself to like someone. So be with someone that you genuinely like..

It's so breezy and windy today. Hope it's not the same hurricane like weather which was a few days ago.

Same with me. I don't keep social circles because they are too tedious.

@kagaria you have an extremely beautiful and cute face. Awesome that you uploaded it. I can understand all the appearance related self esteem issues because people on the internet pick on other's looks. I will need to work on my childhood trauma patterns and subconscious rewiring. Much of it comes from my mother who was a central figure in my life, so not being accepted by her caused me tremendous trauma and misery.

@nistake I'm having difficulty here. I kinda agree with you a bit but I also disagree. The agreement is this - I shouldn't get too neurotic about my problems and obsess too much because it will take up all of my mental space leaving me drained and frustration and not in a healthy state of mind to solve my problems. The disagreement is this - if I let all the fear and anxiety dissipate I'll be likely to either ignore my problem or not be too heavily or urgently invested in solving it because I don't have the real dreadful primal energy to get my ass off the couch and actually do something on a war footing. To get this primal motivation, I'll need some raw primal fear and anxiety, the way you get during a fight or flight response which will bring an impounding sense of fear and if I carefully manage this fear, it will motivate me to get stuff done quicker and forcefully with more energy and drive that I cannot artificially create in me.

@Verg0 agree wholeheartedly. I always treasure my most precious friendships. Real people are hard to come by. I don't believe in the idea of a large social circle, of course it can be beneficial but toxic at the same time, so I really don't know how to balance it out because often the bad outweighs the good when it comes to social relations, but this video was a bit startling, I hadn't really thought that way before,that some of your own friends don't like you. There’s a limited amount of time and emotional capital we can distribute, so we only have five slots for the most intense type of relationships. People may say they have more than five, but you can be pretty sure they’re not high-quality friendships. While you may not have the largest quantity of friends, it's the quality of those relationships that really matters. Round up the people in your life who you truly care about (and who reciprocate those feelings).

It's very easy to simply forget problems by saying whoosh in the present moment and then you have awareness of your presence only. But in a more pragmatic sense, responsible individuals sit at a round table, brainstorm ideas and find ways to solve a problem, it's a way of bringing consciousness into action.. Life cannot be this simplistic as to simply be present in a moment and forget all your problems unless your life is comfy and you're cozying in a spa.

@universe thank you

Well there you go. Glad to know you had a glimpse of infinite love.

Awakening can help you a bit with improving the quality of your consciousness, helping you understand deeper truths, give you important breakthroughs to solve your issues but it cannot guarantee a perfect life. You can still have the same problems as you had before. The reason why you want to be awakened is not because you want to find solutions to all of your problems and needs but to seek the higher truth. It's a process of seeking, like an explorer seeks new lands and experiences. It's also an experience and an opportunity to grow inwardly. In fact if you are looking for a more perfect life where all your needs are accommodated and problems resolved, you should probably be more interested in pd and self actualization.

By letting go Not everything is in our control. This realization comes sooner or later.

@Amit agree

Nice. Great progress

Lol I guess everyone is done Gaslighting the poor guy for not adopting kids. See, adoption is a choice. You can't guilt someone if they don't want to. Some people are unable to love kids who are not their biological children. Is that okay? Respect people's authenticity. Maybe this is the reason why some people just can't open up about their frank feelings. Telling someone to do what you think is morally superior is imposing your will on them..respect the freedom of individual choices. Not everyone has to do what you think is right.

Is it legal in India?

@Keyhole yea exactly. It felt very weird. I have noticed that she doesn't blink much and doesn't look away

I didn't get any bad vibes from her. Seems like she has good intentions. But one time when I was watching her video, I felt I was hypnotized. For some time I wasn't able to move or look away. Transfixed. I don't know why that happened. Never happened with anyone before

@Amit I wasn't judging you. Just pointed out an observation about your thinking pattern.. Try an exercise. Cut down your thoughts by at least 80% for an entire week. You'll see a noticeable difference in how you perceive your surroundings. You will stop creating stories in your mind. You will see things in a pure form, like how they really are. A lot of the misunderstanding about anything will get resolved. You've a mind that engages in rumination. It's a mental habit you can overcome. But If you don't overcome, you can suffer unnecessary stress. Right now you are letting your mind distract you completely with no constraint. And you are seeing things and people through multiple layers created by your mind. Those layers are unnecessary. Remove that filter and you'll have more clarity on different questions in your mind.

@Socrates you can get a new gaming PC for just $1000? Then I'm gonna buy lol.

It's ok mate. It's good to know that I'm not alone.

@Amit no I did not think like that. From reading a lot of your posts I think that you tend to think too much. Half the time whatever you say, I'm usually clueless and no idea why you think what about yourself and others. You just think too much. Right now you're wondering if you are seeking attention. Notice that this is how your mind is. Nobody is taking anything seriously but your mind is constantly producing a thought, an assumption. This is your pattern I observed in you. It's destructive thinking. It will never give you a sense of comfort. Let your mind be free. Block unnecessary thoughts. That will reduce the tension in your mind. You won't have so many unnecessary assumptions creating theories that are not even true. If I began to think like you, I wouldn't survive even a week. Half the time my mind is blank.