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My dog died today. She was ill and we had to take to the vet so she could be euthanized. How do I best deal with this and move on?

I want to meditate around 60 minutes every day. Does it matter if I do it all at once or instead meditate 30 minutes twice a day?

Hello. I am a guy who has never had sex or had a girlfriend. I don't think this is something that is going to change. How do I get over it and move on to focusing on other areas of life?

Cool art

Yes absolutely

I would have sex with you

Yeah, but it is better than nothing.

@8Ball I am a virgin and I seriously consider doing the same, because I really want to experience sex at least once in my life. I doesn't really matter if I have to pay for it.

What techniques can I use to train myself to become more creative?

Don't you mean "No thing she is"?

Then what are you worried about?

@TheBeachBionic Go for socially awkward nerds and you won't have any problem with getting laid, no matter how you look

What if you have a smaller passion for something, but it is the thing you are the most passionate about. Is it possible to grow that passion by developing skills in that area or is it better to look for something else?

Thank you! I was a bit worried about this since I have a couple of smaller passions but aren't extremely passionate about anything. Are there specific techniques that I can use or will my passion grow naturally when I learn more and become better at the subject?

@TheBeachBionic I think most guys in this thread would have sex with you if they could, me included

Don`t worry about that, most guys aren't very selective when it comes to sex. If you are a person who is considered less attractive you probably won't be able to get the most attractive high status guys, but there are plenty of guys who can`t get laid either. They aren't as attractive but often have a nice personality and will treat you with respect.

@Feel Good Most people aren't very healthy or developed, but I guess that it is possible to find people of both genders who are interested in healthy relationships and personal growth.

I think they actually find it quite attractive. I don't think many women want weak and needy guys who need constant approval. They even seem to prefer douchebags because they at least have confidence and don't really care about the opinions of other people.

Well said

I think most MGTOW-guys are autistic neckbeards who are angry at women because they can`t get laid. A bit like incels, but they don't want to be honest with themselves so they say that it is voluntary. The reason that they so easily fall for unrealistically bad views of women is because they are bitter and haven't met many women in real life. As a loser who can`t attract girls I could easily have fallen into that trap myself, but since I at least have had contact with girls I know that the ideas that MGTOW and incels believe in are often quite far from reality. Most women aren't manipulative sociopaths just like most men aren't violent rape machines. If you actually talked some women and got to know them you would realize that there generally aren't anything wrong with them.

I think that all human actions (even helping others) are selfish because their ultimate goal is to make you happy

I´m not MGTOW myself but I do have some knowledge about the movement. I didn't choose a life without sex and relationships with women, that life chose me. But I realized that it wasn't that bad. I have a lot of free time so I can meditate and study personal development, and I think that has made me a lot happier than most guys who actually can get laid. If you are interested in this kind of lifestyle I would suggest that you live more like a philosopher or a monk than like the MGTOW guys you see on the internet, because they waste way to much time being angry at women. It only makes them frustrated and unhappy. Use your short life to do something valuable instead of ranting on the internet. If you spend more time alone you will become more self-reliant, which will make you care less about what other people thinks or does. Then you can date women, but on your own terms. Good luck!

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@BobbyLowell If he wants you, who are your friends to say that you aren't good enough for him? Also, if your friends opposes you dating a guy because he is more attractive than you, then maybe they aren't good enough for you