SgtPepper

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  1. It really depends on your goals and desires... I'd suggest watching the Kanye Doc. and following Kenny Beats on YouTube. I think they're right in what they did which is they went deep into the music scene, collaborated with every artist they could, many times for free and got their name out there. I think its really about getting a lot of experience under your belt, getting a good mentor, and if youre trying to produce for artists - having a stock of tracks that you can send to artists like an album, that they can choose from.
  2. If you do not understand or include relative love within the absolute love, I believe your perspective of Love is incomplete; much like Neo-Advaita enlightenments are incomplete.
  3. Thank you for sharing, you are an inspiring! DMT is indeed very very very powerful. ???
  4. can you pick another skill that you enjoy that can fulfill survival needs?
  5. I think you could do this realistically. PsychedSubstance has had a YouTube channel for years about psychedelic education, advice, and would even take them on camera. I agree with @puporing and I'd add to check YouTube guidelines.
  6. People act different on camera and it's all about perspective/shots. It's cold and disconnected for viewers. the only way to have the experience intimate sex is to have it yourself. Sex can be sacred and romantic... you get what you put in.
  7. Jordan Peterson is right. Health At Every Size (HAES) movement is toxic. What we need to do is educate people on food and get nutritionist into the US school systems. It's like trying to normalize drug addiction and saying it's healthy. Kiana Docherty covers this topic well
  8. You said vaginas are gross. It's just not something I imagine people sexually attracted to women would say. but I don't know man, all we can do is make the choice to understand who we are
  9. @Someone here I don't know man... the more you talk about this, the more I think you are likely gay or at least very bisexual, and are repressing it. what in the heck are you, as a 'hetero' man going to do with a dick?
  10. It's where you put your eel in man. It seems like all of this confusion comes from being a virgin and watching too much porn.
  11. It's a pattern. I can step into the groove. It makes me dance. I can feel the rhythm and melody in my body. it's a ride. It can take you away. It has vitality and can punch as hard as a storm or as soft as a flowing river. It's moods captured by sounds.
  12. I agree with everyone here. I actually feel this too as I have made certain changes the last 3 weeks. Removed toxic habits and inputted challenging ones, and I feel myself 'adjusting'. I think what you are doing is awesome. Youtube & online communities may have to go next for me Maybe just try to 'relax' in a healthier way - which is what you might have used social media/scrolling/YouTube for. I try to watch classic movies at night that are thoughtful that I really like - that gives me about 2 hours of relaxation and also just a general sense of joy/relaxation/excitement. Not sure if that works for you though. What really helps me stick with my new desired habits is why I am choosing to do x and not y in the first place, and I just remind myself, connect to that feeling and memory I had when I quit, and I am like oh yeah thats right, let me focus on something. I imagine my mind as being a symphony and I am the conductor, and I conduct my way into wholesome activities I look at those withdrawal feelings and say, this too shall pass.
  13. I think it can do both good and bad but probably more likely harmful if porn is your only exposure or experience to sex. I think the biggest factor is how people are raised though.
  14. I think we're misunderstanding each other. Less suffering exists when we are wise & virtuous is my point.
  15. yeah I am judging, but consider how Judging is necessary to be wise, virtuous, and conscious. Not necessarily judging others, but behaviors and their effects. Boundaries are necessary to have an effective system too. Like, If I came into your living room and took a shit on the floor, surely you would not own that behavior as if it were yours. Or let's say someone asked you to be their slave, are you going to recognize that as you asking yourself to be a slave and so you say yes to serve yourself? It's just not realistic or how we intended this world to play out. At a basic level, if you can't categorize reality into good and bad, you will walk off a cliff or end up homeless under a bridge. Or do something stupid like Charles Manson did. I'm not saying, go walk around deeming x as bad and y as good and boom you're free; I am saying it's about being conscious and accurately assessing the situation of life. These distinctions are more about recognizing your true Self versus a false self to me. But even if it was division; let's play with that idea, that's not a bad thing. If look around at the world and see, ah this is all of my creation, all the 'good' and all the 'bad', and it's actually all Good, I'd still miss that who I am transcends all of this into infinity. So I am not rape, success, video games, music, or murder; although I am perfect enough to contain it. It's definitely a paradox.
  16. This discussion reminds of the TV show Loki. When reflecting on Loki's bad actions, it was revealed that he was born in the world to do evil, so that others could be the best versions of themselves aka the Avengers. So that is one way to look at evil actions and how they function for the overall Good for me. I went into the mental health field? why because I experienced the challenges of mental health throughout childhood and teen years, so I resolved to become a person who learns and wants to heal mental health; the suffering made me more God-like or in other words, strengthened my ability to become loving & learn how to transcend suffering. Practically speaking, there is trouble to solve.. you must declare jihad against yourself or else we will all die. Consider how if we had a lawless society we would self-destruct? Rapist can play whatever role they want, but they are met with God's wrath - revenge, jail time, karma, suffering, and death. No peace comes to a rapist. I have asked myself these questions deeply for 5 years, on psychedelics, off psychedelics, journaling, and meditation. I resolved that: God is transcendent, and therefore, has the capacity to endure and love reality even if the actions of the creation are rooted in creation's limited perspective. This is why suicide will never be holy. God doesn't suicide dude, he transcends all suffering, he doesn't need suicide because God is detached and yet totally present. Suicide sounds like a good idea from a limited (ego) perspective grounded in thoughts which are grounded in limited experience, which are grounded in the nervous system. God loves Ted Bundy, but he doesn't love the actions of Ted Bundy. Moreover, Ted Bundy is not his actions, he committed those actions because he is so far away from Love. He was essentially "possessed by a feeling" grounded in his broken nervous system, and remember God is not a feeling, he transcends feelings. So to be with God or God-like is to transcend feelings, thoughts, and consciously will behavior that leads to well-being of another. That's real love, because God gave you love by giving you life and if God loves you like that, then to be God-like is to love others as God loves you. Evil is not in alignment with God. It is alignment with an ignorant ego that is insecure and doesn't know himself.
  17. I agree that we need sex education. We need to learn what sexual assault is, what it looks like, and how both men and women can take responsibility to avoid causing harm. It's out there, but it needs to be taught in school for younger generations, just like there's talks about stop drop and roll, drug awareness, and drunk driving. An enlightening book I read about this subject was Know My Name by Chanel Miller and it completely opened my mind to the experience of women. Men can be very creepy and the excuses are lame. I've been drunk and/or high, been told no and stopped immediately, so it is 100% possible. I imagine people who are okay with doing that after being told no, are legit mentally disturbed individuals. It's very simple, if they say no and/or they are not pulling you in, and showing receptiveness, then back off. It's okay to talk about it after with the person, but honestly I don't know why anyone would want to be with someone who doesn't want to be with them.
  18. nah dude. God doesn't love any of those things. Love transcends all of those horrible acts. Suffering them can bring you closer to God though because suffering helps you practice transcending evil.
  19. I'm a behavioral therapist. Currently, accruing hours to get my Behavioral Analyst certification so I can get paid more
  20. Accept your feelings, the person's wishes, and move forward. Continue being friends with her? As a straight male, I don't see the point in being friends with women unless they are family, I am in a class with them, or working with them on a project. Men are unilaterally much better friends.
  21. I don't think there are legitimate religious churches... it's more like ayahuasca enthusiasts start a religious church so that the government cannot persecute them due to the bill of rights. You'd have to delve more than I did to know if it is safe and authentic. I personally think the safest thing to do is just to trip by yourself at home or a trip sitter. It is way safer because you are in a comfortable setting that is familiar. At the same time, if you are a male, I wouldn't worry about getting sexually abused especially if you bring other male friends. But for someone like me who wanted to take my SO, it's no good.
  22. @Gennadiy1981 Generally speaking, if a person is physically healthy, they will be okay. Assuming that the ayahuasca drink is legit and made well, and dosages are reasonable and thoughtful, then yeah its 100% safe physiologically. But it appears to me the gentleman in the video was referring to psychedelics being psychologically challenging and yes it can be psychologically challenging even to 'healthy' people. The thing is, going to a foreign country to take ayahuasca with unfamiliar symbols and music is completely different than chilling your pad listening to your favorite songs on 3g of mushrooms. It's much more of your interest to take care of set, setting, and dosage than it is to concern yourself how healthy you are. so its safe if you are healthy and take care of your set, setting, and dosage. As long as you don't have schizophrenia gene, bipolar disorder, really bad childhood trauma, you will likely be alright... Not saying these individuals cannot take them, but it's outside my experience to know if they can handle it..
  23. Take care of Set & Setting & Dosage, and you will be okay. Have you checked out Leo's videos on this topic? He has one on the dangers of psychedelics and one about his worst trips
  24. I'll deny it. What you are doing is not masculine, it is effeminate or childish to me. Just my opinion though... @Someone here Use this experience as an opportunity to grow and learn. It already happened and could've probably happened with someone else too, if not you. Beating yourself up about it won't be helpful. Observe and acknowledge the natural feelings that came with the action, then move forward.
  25. I think kissing is okay after a good time and you feel some level of trust/hope in that person On those first dates, it indicated to me that the girl 100% liked me and I always left feeling so fuzzy and warm Kissing on a first date is such a magical thing I just think sex is like tripping on psychedelics, and it's safer to do it with people you know you can trust I've also seen people regret it when they become disillusioned by the person and the dissolution of the relationship appeared to be more painful. I trust that you know in your conscience what is right. I haven't heard of people complaining about taking relationships slow