RendHeaven

Yes, but the ramifications: If the bottleneck is her perception, then whether or not you have "objective" (consensus) status measures is secondary to the illusion you cast. you can spin status out of thin air but also "genuine" status (A list celebrity, etc.) is also spun out of thin air the appearance (of status) is its own substance, a self-fulfilling prophecy that snowballs out of control with just a tinge of group think (human minds pinging off of each other building a web) there is no such thing as status, except when the mind pretends there is. the goodies associated with this pretense makes one want to participate, and at that point status is made concrete and the consequences of such manifest By piercing the charade and integrating at a cellular level, one unassumingly acts like someone with enormous status 0 desperation, 0 fucks given, unafraid to voice and pursue desires, barely perceives losses (if at all). After all, we are all the same. What am I so afraid of? ALL low-status tells stem from fear by being congruently fearless you can short-circuit the status-ladder (and ironically receive the associated goodies which would physically cement your place at the top as well) in thinking that status is independent of perception, you are permitting "status" to be an entity that further dominates and controls your human behaviors and states, making you more fearful and stripping you of status All that being said, If I were at a bar and Chris Hemsworth showed up out of nowhere, he would completely mog me and likely all attention would go to him. How to reconcile the fact that status seems to be simultaneously vapor and solid? Women flock to perceived status like moths to a flame (whether or not they admit it lol). Sometimes you can do everything "right," and still the man next to you will have spun a more vibrant illusion than you. Also let's be honest, we're NOT doing everything "right." Still so full of fear. Fearlessness is Infinite. none of us have control over whether girls give us attention, validation, love, sex, or not. We can only control our degree of fearlessness over time, which correlates favorably with female attraction (but is not guaranteed)

What's your age? I'm 24, still got my whole life ahead of me. Therefore no rush. If you're 40 or 50, I can understand your angst. But even then, you must ask: are there 40~50 year olds out there in the world getting laid right this second? Objectively, yes. So let's not count ourselves out. When was your last cold approach and how did that go?

This is somehow extraordinarily profound

Proud of you

🤝

Problem with skepticism is that its first principle is negation, therefore division. Cognitively this seems harmless, but energetically the skeptic aligns with untruth (without even realizing what he's doing) because he has alienated affirmation (of what is)

Thanks for the reminder

Take it from a guy who has done excessive rounds of LSD suspended in eternal bliss states, no matter how thoroughly you escape the facade of time, when you come back down the next day, having not eaten for 24 hours, neglecting sleep, you're gonna feel that one like a bitch!

If anything, I would say losing your psych virginity to 5meo is optimal. I did the conventional wisdom route of a dozen mushroom trips and a dozen LSD trips before ever attempting 5meo. In hindsight, starting with 5meo and never looking back would've gotten me here in twice the time. shrooms have a poor noise-to-signal ratio, and LSD lasts so long it derails your whole day and your human goals take a hit. 5meo is pure signal, short and sweet. no recoil. The only prerequisite to a positive and life-changing 5meo trip is your ability to surrender. Everything else is secondary. try clenching your fist around an object, notice the tension, the grip, the effort/exertion, the labor. Now release the object, let it drop, notice the unwinding of your effort and exertion. This is the same "unwinding"/release movement you must do with your soul when the 5meo consciousness is about to kill you.

6 years ago you wrote to me: "Because everything is you. If you judge any aspect of that "you" as invalid, it is relegated to unconsciousness. And enlightenment NECESSITATES perfect love. If your heart is heavier than a feather, you will not pass. And enlightenment is also the only way to truly recognize your unshakable validity. "

lol, real.

@Emotionalmosquito I'm rather fond of you, but you're honestly lame as fuck. Listen to Leo and Princess Arabia and stop whining. A sliver of me really feels for you and relates to your woes. The difference between us is that I know that in this lifetime I am destined for obnoxious amounts of sex with the sexiest girls alive. That is not my current reality, but there is no rush. You're better than this. You're on the damn Actualized.org forum, which means that you know to dig deep and dispel your own bullshit. You want sex? You can have it. Become a masculine gift unto the feminine. Strong, loving, unwavering, abundant. "But that's not me!" you cry. Lol, alright then. More girls for me I guess. You say you love women but hah, looks to me like you have maybe 1% of the desire that I do. I love women so much that I will stop at nothing to become the best man I could possibly be, for their sake. Hope to see you prove me wrong 👊

That's fire! Makes me eager to looksmax

@Jason Actualization Oh boy

That's revolting. I'll keep my polarity, thanks.

Correct through and through. And that's okay! God/Consciousness will always have your back, has always had your back, and is-having your back right now. God's script has no errors. When the attachments and identifications of your numerous lives all burn away into the abyss, that is known as Love. Terror = Love. Your Love dwarfs "potential repercussions" You got this!

And that's okay!

Surrender, my friend

@shree I made up my mind that I'm simply going to die. I said "I love you" to my mom, my friends, all of that. There's no more "buts" or "ifs." Time to die. Going into it with firm conviction renders fear unnecessary. Having a personal ritual helps, as opposed to haphazardly ingesting.

@SamC looks like we have some catching up to do

You need a fundamental identity-level change. Become a person who is at-ease. Anxiety is simply not in your lexicon. This is possible by: fixing your physiology and hormones through proper nutrition building character by putting yourself in novel real-life situations and surviving them doing psychedelics to reconnect with infinity

Material girl ??

Agreed!

Gotta love the truth more than you love human life man. That's the bottom line for Leo.

@Lila9 If you live on or near the equator, fair enough. But many of us live in harsh winters where "conscious local grown plants" is not a valid option year-round. Veganism in certain latitudes REQUIRES genocide-fields and mass transportation. It seems certain people can "get away" with avoiding meat entirely. For every vegan "failure" story (including my own), there seems to be a self-described "thriving" vegan elsewhere. So whether or not meat is "mandatory" can be very personal. As someone who performs and feels a thousand times better with meat than without meat, my personal paradigm is as such: Meat has historically been and thus still is to this day the "natural" diet of humans. Some humans based on genetic adaptations are able to deviate from meat without much consequence. Others will be throttled by their biology if they deviate from meat for too long (even this is God's Plan, somehow...) My friend Jason personally knows a woman who was vegan for 37 whole years before the physiological backlash "finally" caught up to her (brain fog, depression, various failures in her body, etc.). She now eats meat and all of her symptoms are gone. I believe stories like this ought not be dismissed. I really appreciate you. I encourage you to continue to speak your truth while generously considering the other side of the coin, which is everything I've presented here. I will of course do the same do the same with respects to your points. I believe strongly in my current opinions, but by no means do I have the full truth.