Leo Gura

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  1. 11 minutes ago, Yali said:

    the highly skilled pickup artist that has slept with over a thousand women and still has yet to settle down into their 40s? 

    I have very low opinion of PUAs. They are hopelessly immature, unconscious, shallow, and toxic people. The more girls they sleep with the worse it is.

    Nobody who sleeps with 100+ girls is a wise person. This is not a thing to idolize.

    A guy who can commit to and be loyal to one girl is in another league than all these PUA man-children.

    It should be obvious that anyone who devotes his life to chasing sex has his head up his ass.


  2. The whole mindset of rating people is wrong. It's going to prevent you from relating to them properly, consciously.

    Even when you think stuff like, "OMG, that girl is a hottie!" That's already warping your ability to relate properly with girls. It's a selfish and immature approach.


  3. @SQAAD Why do you hold that suffering is senseless?

    Obviously suffering is a mechanism that living beings need to stay alive. So it's full of sense. Just because you can get trapped into a horrific situation doesn't make the suffering senseless. Its point is to help you avoid those situations.

    The reality is that survival is a brutal game and most organisms simply get crushed in the process. Human society has created an illusory bubble of safety within that larger dynamic. And that bubble can pop at any moment.

    The truth is that your life has always hung by a thread. But humans have become so comfortable and complacent that they take it for granted how difficult survival has always been.

    A meteor can crash into your house any day and wipe you out. That's the reality of life. God can't help you with that.


  4. 3 minutes ago, mmKay said:

    anything wrong with holding a personal arbitrary screening system for looks, emotional maturity, lifestyle, character and compability?

    When you get so mechanical about it, it's gonna be an obstacle to love and acceptance.

    You should not be grading your girlfriend on a rubric.


  5. 19 minutes ago, FlyingLotus said:

    Jack Black’s music and performance skills are at a high enough level where you’d have to work really hard and not just coast on natural talent.  When you’re hard working and good at developing what you’ve got, that makes you very confident.  You know you can deliver the goods, and nobody can take that away from you because it's hard earned.  The fact that his appeal doesn’t depend on being young and pretty probably makes him more comfortable with himself compared to other Hollywood hotties.

    Obviously he is well trained as a performer. But if you do a lot of pickup that is also training.


  6. 45 minutes ago, Elton said:

    @Leo Gura how about I learn and practice all the content from dealing with people section in your book list as well as practice meditation and yoga for stress shadow work and emotional mastery to deal with emotions ?

    could this interlink the leadership roles which are very different now ? 

    I don't know. You'd have to test it out. 

    My guess is you'd still be unhappy.