Leo Gura

This is why you build state by approaching a lot. First 10 approaches of the night are just a warm up to build your state. You must discipline yourself to approach 20-30 sets a night. No excuses. Your state and mood will build until you're on fire. The key is to approach even when you don't feel like it. Just approach and let sets blow up in your face. And then approach some more. And don't be picky about who you approach.

Careful, witchcraft and similar practices is not something this forum supports as it easily becomes a distraction from truth-seeking. Stop playing games and awaken.

There is no worst or bad from God's POV. Hell is as good as heaven. If you were truly interested in consciousness you would not shy away from exploring hell. Then again, you also wouldn't get stuck and it wouldn't bother you.

It's not a matter of possibilities. It's a matter of you imagining it. Your imagination is unlimited. You have no problem dreaming up nightmares.

That's not luck. You just lack skill. Of course not every date will end in sex. Maybe 20% of girls you date will just not be compatible with you.

The reason you're not getting laid is that you're not leading. Leading is critical for the end-result. If you want serious results with women you have to learn to lead like a fucking boss. Learning to lead and handle logistics is one of the hardest parts of game to learn. It requires so much failure and practice. It cannot be learned as theory. It's pure practice.

I mean the deepest form of imagining which spawns what you call material reality, like the walls of your house. Infinite consciousness can spawn hell realms as real as the walls of your house. You already know this because you've had nightmares. Now just imagine your nightmares come to life. Why? Because consciousness is everything imaginable. And hell is imaginable.

Oh it exists, if you imagine it.

Don't promote toxic masculinity here. Treat women well.

@Karmadhi Well, you are right in that you gotta hold a man-woman sexual frame and flirt too. This is part of those principles of attraction. Although just being social is enough to get laid.

@SQAAD Good. Some progress. Stay away from knives when tripping.

You're in for a mindfucking at 20mg

It's not so arbitrary. You just take for granted that God is responsible for maintaining your sanity. If you could easily break material reality you would quickly go insane. Don't take sanity for granted. Most people's minds are so toxic and out of control, if their thoughts could materialize they would be living in a self-created hellscape of madness. You guys have no idea the things consciousness is capable of. Straight up madness and horror, if your mind is not pure. You think your life sucks now? Wait till you experience infinite hell.

Now do it 1000 times and you will stop complaining about girls.

That's like saying that brick walls are imaginary so you should be able to walk through them. This isn't possible from your current state of consciousness and your human mind is incapable of just changing your state at will. There are deeper layers of consciousness which run you which you have no control over. You barely have enough self-control to not eat junk food. Yet you expect to have enough self-control to walk through a brick wall? Who are you kidding?

They get laid the most because instead of sitting on their computer all day doing philosophy, like you, they are out at social venues all week long being social and having fun. Meanwhile you are here mental masturbating and inventing narratives of failure. Who gets laid are highly social people who aren't stuck in their heads.

The principles of attraction are all 100% known. Just follow them and you will get girls. Stop whining and stop making things complicated. Do what works. It's like you guys are looking for reasons to fail. Your mind is your own worst enemy. The fundamental reason you cannot get girls is because you cannot even walk up to a girl, look her square in the eyes, and hold a normal conversation. Stop blaming spirituality for this or "being a nice guy". You just suck at the fundamentals.

@Majed That was mostly fine except for the line: "Your desires are orders, babe" This is a super beta line. Stop supplicating to attractive women. Just for that line alone you don't deserve a hot girl. Why would she even talk to you after you said that to her?? Think about it. What woman wants a man who kisses her ass out of insecurity and desperation? A woman will not sleep with you unless she perceives that you are above her and can lead her.

Well, it does feel like you're trying a bit to hard to game her. The paradox of game is that your game has to feel non-gamey. Girls are very sensitive to fake, gamey tactics. So you should work on trying to be more natural and normal rather than so edgy and clever. Too much cleverness gets you in trouble. Think about it this way: Would a high value guy like Brad Pitt be investing a bunch of energy trying to game a girl with a barrage of really clever lines? No. If you're going to tease a girl or say something edgy, make it rare. Like a bit of spice added to a dish. The problem here is that you opened well but then kept pushing the teasing and edgy stuff too far to the point where it makes you just seem like a weirdo. In general, complimenting really hot girls on their physical appearance is a very bad idea because it makes you like very other desperate horny guy. With a girl like that you need to treat her very normally, like a normal human, and try to find things about her to compliment which are not her physical appearance. This will make you stand out. Your opener was great because it was unique and different. She responded well. At that point you should have moved into building some genuine human connection rather than trying to pummel her with clever gamey lines. Great game is all about exquisite balance. Don't give two compliments when one already did the trick. Don't use two openers when your first one worked. Don't try to build more attraction when she's already attracted. And try to be genuine. She's not going to sleep with you unless you develop rapport with her and come off as a normal human. Things that make for bad game: Being weird & socially uncalibrated Being creepy Being desperate/needy Being angry/upset Being gamey Being try-hard Being supplicating Bragging Over-compensating Being fake Being mean/cruel Being sexual/vulgar Complimenting hot girls on their hotness

You have to distinguish between the attraction phase vs the relationship phase. Being selfless and loving in a relationship works, as long as you are also a strong man.

Well, in this case obviously focus on the other girl who slept with you. How many girls must sleep with you before you feel secure? It's a holistic equation that factors in everything. Just reaching hook point. Enough that she would be willing to sleep with you if things moved forward smoothly. Attraction usually happens within 5 mins. The rest is just follow-thru. Less than 20% of girls will get attracted to you. Don't make it personal. You are attracted to less than 20% of girls so its only fair.

God damn, dude. Such a primadonna. That's gonna be a tough life. You should be thanking God each morning that even one girl in the world finds you attractive. P.S. She prolly ghosted you cause your vibe was off. Video-calling someone is very revealing of their vibe and personality. Your mistake is doing these long video calls. Just get her out for a coffee. But just the fact that you assume it was your looks reveals how insecure you are, and that's something to drop. That insecurity itself makes you unattractive. It is impossible to even get 20% of girls attracted to you.

Oh, pussy will activate for a man who is truly spiritual. Trust me But you must still learn to be a MAN. Spirituality is not a shortcut around that. The core fundamentals of game are still operative. You can use spirituality to ground yourself deeply in an authenic masculinity. But you still have to leave your basement and talk to girls to get girls. There is no shortcut for that. If you are too scared to approach a hot girl and look her square in the eyes then what does your spirituality really mean?

There is a silver lining. What you lose in quantity and raw material hotness you can make up many fold in depth of connection. You are going from shallow as an oil spill to deep as a well.

Consciousness goes way beyond functionality. What humans called "enlightened" is just a drop in the ocean of states of consciousness that are possible. Imagine becoming an enlightened werewolf. Consciousness can create that state/reality, but your human mind cannot fathom it.