Leo Gura

Nonduality is not a model or a temporary experience. You're wasting time with this. Stop trying to model nonduality. This an absurdity by definition. A Zen master would slap you across the face at this point because you are lost in your mind and being stubborn about it.

LOL, thanks man.

Telling people to consider that ego is truth is just silliness, though. We are not here to be democratic with the devil. We are here to reach for Truth.

Truth is NOT a model or a description of any kind. You cannot have alternative versions of Truth. Truth is singular and absolute. Nonduality is not a state either. You are not appreciating how radical this thing called "Truth" is. Your mind cannot hold it, it holds your mind.

@Jacobsrw 3.5 grams will be too much. Complete 10 trips at 2 grams first. Doubling from 2g to 4g will quadruple the power. At 4g, mushrooms can seriously mindfuck you. So be cautious.

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Match is part of the process. Of course not every woman will be a match with every man. That's all sorted out in the field. It's not like if a guy has game he can attract/sleep with 100% of women. About 33% of women will love him, 33% of women will hate him, and 33% of women will be indifferent. There's always an element of luck and personalities need to match up. That's why he chats with 10 women, 3 get attracted, 1 comes home. A highly attractive man is actually more polarizing. Some women will absolutely hate him. But those who like him will LOVE him. You also have to keep in mind that not all guys with game are the same. Each guys attracts a specific subset of female personality types. Because game is expressed differently through different personality types. Game is not a specific type of guy, it's general principles of attractiveness which are incarnated uniquely by each guy, attracting different kinds of women. For example, humor is going to vary from guy to guy. Guys can have very different senses and styles of humor. But learning the general principles of humor will help every guy, no matter what his style of humor is. And all girls love some style of humor. Humor can be dry, witty, intellectual, sexual, subdued, bold, sarcastic, self-deprecating, dark, physical, nerdy, etc.

That's such a huge topic. Here's a few things quickly off the top of my head: Laser eye contact Learning to create a genuine smile on a dime Firm, commanding tone of voice. Slowing down your rate of speech. Being relaxed and at ease in your body when talking Simply lots of socialization and conversation experience (doesn't even have to be with women). The stuff I talk about in my video: How To Be Funny The ability to talk about yourself endlessly. Dressing sharp. Get all of your clothing tailored for slim fit. Groom yourself well. Upgrade your whole wardrobe to be stylish. Develop a sense of style that suits you. The ability to be playful and laugh at yourself and life Handle your sexual neediness so that you aren't sexually needy Develop charisma -- I have a good book about charisma on my book list. Passion for life. You must be building an awesome life for yourself aside from girls/sex/relationship. The girl should be the least important part of your life. Your life should be so awesome that anyone who comes into contact with you would feel lucky. You must be in love with yourself and your life. Self-Love. Accept yourself as you are, completely. Be thrilled to be you. Treat yourself as God's gift to the world and to women. You feel the pain of it fully. You cry. You pull your hair out. Some nights I had such failure that I literally drove home crying. And that's what made me stronger. The suffering grows you. Read the book Mastery by George Leonard.

Of course most guys doing game are Orange, and some even Red. I've known guys who do game who are flat out rapists with pending legal cases against them. But this is rare. Most guys are Orange. Yes, many guys objectify women and sex. But you also have to understand, this is not a function of game itself, this is simply how most guys today think about sex. A stage Orange man will objectify women whether he learns game or not. Russell Brand used to be heroin addict. So, yeah, people grow. Trump's "locker room talk"? Honestly, lots of guys talk that way behind closed doors. That's excessive Orange mentality. It's just hidden. You have too appreciate that pickup brings up into the open what has been repressed and hidden for centuries. Stage Blue repressed sex so much for so long that stage Orange swings in the opposite direction. There is still a social stigma about being open about the reality of dating and sex. Dating can be ruthless. Not just from the man's side from the woman's side too. Women are not angels in all this. They too are constantly manipulating to meet their survival needs.

You are unwittingly condemning men to stay losers. Become a charming man is not something that happens naturally for most guys due to poor social conditioning. Becoming a man takes work! Being shy, unsociable, self-conscious, meek, fearful, angry, bitter, lonely, needy, inarticulate, poor at physical touch, bad sense of humor, etc -- these are not natural. This is the result of bad upbringing and lack of training. It doesn't matter what source the man got his charm from. If he's charming, he's charming. That's real and girls respond accordingly because they don't care about the backstory of how he became charming.

This is what true game looks like: Watch as he charms Mika's panties off. She cannot resist him. Precisely because he's so authentic. You cannot fake that kind of charm. Pickup teaches how to become that kind of man.

Just go on Yelp. You guys make this so hard when it is so easy.

My experience of my sexuality differs from this. Though I could see how it would work on women who don't have a very strong intuition or boundaries or who are just lonely... which probably describes like 25% of women. So, it's a sizable enough minority to find a sexual partner as a man. But I don't think this is typical. It's certainly not logical. But usually the guy is someone I have either a platonic friendship with or an acquaintance relationship to. And it isn't based on looks or any other specific trait. But the draw is curiosity about his energy at a distance. It's always the question of whether or not the guy is interested and the wondering of what's happening in his mind. So, it is introversion and nonchalance and lack of clear interest that attracts me along with his general energy. Not 25% of women. 100% of heterosexual women. What you describe in your 2nd paragraph: the vibe, the energy, the nonchalance... that's exactly what game is. You are thinking of game as a set of tricks men use to maniuplate women to sleep with them. But that's not real game, that's crap game. Real game is a man simply behaving in a strong, authentic, masculine way which generates a really charming vibe that girls cannot resist. The charm isn't fake, it's real! The woman gets attracted not because she is verbally tricked, but because the guy is actually being an awesome guy to his bones. Imagine your dream guy: strong, bold, charming, smooth, natural, funny, cool, exuding masculine vibe. That's what pickup trains a guy how to be. And once a guy becomes that way, every girl wants to marry him. The trick is, once a guy becomes that way he has so many options that he may not want to get married to any one girl. And thus a player is born. Despite what they say, girls love players. She simply wants to lock him down for herself. That is the real issue. Girls struggle with players because they are hard to lock down. In other words, sex is a marketplace and girls do not want to admit that.

Excellent! Great work. Yes, a long mushroom session can result in a headache. It passes in a day or so. You only strached the surface. The non-personal existential questions are when things get interesting.

Of course psychics are real. The doubt itself is silly if you have sufficient experience working with them. What's fake is the materialist denial of psychics. Materialism is a joke.

Good work. Keep at it.

It is far more radical than that. Truth includes static and dynamic, and an infinite number of other possibilities. It is Infinity.

Infinity cannot be explained. Period. The mistake is trying to explain it. All explanations are finite, relative, and incomplete. It's all pure imagination.

I don't know. I haven't gotten into LD. They were definitely not memories but entirely unique mystical and nondual experiences with new genuine insights. Of course a prior history of psychedelics and so forth helped expand my mind and therefore made such experiences more possible. There's no reason it wouldn't work. The problem is that it's really not in your control. It's random. And it tends to fade fast because dreams aren't so clear as "real life". Yes, entire books have been written about how to use LD for inner work. It takes a lot of practice. I prefer to do my inner work during the day, but to each his own. - - - - - Many years ago, before I started Actualized or knew about awakening, once in a dream I accidentally became conscious of the infinity of consciousness. But I lacked the theoretical framework to understand the significance of that experience, so I sort of forgot about it. If you think back about your whole lifetime of dreaming, maybe you can recall a few such moments.

Well, we already have mega threads for 5-MeO-DMT, DPT, and N,N-DMT. I'm not sure enough people here have experience with much beyond that.

Yes, I know your pain very well. I have lost 100s of such girls out of sheer incompetence and weakness. I think your only problem is lack of volume. You gotta understand that getting good at this skill set literally requires 1000s of approaches every year. Really, you have to devote a few years of your life to it. How badly do you want to get good? That's the key question. As Zizek would say, are you willing to sell your mother into slavery to get good with girls? If not, your results will be mediocre. You need serious vision and drive here. You will have to work your ass off for it. Having sex with lots of hot women is not something that life just hands you on a silver platter. Becoming a highly attractive man is a huge makeover project. It involves making deep structural changes to your entire lifestyle and way of thinking. If it was easy, every guy would be sleeping with a model.

Not really People already have plenty to attack me for. I'm not a politically correct guy.

Says ever girl on the planet, until she's doing it You have to understand that attraction and sex are not a logical thing. All your logic and excuses will fly out the window as soon as the right guy shows up who knows how to push your buttons. The whole magic of game is that cuts through the logic that women use to stop themselves from having sex. It's possible to narrate to a woman every step of the game you're run on her, and she will still fall under its spell. Because its not logical. In fact, I've done just that as a technique. It still works. Attraction happens on a subconscious level. A guy charms his way into your pants. It's spooky.

There are pros and cons to both. I wasn't speaking to their safety. I was speaking to their efficacy. Although I have not really encountered any serious safety issues as long as you're not doing something stupid. And I should here note, lots of people do stupid things. So I can't speak to that. My personal standard is always extreme carefulness with any psychedelic substance. We could, if people have content worth filling it with.

Eating raw foods definitely improves clarity of mind. The challenge is getting enough calories and doing all the prep work since you gotta make it all yourself. It's a huge volume of matter just to chew through. It's also very expensive.