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Don't forget that guys with serious game are like 2% of the population. So if you don't want a player, you can easily avoid them. As long as you can keep your legs closed for them The thing about players is.... you want to open your legs for them real bad. That's what makes them a player.
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Haha In practice what most women do is this: They spend their teens and 20s sleeping around with the hottest, most high-value guys they can find. But since these guys are high value, they tend to be players who leverage their value and won't commit, or are abusive narcissistic assholes. So eventually by the time you hit your 30s you learn your lesson and lower your standards to guys who are less players, but also less attractive and you find some comfortable compromise position with such a guy and you two settle down. Then you get divorced. This is a tale as old as mankind itself. Nothing at all surprising about it. This is the game. The game is happening whether you know it or not, whether you want it or not. The only way out of the game is not be alone and not have sex. If you're going to play the game, you're gonna suffer its inherent limitations. There is no free lunch in the relative world. Sex and relationships have a high cost. Which is why monks and yogis avoid them entirely.
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Of course I understand that. You are describing the female sexual agenda. I totally get it. But men are under no obligation to cater to your agenda. Well, that's beyond the scope of what most men are interested in learning. Most men want to buy advice for how to get more sex, not how to be nice to their girlfriend. Again, you are expecting men to want to suit your female sexual agenda. But of course men have their own agenda. Why should men work towards your agenda when you don't care about fulfilling their agenda? Men are merely doing to you what you are doing to them. Notice your self-bias here. Haha! And if women would freely open their legs for men when the man wanted it, then men would be much happier with no frustration or burden. You are not understanding that women and men have conflicting agendas. You expect the man to align to your agenda while you will not do so for him. So here we are stuck in sex wars. The nature of sexual relations is adversarial. This needs to be understood. Yes, but you will never give your love to a man you don't find attractive. Neither will a man. You expect the man to bend over backwards for you. Which is selfish. But when you act selfish, why are you surprised when the man acts selfish too? He's merely mirroring your own selfishness. Your desire to lock down a high quality man is selfish and that is your agenda. A man is not under any obligation to do that. Maybe he wants that. But maybe he doesn't. And there is noone to say which is right or wrong because this is a purely relative matter. And what if he wants sex but you don't give it to him? High quality women will attract strong men, which is what they want. Where in the universe is it written that a man should have one woman. See? The universe doesn't revolve around your needs. Then don't sleep with players. Sleep with some shy nerd who has zero game. There are millions of them around so you will have no problem finding one. But you see, you don't want to sleep with such a man. You are not attracted to that. You are attracted precisely to strong men who are players who would sleep with lots of women. But you selfishly want to lock him down for yourself exclusively. So you are creating your own problem. Likewise for a man. A hot woman can easily be an awful human on the inside. The hottest women tend to be spoiled and emotionally fucked up. You don't like asshole men, and we men don't like emotional nutcase women. So we're even. Dealing with a crazy emotional woman's drama is no walk in the park. Of course. But you must have heard of hot women who were insane spoiled brats. Let's not pretend that men are the only cheaters in the game. Women cheat too. Women use men too. No, that's highly relative. Like I said, you are free to date whoever you want. Date a socially clueless and humorless man. Go date an incel. They got zero game. But they also have zero value. But of course you will never be attracted to an Incel. You see, you are trying to steal sexual value. What you really want is this: you want a super attractive high value man who will never leverage his value. Well, good luck. The more value a man has, the more he will leverage it. Likewise, the more value a woman has, the more she will leverage it. A hot women will not hesitate to leverage her value to get the best man she can. Don't act like only men do this leveraging. All hot women do it. If a woman has enough value, she will be able to leverage it to get the man to be loyal to her. But if she has insufficient value, she won't. And this is what really pisses you off. Because you want to be able to lock down a man with higher value than you, and you see how easily that fails. But you still want it because you are greedy. You want value for free. This is otherwise known as stealing value. Your ego-mind wants to steal sexual value. Well, that doesn't work so well. So stop doing it. I know plenty of players and PUAs who ended up settling for one woman. For most guys, pickup is a phase they go through. They sleep around with a handful of girls until they find one and settle down. Few guys want to be hardcore players for life. This is an exception, not the rule. It's also not very sustainable or even desirable. Dating multiple women gets exhausting and time-consuming. But also, don't pretend like women don't go through a slutty phase. Women sleep around as much if not more than men, but you love to deny it. No and no. Sometimes people are just not compatible or properly aligned with each other. In fact this is more often the case than not.
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Leo Gura replied to KaRzual's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
Now try practicing letting go of each specific feeling. See video: The Power Of Letting Go If you can feel anger, the next step is to let it go until peace is achieved. -
@Truthwillwin Do not spread slanderous things about my brand.
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Democrats self-reflect far more than Republicans. The only reason Democrats lose is because they have a huge demographic disadvantage with the electoral college and senate system. Trump exploited peoples' fears and ignorance. Plain and simple. The peoples' true discontent is with the late-stage capitalism system, but they don't understand that, so they are easily exploited by right-wing demagogues.
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@Opaltri Breaking News: Joe Biden is a centrist.
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How else are the Jew pedophiles supposed to tell him what to say?
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https://www.bloomberg.com/news/articles/2018-10-02/ny-times-trump-got-413m-from-his-dad-much-from-tax-dodges
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If he was truly smart, all of his businesses would not have failed. He started out with more money than he now has. Trump started out with an inheritance of $400 million! Adjusted for inflation, that's more than he's currently worth.
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You make me wanna vomit a bit in my mouth. But hey, do you, pal.
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Leo Gura replied to TrynaBeTurquoise's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
@ajai If you read the fine print on a water bottle, it will tell you if it is from RO filtration or a natural spring. RO bottled water is almost always have minerals added back in as the final stage of the process. The only thing you gotta watch out for with water bottles is the BPA in the plastic. Best to get 5 gallon BPA-free thick jugs. -
Here we go! Fresh off the right-wing conspiracy presses. The global awakening has arrived!
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Hitler: good communicator, highly motivated, really good at tapping into people's fears and desires. The man doesn't give up. What could go wrong? ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
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Leo Gura replied to Matt Skinner's topic in Society, Politics, Government, Environment, Current Events
Isn't it obvious that of course Trump will downplay any illness he gets? I mean, this is business as usual for him. He downplays anything that makes him look weak. He seems mostly functional, which means its not lethal for him, and that was the only part that mattered. Overall, this recovery is pretty impressive for a guy his age and with the garbage he eats. The devil is blessed with genes that won't quit -
Leo Gura replied to TrynaBeTurquoise's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
This is just absurd. You can easily test the impurities level of your tap water and bottled water with a $15 water meter from Amazon. Bottled water is about 20 PPM. Tap water is around 300 PPM, depending on where you live. Tap water is not run through RO filters. Bottled water is. It would be super wasteful to run tap water through and RO filter at the city level. RO filters waste 3-5 gallons of tap water to produce 1 gallon of pure drinking water. -
I never said the CIA are good guys. Every major national intelligence agency plots against other nations. This is no conspiracy. This is business as usual. Yes, warfare involves secrecy and classified information. These are all systemic forces, not conspiracies of evil.
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The dude thought it was feasible to stop a hurricane with a nuke and to dig a trench at the Mexico border wall and fill it with alligators.
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It has always been the case that 50% of the internet was porn. The only thing that's changed is the quality of the video has increased. There was enough porn online in the 90's for a lifetime of jerking off.
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Yes, absolutely. Women carry a different burden. You gotta deal with shitty, abusive men. Yes, of course it is difficult. Good men are rare just as hot women are rare. Dating is an auction system for reproductive value distribution. If you want a high quality mate, you will have to work on it. It won't come for free. Because high reproductive value is very valuable among humans. The whole key to getting good results in dating is to raise the value you bring to the negotiating table. The higher the value you bring, the higher the value you'll get. Be ware of trying to steal or leech reproductive value like a parasite by offering little in return. There will never be an easy solution to this problem because reproduction is a struggle for maximizing value. It was never an activity of unconditional love. You would not sleep with a homeless person. Why not? Does he not deserve your love?
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What you have to understand is that that is your agenda based on your needs as a woman. Guys have a different agenda. It's just that simple. You must also consider that for guys to attract girls, the guy has to take the lead and do the work. It doesn't happen passively for guys as it does for many girls. If the guy doesn't go out and hunt, he starves. Hunting is not predatory in some evil sense here. The guy could be hunting for his dream girlfriend/wife. In fact, that's what most guys probably want. But to get her, they must first learn how to hunt in general. You can't just land your dream girl with one attempt. It takes a lot of work and practice. Hunting is not mutually exclusive to romance and love. Dating can be done unconsciously or consciously, and many shades in between. And don't forget, just because a guy doesn't get into pickup does not mean he don't abuse or manipulate women. He certainly will as he will be even more desperate and lacking the hunting skills. A starving limping wolf is more dangerous than a strong well-fed wolf. Also, pickup is not merely about hunting girls. It's most about transforming oneself into a better man in order to attract and keep higher quality girls. In the end the guy will discover that tricking girls doesn't work, so the guy is forced to grow himself to get the best girls. None of this makes much sense from the girl's perspective because you are not tasked with the burden of approaching. You should be thankful that you don't have to carry that burden because it's quite heavy. Do some guys abuse it? Of course! See, the thing is, women LOVE a strong guy. But they don't love the process which a guy must go through to become strong. Women only want the end-result of the work. Women expect that strength to be effortless, natural, and free, without any work. They don't want to know how the sausage is made. Also, you should realize that what you call "real love" isn't real love. It is selfishness and survival. Women do not love men unconditionally. You are attracted to strong men who fit your survival needs. You are attracted to weak, needy, humorless men. Men will love women unconditionally the same day that women love men unconditionally. Which is never. All romantic activities are highly conditional, biased, and selfish.
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Trump is very successful at being a failure
