Leo Gura

Destroys the devil, eh? And how will that work if you are a devil? Careful what you wish for. He who would destroy devils is usually the biggest devil of the bunch. By that definition women LOVE assholes

It goes way deeper than lying. When you say "lying" in this context it implies something like lying about how much money you make or how big your dick is. That kind of lying is of course silly and isn't very helpful in getting laid more. But where it helps to get laid is when you're pushing hard on the logistics to close. Handling those logistics successfully often involves a lot of subtle manipulation. And just not caring how she feels will get you a long way. You can pump and dumb a girl without lying to her per se. But if you were conscious you'd be aware of how much it hurts her and you wouldn't do it. Removing the concern from your mind will increase your lay count significantly. It's not lying that gets you results, it's not giving a fuck about her feelings or agenda.

That is also survival. Survival is a much deeper notion than just biological health. When you buy your Mom a Mother's Day card, that's still survival.

Sounds like a wild animal pissing on the dinner table.

How is it not possible? If everything is ONE, then you are everything and consciousness is everything, including itself. Thus A = A. No problem remains. Nothing is what you presently are conscious of. Consciousness is not some biological process. Consciousness is simply nothing. It isn't anything. And yet here is it. Here you are. If you want a more practical answer, take psychedelics.

How To Be A Man - Part 1 & Part 2

@ilja You need me to tell you what honesty is?

@Pisces29 Don't fool yourself that you know me. This work has nothing to do with me. Take the concepts and work them. Leo is irrelevant. Don't look at Leo, point your nose towards the work.

@Findus That account was banned. You can use this new account. But mind what you post since I will be watching you and I don't have trust that you won't post more ideological garbage. You're welcome to show me wrong by using your mind in a conscious manner.

Dualities of all kinds interplay with each other in the Universe, of course. But your selection of sexual partners is survival. Even the desire to be next to another human is survival and it's a biased activity.

If you want to marry a girl who's more like a man/nerd, go for it. I am speaking from the perspective of masculine guys who like feminine girls. The degree of your polarity determines what you want/need. There are traps on both ends. There is a trap in dating too feminine, then she's too dramatic and irrational. There is a trap in dating too masculine, then she's too much like you. Find your sweet spot. Personally I don't need a girl who's a philosopher because I already got that handled.

Both Your entire nervous system is shaped by survival. All your sexual desires are obviously pure survival, or else you'd buy a goat and stick your dick in it. Where you stick your dick is purely a matter of survival. Since it makes no difference otherwise. Contemplate why you prefer a human over a goat. Some things are so obvious they go overlooked.

@Preety_India Girls can use logic, but when forced to choose between brutal truth and saving feelings, you will tend to choose to save feelings. It's a fundamental feminine bias. Not good or bad, just is.

Then you've misunderstood. Survival isn't bad. It's inescapable. We talk about survival a lot because you're completely wrapped up in it without realizing it. And there's nowhere else to go.

@AtheisticNonduality That's exactly what I warned you against. Stop looking for a woman who acts like a man. It's a trap. Or, hey, if you want to bang Sam Harris, go for it. I don't care. It's your dick.

Aahahahaha.... Ego wants an 25,000 word essay to convince it that ego isn't real

I don't know. I'm not some MBTI expert.

Before one can soar with the eagles one must first realize oneself as a pig, sleeping in the mud along with all the other pigs

This dude knows how to milk that sweet satire and effortlessly deconstruct each talking point.

This dude is way funnier.

BINGO. Stop right there

@lmfao But the whole appeal of a woman (from a guy's POV) is that she's sweet and motherly, not a logic nerd. You are attracted to her precisely because she's not a mathematics professor. You're not looking to fuck Sam Harris. It's important as a guy to realize that you want your woman to be feminine and to embrace the trade-offs that come with that. Don't use a woman to get to truth. Arrive at truth on your own and enjoy the woman for other things.

I never said anything about insulting women. To have sex with lots of women it certainly helps to be really good a lying and manipulating them emotionally. I'm an NOT saying you should do that. I'm simply telling you how sex works and what I personally avoided and sacrificed sex for. If I wanted to emotionally manipulate women, I would have way more sex. That's just a fact. And there should not be anything surprising about this. If I was more selfish, more assertive, I would get more sex and women would find me more attractive, at least in the short-term. The entire point of manipulation -- whether it be of women or customers or politicians -- is that it gets you way more material results than you would otherwise get. Of course there will be karma that goes along with it in the long-term. I am not telling anyone how to behave. I am just describing trade-offs that exist. One of my ex-girlfriends was handcuffed to a door for a month and fucked at gunpoint every night until she escaped. Extreme, yeah. But that's assertiveness for ya. So be careful what you wish for when you want an assertive man. A really assertive man will not mind fucking you at gunpoint. Assertiveness is like spicy food. How hot can you handle? Bite a Habanero and you'll get burned. If I manipulated my customers more, I would earn way more money too! Surprise, surprise! Looky how the world works. If manipulation did not have massive material rewards, it would not exist.

Oh, easily. I can think of 5 women off the top of my head who I could have slept with (but didn't) if all I cared about was sleeping with them and didn't care about hurting them through pump and dump. In pickup situations, being highly assertive to the point of obnoxiousness and sociopathy will increase your results by 5-10x. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8WuC3DE_RHI There is a direct inverse correlation between how much you care about a girls feelings and how many girls you bang. I've met guys who have slept with 100, 200, 300 girls. What's their secret? They give zero shits about the girls feelings. Zero.

Most people ain't speaking TRUTH, so we don't have very good mortality statistics If you told your boss the truth he would almost certainly fire you Girls are more biased to feelings. A mother's job is not to tell the child the truth but to make it feel loved. Conversely with father. But most men are still so full of shit that it's close to a toss up. If women are 1% truthful on average. Men are 1.5%. So in absolute terms the difference is minor. Constant lying is the default condition of mankind.