Leo Gura

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  1. DHV comes off as too fake and gamey. Be fun and playful. Don't try to impress. And then on top of that, you should already be a cool and interesting guy by building out a cool and interesting life. DHV should be a natural consequence of your yearly self-actualizing work. Once you got it, you don't need to try to impress girls with it. It will naturally reveal itself as she starts asking about your life. Like, if a girl starts asking me what I do, if I just talk about it authentically, I will come off as very high value. She will be like, "I thought this guy is just playful and fun, but he's also got an amazing life! This is amazing. I want his dick right now!" If anything, you could even DLV. Purposefully play down your value by telling her you work at Walmart sucking customer's dicks. This will come off much better than trying to impress her that you're a DJ. "Girl... you think you want to be with some hotshot DJ, but I know what you really want. You want to marry a guy who works at Walmart sucking customer's dicks for minimum wage. I bet you didn't even know Walmart had such a position. Well, they do and today's your lucky day." Humor is the fastest way into a woman's pants. P.S. If you actually work at Walmart, then that strategy will not work so well. It works better the higher value your naturally are. If you were a DJ or a doctor, that line would work amazing.
  2. It's just self-bias. They are not conscious that they are being selfish and totally ignoring the female side of the coin. Because it does not serve their survival agenda. From a man's POV the situation looks unfair because women don't have a problem getting sex. And since sex is mostly what the man cares about, he doesn't consider any other factors.
  3. Absolute Truth is beyond knowledge. You ARE Absolute Truth. The only way to get it is to awaken. What means you awaken by it irrelevant. Watch my video: Relative vs Absolute Truth Yes, God is forever exploring itself, since there's nothing else to do. In Oneness all questions are answered and the puzzle of life is solved. But then back to dreaming since there's nothing else to do. Infinity.
  4. For exactly the same reason you treat fat ugly girls as trash. People are selfish and only respond to those who serve their survival agenda. A nice guy does not serve the survival agenda of hot women. Women don't need a second pussy. Rather than blaming women, stop being a pussy.
  5. I would meta-classify this as peak Orange: grifting dumb people who watch TV by acting like Blue fools.
  6. Yes, the coach training biz tends to be incestuous. So be careful. Most coaches fail. But then again, most businesses fail. That's just the nature of learning biz. Learning to biz is fucking hard.
  7. Watch those sneaky interpretations
  8. Drop the logical rules and go by feeling. "Feel the Force, Luke." Turn off your fucking targetting computer
  9. Of course in the absolute sense God is ego. But be caref conflating absolute and relative matters. This is true from the absolute POV. But the problem is you live in the relative and politics is the domain of the relative. So there would be many relative-level problems. For example, many people would die. From the absolute this makes no difference. But when your family dies you will react to it from the relative. If you are conscious enough to have no problem with your family dying, then go pray to Trump. But you see, if you were that conscious you would never pray to Trump because you would see him as the fool that he is. God acting as a fool. And you would have no reason to pray because you'd realize you are God.
  10. Yup
  11. It's not "a view". It is absolutely the case. These are just the natural paradoxes of Infinity. Infinity has no end. It can keep exploring itself forever. But also it can be conscious of itself as Infinity. And also it can be totally unconscious of itself. The mindfuck of Infinity is that it is both infinite and finite! True Infinity cannot exclude the finite. Therefore it is a self-negating entity that transcends human logic. Again, the problem here is that your mind is trying to pin Infinity down to some one explicit thing, which is impossible since Infinity is truly infinite. If you could define Infinity, it would not be infinite. But also, you CAN define it too. Since if you couldn't define Infinity that would also make it finite. Yes, God is that which always has more of itself to discover, since God is so endless it cannot know itself. But also God perfectly is itself Knowledge is a dualistic notion. God's being is prior to knowing. It's more true than knowing anything could ever be. God isn't just something you know, God is what you ARE!
  12. Glen Greenwald is overrated. Why is he even getting involved in such petty shit? This whole Anna vs Jimmy drama is a tempest in a teapot. It has less import than the hairs on my ass.
  13. Precisely because when a thing is all there is, you have no way to grasp it, since grasping involves drawing a distinction between this and it's opposite. But Infinity has no opposite. That's the mindfuck of awakening: there is no way. Any direction is too far from what is. The Absolute cannot have a direction or method. It is a journey of zero steps. Any step you try to take towards it is one step too much. If this sounds annoyingly Zen, well, it is! Those are relative tricks to help you realize a thing which is already the case. Technically there is no way to reach awakening. But practically you can improve your odds with stuff like psychedelics and meditation. The real question is whether you get what I mean. This is not a bug, it's a feature. Infinity cannot be made explicit. You are trying to make the Infinite finite, which will ways fail. This would be so much easier for you if you just took a psychedelic. You'd realize within minutes what would otherwise take you decades of hitting your head against a brick wall. The human mind simply cannot get this. Because the human mind is finite, and what we're trying to get is Infinite. So your mind is the problem here. And it's really fucking hard to use your mind to escape your mind. Which is what you are attempting to do but failing it. You should not be surprised at the failure. You've been told many times that that won't work. Something entirely different is required.
  14. Then you are fucked. There is nothing more fundamental than love for reality itself. It will work. If you work it. But work it! Stop the not-working. Or just take a psychedelic. With you guys, it's like I tell you the hard way and the easy way. And you invent excuses for why the hard way is too hard and the easy way is too easy. And thus you end up less than nowhere.
  15. The difference between one and many is imaginary, thus resulting is Absolute Oneness. Absolute Oneness does not exclude manyness, it includes it. The oneness you think of is not true Oneness because you hold it as opposite of manyness. True Oneness has no opposite. God is an entity which includes all other entities. So there can only be One. There cannot be many Gods because the differences between them would have to imagined by One God. God is that which has no differences, and has all differences.
  16. There is, but you are not conscious of it. You are like a fish asking, "Where is the water? Water is bullshit!" The Truth is here and now, but that does not mean you are conscious of what it is. Yes, indeed you should take a psychedelic to help you bust out of your ignorant condition. When someone tells you there is Japan, what they mean is: you can be in Japan but you aren't there yet. And you say, "That's bullshit, only where I am now is true." This is a conflation of relative and absolute. Yes, where you are now is true, but you can also go to Japan. Truth changes.
  17. This is the issue of being decisive. Of course you can make mistakes and even disasterous choices in life. But life is all about making wise choices in the face of uncertainty, ambiguity, and imperfect knowledge. The key thing to realize is that the biggest mistake is often simply being indecisive. You should be more afraid of indecsiveness than making a bad choice. Most bad choices can be corrected for. Chronic indecisiveness will get you so stuck as to ruin your life. Making mistakes is crucial to learning. See my episode: Exposing Yourself To More Experience. Don't worry about making mistakes. Just make choices in alignment with wisdom and your top values, and then commit to working hard. Hard work fixes most mistakes. Don't seek perfection, just seek constant improvement of your current state.
  18. Sit in silence and look at reality until you realize that you love it.
  19. Yeah, well... sounds like you're very disconnected from Love. I suggest you start to correct this by first realizing your love for reality itself. And then expand from there. If you can't find love for reality itself, you're sorta fucked. You are missing something fundamental: which is a consciousness of existence itself.
  20. There are some harsh truths about how women have sex. When you learn the truth of it, it busts many romanticized myths and cultural fantasies. I got nothing against femininity or women. I just don't prepetuate the myths of how they have sex. Sex is deliberately lied about in our culture because it is still taboo. You women have to maintain an air of innocence and purity. I get it. But I am not going to play those games. If you are young guy reading this: treat women well. Don't be a selfish prick. Don't abuse the powers of attraction.
  21. This very much depends on you. Stop worrying about the numbers and just get excited about going out and approaching on a weekly basis. 2000 will certainly get you some amazing times.
  22. Hehehe.... This is just you realizing how little action you take. Rather than asking how to feel good about not approaching, approach! It's not about the sex. It's about curing your weakness as a man.
  23. Never Mushrooms screw with memory a bit. No other psychedelic has that effect on me.