Leo Gura

@SamC Watch Mike's in-field videos: https://www.pickupalpha.com/video/ This is the most realistic presentation of how night game and club game works.

Great! In a club kissing a girl within 15 mins is not too early. Dude, you can pull a girl in 15 mins. You can kiss a girl within a minute or two if she's in the right mood. The problem is not that you did it too early, the problem is that you didn't escalate up the kino ladder properly. Before you kiss her, you should physically escalate in other smaller ways so that she is not blindsided by the kiss. Usually before you kiss her you gotta have your hands all over her body. Physically escalating over her body is more important than kissing. And you need to learn to start doing it immediately upon opening. Especially in a club. That's silly. You approach as soon as you see a girl you like. Especially when you are just starting your training. Your job should be to maximize the number of girls you open and the time you spend talking to them. You need warm up sets to get in the flow and build up your state. And a lot of times you can pull a girl pretty early in the night. You don't have to wait till the end of the night to pull. If it's extremely loud and crowded, you must rely much more on physical game and strong eye contact. Don't try to have a logical substantive conversation. You basically talk about herself and yourself. And you riff variations on that. You flirt. Watch some in-field footage to get an idea of what guys talk about. The advice is: it takes 100s and 1000s of approaches to get good. Your first 500 approaches will suck. Just do the best you can and don't judge yourself. Approach as much as you can and take risks. Learn by failing.

Clarity of your intent is key. There are two kinds of interactions with women: 1) Friendly and social 2) With sexual intent, man to woman You need to be clear in your own mind what your intent is. That intent shapes the whole interaction. If all the girls you talk to start out as #1, and you do hours of #1, then converting that into #2 will be difficult if not impossible because now she sees you as her gay friend, and you see yourself that way too. You need to become better at simply communicating when you are attracted to a woman. If you are genuinely attracted, tell her early on. It should not take you hours to know you are attracted to her. You should know within 5 seconds. Of course the more you communicate as #2, the more rejections you will get because you are forcing her to quickly decide whether she's attracted to you. And most girls will simply not be attracted to you no matter what you do. So the key here is just take the rejection as a good thing. It means you clearly hit on her. The easiest way to turn a friendly conversation with a girl into one with sexual intent is to drop small hints that you find her attractive. For example, "Hey cutie"

Most heads of families are not players. Nothing wrong with being a strong provider. However, a lot of guys fall into that frame of bending over backwards for their woman because they are incapable of finding a new one if she leaves. There is a sort of chump way of being a provider. It's the classic "nice guy" stereotype. You're basically asking me, "What's wrong with being a nice guy? What's wrong with being nice?"

Sounds like you enjoy chess but it is not central to your LP. It's just that you are afraid to go after your LP full-bore because you don't yet know how to actualize it and chess is something you're good at seperately, so you're trying to shoehorn that into your LP somehow. But is this really relevant to your LP? Some food for thought. I am not telling you what to do.

Unless you are impregnating all those females you pull, sex is giving peace to your brain no less than porn. Ironically, pickup guys are anti-reproduction. Healthy kids are not usually raised by players, but by provider guys with a bad case of Oneitis. Think about it: Was your dad a player? Did he have a double or triple digit lay count?

Stop creating distinctions

Nothing is gained but awkward shit can surface. Why kick that hornet's nest? You shouldn't even care to know. Let the past go. My rule is: I don't want to hear about your ex-s and what you did with them. I don't want to fill my mind with garbage. Do not drag old relationships into the present one. Make a clean slate.

I'm not stupid enough to bring up that topic. What possible good can come of it?

Best not to ask. Don't drag the past into a new relationship, this will just taint a clean slate.

We don't discuss sourcing here.

Considering he got laid 100+ times, I'd say it worked out pretty well for him.

It's easy to explain. Those guys have some natural way of being social. For example, their job allows them to effortlessly socialize with lots of girls. For example, my bartender friend literally gets paid to hit on girls all night long. Another guy worked in a women's shoe store and hit on girls 8hr per day, 5 days a week. A position like this makes life so easy.

I don't see the problem other than in your own mind. It's actually a great sign if she loves you despite making more than you. That's real love. As long as you're not jobless I don't see the problem.

No, it is true Absolutely.

Every city I've gamed in I had found amazing wings. Dallas, Austin, Vegas It's worth looking for good guys. I learned so much from good wings. I basically couldn't have started without them. Some cities will be a lot better than others. If your city sucks, seriously consider moving. For international cities, yeah, this resource may not be as good because it's on an English website. You might have to find more local resources in your language. But also don't discounter foreigners. You can meet some awesome wings who are traveling around the world and dropping by your city for a week or a month. Still worth learning from them. Some of them could be really good.

I also said God slowly nudges you along. Sorry, but God designed the Universe such that you can't stay a selfish prick indefinitely. I know you want to, hence the design

@PurpleTree Don't forget you're also too young, too short, too tall, too fat, too skinny, too pimply, too hairy, not hairy enough.... Re: Covid I was at a packed Vegas club a few days ago. It was packed like a sardine can, no masks, people making out and hooking up left and right. The parties are back in full force. Before you make out with a girl, just ask her if she has Covid

Nearly 2 years of massive suffering has made it pretty easy to stick rigorously to only the foods I can digest. I have recently reintroduced plain white rice and it's working well for me. Bananas and dates are a big no-no. If you don't stick to your diet rigorously you may never cure your SIBO. That should be motivation enough.

They're not really realizing it though. It's all just conceptual and not a true realization. It cannot be grasped using dualities like beginning/end or science/non-science. Of course everywhere science looks it will see Infinity. Just the fact that you can count the integers up to infinity is evidence that reality is infinite. You could not count up to infinity if reality was finite. The problem is that scientists are not thinking holistically enough to realize the significance of what infinity means. All the scientific clues fall on deaf scientific ears.

Reality has existed FOREVER. God (YOU) is dreaming endlessly in any direction you look. YOU ARE AN INFINITE DREAM. No matter how deeply you look, you will never find an end to Yourself. Nor a beginning.

Good to hear that it's gentle and pleasant for you too. 5-MeO-DMT can be pretty rough and brutal. MALT is more erotic and warm for me. Careful, it packs an epic mindfuck at high doses. It will melt your whole reality down to a puddle. Terrifying levels of Love and Unity are possible. Say goodbye to all sense of "other".

@Vision It could cure it. It depends on so many factors. You have to experiment to see what will work for you.

You combat it by making yourself very attractive and high value no matter what race you. Make your game so good that race becomes irrelevant. And if a girl says she doesn't want to date you because you are Asian, black, whatever, tell her in a cheeky way: "Stop being so racist." Nothing will spike a girl's emotions more than calling her out as a racist But you gotta be funny about it. One of the best tricks in game: if a girl is acting too bratty or spoiled, call her a racist

If a guy is not social at all he will not get any girls, correct. A girl is not going to land on your dick in your mom's basement as you play Minecraft and watch anime.