Leo Gura

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  1. @Hardkill Dude, I can make you a prostitute by putting a gun to your child's head and telling you to suck my dick. Go find some YT videos of prostitutes talking about their miserable lives.
  2. It sure does help when you are using the right tool. Props to him.
  3. Take it easy on him. He is obviously just getting started here.
  4. Yeah, it's so obvious once you get it, but until you get it you just brush it off as no big deal. And the real mindfuck is that even the phrase "the map is not the territory" is just a map, not the territory
  5. @Sam Johnson My highest reward is simply seeing you doing the work and getting results.
  6. Most women will not be happy with that unless there is some massive overriding value in other areas. Like maybe the guy is a celebrity or a millionaire or exceptionally good in bed. Selection of mates is never going to be fair or equal or kind. People will always be choosy and have lots of personal biases towards certain features. Trying to change this is silly. Let people be turned on by whatever turns them on.
  7. I don't know exactly. But it's a thing. YT has cracked down on kid content over the last few years because of how dangerous that can be.
  8. Unlimited information and unlimited disinformation. What's really mind-boggling is when you realize that Google has all the answers but virtually nobody uses it. Instead people search for stupid cat memes and penis enlargement pills.
  9. Most girls doing sex work are gonna be very psychologically damaged. You have to be psychologically unwell to be attracted to that kind of work. People in sex work often have a history of unresolved trauma. Or they simply have no other way of making money so they are forced into it to survive.
  10. If done properly it is not a distraction or an illusion, it is the uncovering and letting go of distractions and illusions. Don't get so clever that you burn your boat before you crossed the river. Discouraging people for doing spiritual work is not helpful to most people.
  11. @Karmadhi It's gonna depend so much on how much need you have for her. If you really need a girl in your life all your rules and stoicism will fly out the window. And also if it's the right girl. Some girls you just get hooked on unlike others. There are times in my life when I don't think about girls at all. Like they don't even matter. This is easy. But then there are times in my life when I crave it like crazy. This is a bitch. It can be tough sometimes.
  12. I have a video: What Awakening Feels Like You cannot capture it in any picture so it's best not to try. This will only give you a false image. Words are better than pictures here. This is why in Islam it is forbidden to make images of Allah. But Islam is okay with using words to describe Allah.
  13. This matter has been settled.
  14. Exactly The rich tend to love the idea of every-man-for-himself because they are massively winning that game. Why have a social safety net at all if you're rich? It only harms your success by charging you higher taxes for a service you will never use. Yes, they lose because imagine what would happen if anyone in the country could go to any doctor in the country and get free service. The best doctors would be overwhelmed overnight with clients seeking the best quality healthcare. But right now all the best doctors charge the most money which only the rich can afford. Therefore Medicare For All would rob the rich of their elite doctors. Think about it. It's analogous to letting homeless people share your Rolls Royce. The the rich love more than anything else is exclusive elite treatment. It's all about locking out the riff-raff. The rich need to hide from the collateral damage that their riches creates and the damage it does to society. This is why they tend to live in secluded communities.
  15. If the woman leads him on and makes it seems like sex will be happening, and then pulls the rug out from other him -- then yes, she's also behaving in a hurtful and asshole manner. Some girls do that and it is infuriating. Not because they owe sex, but just because of the way things are lead on. Ghosting someone after sex is very cold. It's obvious this hurts people. At the very least you could say something like, "Hey, I had a great time with you last night but I don't feel you are the right one for me long-term and I don't want to waste your time leading you on. Sorry."
  16. Yeah, well, that mindset is very hard to embody in practice, especially if you are deprived of sex for a while. In practice the way most players develop that mindset is by sleeping with lots of girls every month, therefore they have massive sexual abundance to the point of not caring. But if you're not sleeping around with many girls, that will be very challenging to embody. It's physiologically difficult for most guys to just ignore a hot girl. Our nervous system is wired for it like sugar. It is likewise difficult for most girls to just ignore a high value guy. They are also wired for it like sugar.
  17. It's better than demonizing it. But glorifying it is also not good. Just ask yourself, Would you want your daughter doing sex work? There's your answer.
  18. I used to have a friend who was a professional chess player. He lived in the US and traveled around the country doing tournaments for pay. And he would tutor rich kids on how to play chess. From what I understand he made a very good living doing that. BUT! This requires that you are a really top-notch chess player. You gotta be exceptionally good at it. You have to be realistic with yourself whether you're gonna reach such a top-notch level. Do you have the right stuff to make that happen? Are you willing to make your entire life chess? You're gonna have to become obsessive about it.
  19. Don't worry about it. It is a special account type for people who need special editing privileges in order to do their work.
  20. It's not about owing a relationship. It's about basic decency. You are in denial that your kind of flippant attitude will commonly hurt people. Just ask her if she feels hurt. And she will say YES. But you seem to be in denial about that and blaming her for expecting too much.
  21. The point is to learn to socialize and find yourself a girl you can fall in love with. And then if she leaves you, the point is you can find a new one.
  22. Prostition is not high integrity. It harms those women more than any kind of pickup or ONS.
  23. There may be strong cultural factors at work. Women are not as encouraged to pursue hardcore spiritual practice akin to a Zen monk. It's less socially acceptable for women to do that, and the ones who would do that are more masculine-skewing. Women are more people-oriented while men are more thing/fact-oriented. Women are more feeling-oriented while men are more truth-oriented. Of course both halves must be balanced out in a healthy and integrated way. But culture creates some strong pressures and norms. Hormones and biology does too.