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Nah, the principles of game are the same regardless of the girl. The principles of game will even work on guys.
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Of-fucking-course not. Girls that hot are psychos.
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I practice game on strippers in Vegas. Most of them eat shit and don't even work out. They are just coasting off ridiculously lucky genetics. A naturally hot girl does not even need make up and will look hot in nearly anything she wears. Girls that hot can earn $5000/night. Life ain't fair.
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How could it be otherwise?
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Leo Gura replied to Thorsten Fuzzi's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
If physical training could make you very conscious then all the athletes and bodybuilders would be the most woke people on the planet. Obviously that doesn't work. I'm not saying you can't infuse consciousness into your training routines. But the idea that you will become spiritual through physical training is just a pipe dream. That's not how consciousness works. -
Set a rule that you will not make any important decisions or actions when you are in a depressed or negative state. Major actions need to be taken from a state of positivity and love, not negativity and fear. If you are in deep negativity and fear, train yourself to just sit it out quietly without a lot of action.
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That's just the nature of states of consciousness. A memory of a state of consciousness is not the same as being in that state of consciousness. Heavy metals put you into a different state of consciousness. Heavy metals are like anti-psychedelics that you are tripping on 24/7.
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Life isn't fair. 9/10s have no idea how easy they got things. Be bitter all you want. In the end you will realize your bitterness only hurts you and doesn't get you laid.
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I have tried multiple pairs but none of them work for me. I find it hard to talk with them on.
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No girl wants a socially uncalibrated guy. Don't mistake social calibration with being a conformist sheep. You can be edgy and iconoclastic but still socially calibrated. Most girls are extremely socially calibrated because they are so social by default and it's imperative to their survival.
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Dude, then your problem isn't lack of humor. You don't need to run a comedy routine for a girl for 4 hours to get her to sleep with you. Humor is mostly necessary only in the beginning. Once she is attracted, you then need to shift in to building deep intimacy, connection, and comfort. This is what the majority of your date should be about. You do this not through humor but by sharing stories from your life, your values, your dreams, your passions, and asking about hers. Little humor is necessary here. And then while you're doing that you must also ramp up the physical escalation. Once you're 2hrs+ into a date most of the work should be done via just silence and physical escalation. Your hands should be all over her body by that point, you should be leading her around, kissing her, making out, heavy sexual eye contact, and getting her horny. You don't need to be a dancing monkey. And you don't need a bunch of vapid small talk. Get to the business of turning her body on. You're here to fuck her, not to play talk show host. You need to learn the power of silence and simply eye contact. Talk way slower. It's not gonna be boring if your properly physically escalate and are making her horny.
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It's not outlandish. But you use some interesting tactics to achieve that result. It depends on the guy. Some guys care less. The highest value guys tend to care a lot about looks. Yes, it's brutal. The advice is: settle for less hotter guys. Personality is of course important. It's not either or, it's both. That's what happens when you don't flirt. Flirting exists for good reason. Is he clueless or are you? How would you feel if I asked you to meet up with me but I never flirted with you? You would friendzone me and it would be a very awkward non-date date that would probably lead nowhere. Sounds like this guy is perfect for you, as neither of you got game Let's see how that goes. Should be interesting.
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Humorous, positive, deatched from outcome, confident in himself, assertive but very socially calibrated, non-controlling, self-amusing, not explicitly sexual in a vulgar way. Creepy/scary guys fail on all those points. Humor and playfulness makes her feel at easy. Creepy/scary guys are serious and lack humor. Just being friendly and socially calibrated is huge. Creepy guys lack that calibration. They act like social retards.
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You are treated like you don't exist because you haven't developed game. You are being too meek and so the environment overpowers you. The solution is to develop a more powerful approach. It is not too loud. I've been in some loud ass clubs. The solition there is to use lots of physical openers, physical game, very direct verbals, learn to project your voice more, and very powerful sexual eye contact. The louder it is the more you can caveman it. Literally grab girls by the arm and pull then into you. Some will bust but some will hook hard. Your height is not the problem. You just lack the strong game necessary for loud clubs. I def struggled with loud ass clubs. The way I dealt with it is by forcing myself to approach girls and by making myself just comfortable and relaxed in the club. The club has a way of overpowering you. You have to train yourself to ignore all the noise and distractions. You have to put yourself into a relaxed meditative state and then do lots of direct physical openers. A good way to start is by tapping her on the shoulder, smile, and if she gives you positive eye contact, grab her, pull her into you, and say something direct like, "I love you". Then eye-fuck her. Then plow with some verbals and lots of physical escalation. Then lead her to a quieter area to talk or lead her to dance on the dance floor. Or both. I know plenty of short guys who do great at the loudest clubs, better than me. It's not the height, it's your lack of game. Most of my wings were shorter guys who killed at the clubs. But they had very good game. It helps a lot to get some experienced wings and just watch them approach in such loud clubs. This will prove to you that it can be done.
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You are being way too logical with these girls. You have to stop taking the things they say seriously and just be very playful and emotional and sexual with them. And def stop listening when they tell you they want a nice guy or whatever. It takes a few years and lots of practice to develop a sense of humor. It's worth the effort.
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Obviously it's not malicious or even conscious. The reproductive desires are finely tuned to automatically ensure that you are selecting for the highest quality mates you can get. And the female's reproductive agenda is one which needs the male to stick around. You girls are not playing games consciously, but you're playing huge games unconsciously with all the obstacles you erect for reproduction. You "not feeling it" IS your game! Your emotional system is there to drive your survival, not to make you feel good. It's an endless vicious cycle of survival. Your feelings are definitely power moves. But this system is so deep that you're not even aware you're doing it. It is doing you. The reason guys play games it because girls play games. And the reason girls play games is because guys play games. Every single sexual or romantic feeling you have exists to maximize your survival. Why else would it exist? It's all highly functional despite how it feels. It is so functional that it cannot be entrusted to your conscious mind. Just like the beating of your heart cannot be entrusted to your conscious mind, otherwise you would have killed yourself a long time ago. Attraction is too important to be made conscious to your ego-mind.
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Be careful with generalizations such as "Big Pharma". There are many phrama companies who have their own agendas. Some companies can be quite toxic, greedy, and corrupt -- like Purdue Pharma. But also, these giant companies make hundreds of different products, some of which are amazing, others which are toxic. It rarely even makes sense to say that one company is good or bad. Business and medicine is far too complex for such black and white styles of thinking.
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This is the biggy. I was struggle a lot with mental performance until I did 20+ rounds. And most of it cleared up. The problem with losing mental performance is that it happens so gradually you can't even remember what it was like to be at 100% mental performance years ago. And then when you gain it back, it's hard to remember how awful it felt when you lost it.
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Yup, easily doable. I did it for SIBO and other health issues I've been struggling with. Yes Veggies are usually good for ya. No. Protein and fat contain all the nutrients you need. I do take a bit of supplements but I doubt it's necessary. Research carnivore diet. I don't recommend carnivore diet unless you have some special condition that requires it, like SIBO. Carnivore will shoot your bad cholesterol through the roof. So be careful. I do not consider carnivore diet to be healthy long-term. You should try to eat as many fruits and veggies as you can if your body can tolerate them.
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You have plenty of time to correct your mistakes. But not so much time that you can spare any more of it sitting on the fence. GET TO WORK!
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In general the male attitude towards sex is as follows: have sex first, then decide if she's worth keeping around. Maybe she is, maybe she isn't. Obviously females don't like this attitude, but I'm just sharing how guys think about this stuff. GF-material will be determined by how hot the girl is, the quality of the sex, the personality of the girl, and other indicators of her value. Basically, the higher her overall value the better the chance of being kept around. Honestly, the most important factor for guys is physical appearance. Your overall value is not meaningfully changed by flirting with a guy. As the female, your strategy is to get the guy to invest in you before sex. Because you are concerned he may otherwise just ditch you. I get that. You want him to invest in you before you invest in him. That's your game. Which is why you resist flirting with him. But what I'm saying is, you can flirt with him, and then still play the game of getting him to invest in you. I am not telling you to just spread your legs for him.
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Leo Gura replied to Godishere's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
Allow weeks of time to fully integrate these radical insights. Don't stress over it until you let at least a few weeks pass. You're not just alone, you're Alone because you're so Together. -
Some guys are just insecure fools who don't know how to handle women properly. So what? You are going to let that one insecure fool keep you from ever flirting with another man you like? Don't overlook the fact that it might be YOU who is judging yourself for not being girlfriend material. Most girls have this silly idea in their mind that if they sleep with a guy too soon then he will judge her as not girlfriend material. In reality I've never met a guy who would disqualify you as his girlfriend based on that. Guys love easy sex. You are not going to offend a guy or turn a guy off by being sexual with him. Also, flirting does not mean you have to make it easy. You can flirt, and then still play your screening games. You can still make him work for it if you want to play games. Push/pull, hot/cold builds extreme attraction. If a guy thinks you're not girlfriend material, I can confidently predict it's not because of your flirting. It's other factors.
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You were rejected once. So what? You know how many times I have been rejected? Thousands of times. Welcome to dating. 5 hard rejections is a good night out. If you flirt with a guy and he thinks less of you for it, he's being an idiot and that is not the kind of guy you wanna date. You are trying to manipulate the situation to avoid being rejected. You want all the up-side of announcing your intentions but none of the down-side. Well, that's not possible.
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Then you are blind.