pablo_aka_god

Pablo's Game Journal

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This is my first game journal, I've started gaming 3 years and 9 months ago. have gotten laid 20 times and was in a 9 month serious relationship since then and have approached close to 300 girls mostly at daygame some at nightgame.

Didn't game all weeks but had couple weeks a year where I would focus more on game and then focus on LP for the rest of the year.

I have grown a lot but still struggle a lot to connect with other people, specially women. I'm 28 years old. If I can nail this thing when I reach 30 that would be good. I'm setting this goal.

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3 months ago I met a girl on daygame, we had 2 dates and had sex in the second one. After girl became a little cold on text and was busy to see me again, I went on 2.5 month trip to colombia and meanwhile I would message her about once a month she would take often 24 hrs to reply but I was always able to exchange couple of messages. I came back to Buenos AIres yesterday and was not going to open her because of ego since she didn't show much interest however I decided to put ego aside and message her, I just sent her a short "Hola Angie!". I'm happy I was able to put ego aside. I will post later what happens.

I don't have expectations since I think her behavior already showed she is not interested in me, but I lose nothing with trying again. if she fucked me it means she found me attractive at some point and AFAIK I haven't done anything that stupid to make her lose all attraction

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I'm spending too much time alone and I like it but this doesn't seem good for my game. also I'm masturbating and watching porn every day

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doing the above helps me to focus on my LP but my social life suffers

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Porn is destroying my sexual life, will set a goal to not watch porn for the next week

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I deleted Tinder after 2 weeks with no Luck in Buenos Aires. I read old notes where I wrote several times that Tinder is a waste of time in this city. Good I had the notes!

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Today I did a daygame session, very good. 2 direct openings and 3 more asking casual questions

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Loved av florida in downtown Buenos Aires. on a Friday at 5 pm its full of people. plenty of girls. I felt less anxious that in places with less people. also girls there are working class. which I like more than rich students of other neighborhoods.

 

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Today I did daygame. was raining and went anyways because this is a priority so I must train even when it rains.

I opened 3 girls in total. first one was with a casual question and I liked her so much that I left the interaction pumped. then I did 2 direct openings. the second one was a venezuelan girl of my type we had a 2 min interaction and IG closed.

 

I went to a mall in mi neighborhood(Alto Palermo) which I used to think didn't have girls of my type because girls that go there belong to high income families and I don't connect with those types. however today I found 3 girls that I liked a lot.

I'm working on braking lots of past assumptions that maybe incorrect. While walking I listened to tony robbins audiobook: awaken the Giant within, that really got me in the correct mindset.

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Today I did daygame, did 4 openings: one direct then opened 2 with indirect questions and while going back to the house opened a girl that was walking next to me and looked nice in a direct way.

 

I feel good that I'm finally taking action, I'm rewiring by brain to get pleasure out of taking action, I'm creating a new identity, I'm a social man that talks with girls he likes everywhere he goes.

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Today I did daygame. did 3 indirect openings asking for cafe recommendations and after did 3 direct openings.

most important thing to keep in mind was: why am I doing this? to forge a strong character which I think is the most important thing I need right now to succeed in relationships and in business

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Another daygame session, did 3 openings in total 2 indirect and one direct with a girl I really liked. this interaction went well on my side I vibed at a good level, girl was in a hurry and didn't seem much interested though so I let her go, I don't care attracting a girl that doesn't value such a good openings as I did. I'm a high value man, I go for what I want but if not available then I don't sweat it and move on

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another daygame session, 3.5 openings

 

1 indirect opening asking for a cafe.

2 direct openings one of the girls was short, she stopped and was very receptive, we had a nice talk and IG closed. tried to go to a cafe but she declined and told her we should go later, she was dubious about that but had a comfortable body language I doubt we may end up going on a date but I know she was attracted and I could fuck her.

The other girl didn't seem very interested but was a funny interaction cause I first asked for a cafe and went away and 20 secs later came back to tell her I liked her, her body language didn't show interest so I said bye and she sayed "thank you", I love when Girls than you for opening them even if we don't hook.

Opened the 4th girl and she cut me off, I had low energy and wasn't that interested in the girl so when she cut me My motivation to get to know her evaporated and said "ok", laughed and kept walking

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Another daygame session. met some wings and didn't count all openings but were at least 6. best session so far.

This thing about doing what ever I feel at the moment, ie: being honest, authentic and congruent is amazing. I am very polarizing, I show my intentions in a direct way and even feel very good about it.

I WPP closed a 38 year old MILF that I found beautiful and it was a solid close, she was interested and agreed to go to a cafe another day

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good job!


"A ship is safe in harbor, but that's not what ships are made for"    - John A. Shedd

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yesterday night wen to wine tasting with some friends, I had a good time. took me out of my comfort zone but just a little bit I didn't push it too much out of my comfort and. I love the concept of doing activities where I get to the edge of my comfort zone but don't pass it, so I expand it from the inside rather than from the outside, ie: pushing past the point where I have confidence in my ability to handle the situation and can understand what's happening.

 

this day(Saturday) I did daygame with wings, went to a cafe with my wings and went out at night! it was key to take a nap in the afternoon and devoting only socialization. If I have worked, studied or wanted to do other logical tasks I would not have had the energy to enjoy this day.

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Another DAYGAME session:

3 openings, bare minimum. Not much to highlight. 

I felt awesome at the end. If I keep doing this very same thing for couple weeks will become unstoppable 

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Another daygame session.  after work. first monday after coming back from vacations, I did minimum viable: 3 indirect openings, good thing is that the 3 were with girls I would fuck, 2 were super hot and beautiful. for the second one I asked her where is a cafe and I laughed at the stupidity of my question and didn't take it seriously, had a good time.

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