Bobby's Journal ?

[Bobby_2021]

Not much of a journal guy but I will post any rants, information, thoughts, insights, revelations, wisdom I get from real life in here.?‍?

Kinda weird but let's see how this goes.

Anyone is free to read and post their opinions and advice. 

[Bobby_2021]

23 right now. Going to put the next 7 years into developing my tier 1 values.

No point obsessing over yellow, or even worse, turquoise values at this stage of my life. Going to meet and find more orange/blue/red models and embody all their positive traits.

Will take special care not to go too far towards the excesses, although it's quite tempting. 

Edited June 16, 2022 by Bobby_2021

[Bobby_2021]

This forum is one the best things that internet to come up with.

Wonder how people could use platform to fight with each other like children. Best thing to do is to ignore and to make use of this forum for as long as it lasts.

People should post only if they have something truly to say. This is some place to get value from from everyone who reads this. 

[Bobby_2021]

The way to respond with mean people is to not respond at all.

Respect is absolutely necessary.

Even if you are only a picture on the internet. 

[Bobby_2021]

Seek to develop the area that you are lacking in.

Regardless of your sex/gender identity, if you are highly nice and feminine, develop your masculine side. If you are brutal and masculine develop your feminine side.

That's what's going to grow you the most. 

While I was a highly competitive individual for most of my life I was also highly compassionate and nice. I often don't feel like myself.

Now I am working to unleash my ruthless masculine side and I am loving it. 

[Bobby_2021]

If you are not getting a huge ass BIG BONER looking at your own journal, you are doing it wrong.

[Ulax]

Nice one dude

1 hour ago, Bobby_2021 said:

If you are not getting a huge ass BIG BONER looking at your own journal, you are doing it wrong.

Too right bro lmao

[Bobby_2021]

8 hours ago, Ulax said:

Nice one dude

Too right bro lmao

??????

[Bobby_2021]

10 hours ago, Bobby_2021 said:

Now I am working to unleash my ruthless masculine side and I am loving it. 

The true potential of masculinity undermined to such astonishing levels.

Everyone says they love feminity and being soft and them go watch movies about psychopaths.

They deeply carve a strong masculine model. Someone whom you can Trust and forget about everything else. Something that makes you feel like a kid again.

Can you find such a person for you? 

[Michael Jackson]

14 hours ago, Bobby_2021 said:

If you are not getting a huge ass BIG BONER looking at your own journal, you are doing it wrong.

LOL

[Bobby_2021]

Some of my comments I made seema to have been corrupted and deleted. Probably due to the server outage a few days ago.

 

Just listened to JBP.

1) Be the most useful person in times of trouble.

2) Respond with positivity when someone shares a good news with you.

Else people will stop sharing their wins with you. People need so little in support. And they are scared if they will ge them.

Peterson is unnecessarily scapegoated by the lefties. 

I don't really know how exactly to respond when people share their wins or any good news with me.

I like to hear that they are expecting a baby. Or some big life event like that. 

To be really honest I don't really care. Because I myself have huge standards for what I consider to be a win. 

 

Any thoughts anyone? 

[Bobby_2021]

I think we are having a wonderful time compared to most of human history.

But with all these opportunities, my only fear is if I fall short of utilising my full potential. 

[Bobby_2021]

I am too young to be giving advices to people and I am doing it too much on this forum.

Being wrong is a great fear of mine. Almost an insecurity. I want to be precise and correct all the time. 

So I am going to read and listen more while saying less. This means I have less room to be wrong. 

I will start giving my opinions once I reach my 30s. I have too few experiences right now. 

[Bobby_2021]

Things I have to stop doing to conserve my energy:

1) Stop giving advices to people.

2) Stop updating myself with what is happening with everyone else's life. 

Things I must start doing

1) Consume high quality information and process it well. 

Producing and consuming information cannot go hand in hand. 

[Bobby_2021]

Leo's latest video on socialisation was absolutely spot on.

It's incredible how Leo manage to speak exactly on point clearly in every single video. This should be the point of life.

I don't socialise. I only listen to extremely smart people. But the problem is that I get dependent on those few intelligent people. They can get me through most of the situations.

 

But ultimately life is meant to be fought and lived alone.

I have accidentally allowed the frame of someone else to reside in my mind.

I cannot have him near me to make every one of my decisions.

I have to make my decisions alone.

I am off to deconstructing the residue frame in me by some people. 

[Bobby_2021]

Even if you don't socialise, the time you listen to someone is enough for you to unconsciously adopt their frames.

I despise people who merely parrot what they hear on the internet. They are unbearable.

So when I do it, it's incredibly cringey and stupid. I know I am not that kind of person. 

I have never been. You are more vulnerable to adoption other people's frames when you are more desperate.

If you are on high alert, then there is no way you would adopt their worldviews. 

It's clear how Andrew Tate is focusing him frame on young impressionable minds. But everyone else is also doing the exact same thing. Trying to infect your minds with stupid frames and ideologies of thinking. 

[Bobby_2021]

Life is cycle of struggle to balancing yourself and your environment and short periods of appreciating the balance around you.

Exquisite.