Question for Leo about love

[unborn_chicken]

Leo, what is the difference for you between simply liking a girl (thinking she's hot or liking her personality) and loving her?

Or in other words, how does the concept of 'love' apply to romantic relationships for you?

[Leo Gura]

Attraction happens in seconds, but you'd have to get to know her quite deeply to fall in love with her. That usually takes months of deep intimacy.

[unborn_chicken]

13 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

Attraction happens in seconds, but you'd have to get to know her quite deeply to fall in love with her. That usually takes months of deep intimacy.

@Leo Gura Hey Leo, sorry another question 

How would you know if you're capable of feeling love towards another person vs not? How could you tell the difference?

I'm just trying to tell the difference between liking, affection and love. Or maybe is not worth it getting too specific about it?

[gettoefl]

10 minutes ago, Tangerinedream said:

When you genuinely care about her and want to be together and not just to get sex or use her. When the relationship is non-transactional and you aren’t judging whether she’s good enough or looking around for someone better.  Being together feels like home. You see her and she sees you.. you don’t have anxiety about the relationship and trust eachother. 

this

and you want for her you don't want from her