Questions to ask a date to figure out their value system?

[Terell Kirby]

Here are some for me:

1. Did you vote for Trump? (Lol...I'm bias)
2. Thoughts on God?
3. What's in your future?
4. Do you like kids?
5. What's the last book you read?
6. Thoughts on infidelity?
7. What are your parents like?
8. What does a good day look like for you?

 

Edited August 31, 2021 by Terell Kirby

[Jacob Morres]

Nice post i've also been contemplating this a bit recently:

What do you want, expect, don't like, and are looking for in a relationship and a man? (to figure out what she wants and if I can give that to her and also to see alignment) 

What is a happy/meaningful/worthwhile relationship for you? 

 

Also maybe test how she handles relationship conflict. Like how mature are her responses during conflicts. Like is she taking ownership of her own wrongdoings, is she empathetic, self-reflective, self-aware and is also able to hold conscious boundaries 

 

I think it's also important to take account of your needs (and desires) and to see if your partner is happy to fulfill them

What are your goals? What is life about for you? I think this one is critical because it tells you if you are alignment about the core part of life. 

I also think not everything happens at the mind. Your intuition and heart also play a role in making decisions . 

Edited August 31, 2021 by Jacob Morres