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@Preety_India I've my own ways of saying Fuck You. 

To all those who give me nothing but pain, I say go away your way and don't look back. No need to nitpick at me. I'm good as I am. My heart that I wear on my sleeve is with me. 

I don't need your fruitless directions. That lead me nowhere. I am not asking for attention so please give your attention to someone else who is begging for it, not me. 

I can be terse sometimes. It comes with the territory of always being nice. A bit too nice. 

 

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@Preety_India if I ever have kids in the future, nobody fucking nobody or anything will ever come between me and them. That's a promise. I can be fierce like a hurricane when I need to be. They will never suffer, they will never have to, because I will be their mother. I won't let even a fly touch them. Never will they be raised the way i was raised by my mother, that's a guarantee. 

I can be snappy sometimes. Just the inner rage about my shitty upbringing. 

 

 


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Now there are two ways in which I communicate with myself in this journal. 

One is where I'm directly talking to myself referring to myself by my name. 

 for example 

@Preety_India  why don't you just stop doing it already? 

And the other is where I refer to my name but speak as though I'm the listener and my alter ego is speaking through me 

For example

@Preety_India  I should have never been there in the first place. 

Both ways are effective in Self communication. 

 


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@Preety_India  let people come to you rather than you approaching them. Aka sp. 

You don't approach them to constantly be put down or let down. 

Don't be too eager with those who approach you either. Both ways you aren't giving room for solid reciprocation. 

It's completely fine if someone is not interested in you at all. 

Wait for the right ones even if that means you have to wait for over a year and get past 100s to get that person who is uniquely loyal and affectionate to you. 

Those who care about you won't disagree too much, won't rile you up or play mind games. They will have something to offer  

They will be wholesome and have wholesome conversations with you. You won't feel snubbed. 

They would try to understand you, not offend you, care to not offend you and won't get nitpicky with you since they will value you more. 

You won't feel uncomfortable or trapped or rejected

 

 


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@Preety_India by maintaining stricter boundaries you only allow those people into your inner space who truly show interest in being with you. 

Not someone who is randomly commenting. And then upsetting you 

 

 

 


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@Preety_India I have this exact thought sometimes. I often watch Leo's videos when I am down, they are the best antidepressants :D


Sometimes the only thing you have to doubt is your own common sense

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