Exploring my sexual side

[Preety_India]

I also love role playing. 

But I'm quite discreet about it. It's kinda not too much. Just a slight hint.

I don't want it too elaborate. Ruins the fun. 

 

 

 

[Preety_India]

My erogenous zones 

I'd like him holding my butt. 

Like this 

 

My butt of course, the first one needs the caressing. 

Omg yess. On my thighs next. 

For Joseph, it was his favorite. 

I love neck bites. 

 

 

Kiss, touch, hug and fuck..... Mhmm

The real magic of his touch is when he softly kisses my neck. Wow wow wow.. 

 

I just love this kind of sensual sex. 

 

 

Edited March 30, 2021 by Preety_India

[Preety_India]

I love bondage sex and spanking a lot. 

 

Yessss. 

 

 

I love hair pulling, yanking, a bit of aggression, kicking me forward and then proceeding it with some rough sex. Thrusting himself forcefully into me.... And then turning me over. 

 

 

Yess. That's how I like it. 

Just pure raw sex and his pure affection. Pure seduction and dominance. 

And I love to be his sweet sub spread out for him to fuck.. 

 

 

[Preety_India]

When he is spanking me, I want this music to play. 

 

 

[Preety_India]

This is everything 

 

 

 

[Preety_India]

I just want it down and dirty. 

 

 

 

[Preety_India]

Nice song for a summer romance. 

 

[Preety_India]

Sometimes I find N Sync and Backstreet boys songs kinda weirdly romantic 

Even Five. 

Nice boy bands. 

They are all kinda sexual. 

Kinda passionate. 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

[Preety_India]

 

Masculinity in a sexual sense is not dependent on how nice or not nice you are. In sexual sense, masculinity is about raw power, the ability to be sexually appealing, without being forceful (because that's criminal ),  to be able to exude a raw sexiness through domination, the man who seems like he can take charge of literally anything like a king is very attractive to the feminine, this doesn't mean that the man has to be a bad guy, he doesn't, he can be a good guy, yet be very daring and assertive, his fearlessness, his lioness-ess is very attractive, his ability plays a main role here, character takes back seat, obviously if he acts like an asshole the relationship will eventually end, however attraction is a brain thing, it's not decided by the heart  so character will only be a factor in the long term, but at first sight or at least sexually, a man who has this raw power, the ability to totally control her desires, the ability to get her without consent, without actually violating her consent, that is without using physical force, yet being able to assert such power as though he owns her through intense eye contact (eye contact being an important part of this game ),  fulminating her whole place with his masculinity, almost leaving his scent everywhere having that attitude "I'll have you no matter what, " without actually using force, but by using seductive mental tricks, inserting himself in her mind all the time, almost invading her mind space, making her feel fragile and helpless (a state he would even replicate in bed by intensely owning her femininity and forcing himself through her body, obviously after consent, and showing his full power in owning her sexually ) and making her feel wanted at the same time by showing constant interest in wanting her, pursuing her intensely and making her beg for his domination and making her feel special and owned without hurting her or abusing, but by showing how much he wants is very appealing to a woman.  

However nice guys don't do this. They are nice but they lack sexual charisma and relationship is not just value matching Act but also highly sexual and so sexual chemistry is going to be a huge factor in determining everything, the nice guy might be fitting for a woman who comes with a laundry list, but not for a woman seeking natural attraction minus laundry list. She is going to be attracted only to the highly masculine male, this is not her fault, just like it's not a man's fault if he is attracted to a round ass.  

Being nice doesn't give you brownie points in the sexual department. For example when I recently had a conversation with a guy, we had a long non sexual conversation followed by him saying that he first checks if the girl will smile and the next thing he will check is her ass and he said it in such a manner, that I instantly felt attraction, I had to hold myself back because I didn't want him sexually, plus I didn't want to lose the friendship or make it awkward so I kept silent, however that comment he made was a very leading on, like a turn on, men who don't do that get friend zoned, so it's a beautiful dance of sexual chemistry but to perform this dance you need to have the right "sexual emotions" or the right sexual framework because if her body is not feeling charged by whatever you're saying to her then she is not going to feel sexual and your chances are over, it's a matter of learning this dance, creating this intense sexual chemistry where you don't have to force but create such tension in her body that she is unable to resist even if her mind says no, her body says yes, make her cut through her bullshit resistance, this intense conflict that she cannot handle between her head and the body and she gives in to this submission to your incessant pressure on her sexuality, you don't assault her physically (physical is crime ) but you assault her mentally, gaining full reign of her senses like a magician and she is left with no refuge but to simply let her body be taken by you by giving into your advances and letting you lead on, she will give signs (not online, online it's difficult to read signs but in reality where she would feel vulnerable and would not resist your presence and your touch, this can be tested with a kiss, slightly touching her face to see if she resists, if she doesn't than she is more than willing for you and lead her to the ultimate conquer -sex.) she will give signs, lots of them, she won't move away when you're near, she will respond to the eye contact by wanting it more, she will not show aggression but obedience, she will try to get your attention by being around you,  a potent sign that the game is working.. 

To be able to create such intense tension, you have to be very  connected with your natural masculinity. Nice guys are passive and generally lack such overt masculinity.  

This is not to say that masculine are not nice or don't possess virtues, they may or may not, its just that  they are gifted in this sexual department where they are able to exude raw sexual appeal and prowess. This sexual power does not stop only to attracting and creating chemistry. That is only the starting point. The next point is sex.  He has to be good at sex, amazing lover in bed, where he can make her moan a lot, make her want more, make her beg, because he is able to smoothly control her sexuality there. In the bedroom he can't afford to be passive at all. He will need to show intense interest in pleasuring her, not in a servant kind of way, but in an owner master kind of way, where he totally dominates her desire, makes her feel sexual play by play, move by move, by giving her intense sexual affection and winning her body, her sexual brain, feeling her body with oxytocin for him. 

 

All of this is brain related. These hyper sexual masculine men in tune with their natural sexual power are not necessarily assholes or bad men, they are just more viable in the sexual romance department. 

Love is a matter of both brain and the heart. He can win her emotionally but that would later in the relationship that's where his nice guy behavior can be useful. 

Unfortunately attraction is designed in such a way that sex comes first, heart comes later, this is natural sexuality, rule of law, this cannot be erased, attraction cannot be denied or destroyed, just like you can't say no to yummy food, you can't have much of a sense of self control with such matters. Both women and men who want passion need to be sexually attractive in their own ways and often in most sexual styles, the man has to lead first and the female submits to his leading. Without sexual passion there is little interest. 

Being a nice guy might work long term in relationships but not with attraction. The nice guy should not stop being nice. But he can be more in touch with his inner masculine sexuality and develop it more so he feels naturally sexual and learns some romantic tricks to get her sexual attention  

The only rule is this. If you get her sexual attention, you get a chance for sex as well as relationship. If you can't get her sexual attention, then you get friendzoned. Very simple. You make the move. 

If you have taken her sexual interest or attention then you have marched ahead of all the friend zone material guys to the top of the list and secured your position sexually in her mind, now she can't forget you.

If she is not deeply sexually attracted to you, that is you did not exhibit your masculinity perfectly or did not own her, and she is still in a relationship with you, this relationship then lacks magnetism and is very dry, if she finds a more domineering male with sexual passion, she will easily get attracted to him and cheat on you. So sexual attraction is a very important part, not the most pleasant part, but an important part in securing and maintaining relationships.