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h inandout

Sensate focus

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I swear to god I have had intense orgasms with a guy touching every part of my skin that was not erogenous, even refusing to go too fast.  I call it a respect-gasm.  So much safety and trust!  So much build up.

Girls, have you ever experienced this or wish to?

Guys, would you ever try this?

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He cooked me diner and started a puzzle with me beforehand, which I'm sure helped.  

Who says respect isn't sexy? 

I want to heal my CPTSD, and it scares me that men unconsciously believe that lying and cheating and hurting actually work.  So I am coming out.  No more shadow.  No more self esteem stuff around sexuality.  I know what I like, and really what I like is respect and slowness.

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Hoping someone somewhere will benefit from learning "cooler" forms of sexual expression like sensate focus or tantric meditation.

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On 6/9/2020 at 3:21 AM, h inandout said:

I swear to god I have had intense orgasms with a guy touching every part of my skin that was not erogenous, even refusing to go too fast.  I call it a respect-gasm.  So much safety and trust!  So much build up.

Girls, have you ever experienced this or wish to?

Guys, would you ever try this?

Not experienced this but I'd really love to!

I LOVEEEE him touching my earlobes but only just looked it up and didn't realize there were so many other regions haha

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@Moon Cute! So true too, my ears are super sensitive 

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