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Stage blue question

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When someone successful (meaning that they can materially provide everything  for their potential-future-kids) doesn't want a family ( no marriage, no kids). Does that mean that this person has not fully integrated stage blue? Because stage blue is all about family right?

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Seems to me more like Orange decision. Blue will not wait to be fully materially secured before having a kid as long as there is sufficient familial /cultural pressure the baby will happen sooner than later. 


“If you find yourself acting to impress others, or avoiding action out of fear of what they might think, you have left the path.” ― Epictetus

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@Arcangelo It’s not so much the outer expression, it’s more about the underlying motivation. Blue traits include rules/order, discipline and appeal to an aithority. A family is an appealing environment to express these traits. The father can express his authoritarian values and enforce rules/order for the family to follow. Just dating someone with no kids, wouldn’t offer the same opportunity. It still could be expressed through other avenues such as politics or law. Yet, I think someone blue centered would generally be oriented toward creating and maintaining a particular family structure.

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