Masturbation And Female Presence

[Marinus]

As a guy I masturbate. I did a no-fap 90 day challenge with success.  When I did this challenge I worked with a female colleague and we had good chemistry. Since 3 weeks I met a girl in college and spend my time there with her. I noticed that my desire of masturbation disappeared and I only did it once a week, because I don't want to wet my bed. I don't feel the need to do it and I think it has something to do with the fact that I'm in the presence of a female which I feel comfortable with.  I wonder if other males have this same experience or thoughts about this, so leave your comments below! 

[Jhonny]

Yes. I have experienced that too. Now this is my view anyone can disagree. I think we men have two desires with opposite gender one is sexual and one is emotional connection and intimacy. But where we go wrong is that we think if i am horny i must be sexually horny which is simply not the case many times. This pattern has reinforced because of digital stimulation( porn, Sex scenes). They surely cover sexual aspect of your desire but not the emotional.