Weak Boundaries And Abuse

[spicy_pickles]

Thank you for making me realize this @Leo Gura 

It is true and has always been true. My boundaries are weak, I have always had a problem sticking to my guns so to speak. I would avoid conflict that resulted in me being true to myself and doing what I wanted to do. This goes for relationships, friendships, etc. 

I guess I’m a people pleaser in a sense. Need to be included, need to have people like me. Apologize profusely if I make a mistake and try and make it better (even if it’s fine). 

Enough is enough. It’s time to change this dynamic. It’s time to nut up and be a more confident and stronger individual with defined boundaries. It’s time to stop worrying about what others think. It’s time to stop solving everyone else’s problems. It’s time to stop letting them guilt me. 

 

[Leo Gura]

@spicy_pickles Good

But they don't guilt you. You guilt you.

[spicy_pickles]

Very, very true.