Relationship Green flags 🌱🏁

[Olaf]

45 minutes ago, Natasha Tori Maru said:

Lets not do this judging thing. Heaven help me, I tried to make a positive themed thread. Flush it down, right?

Calling on the lord won't help you in this forum, I already tried 

[Joshe]

1 hour ago, Natasha Tori Maru said:

Please.

Do not turn this thread into judging each others standards, proxies and what we all look for! I think contrasting and comparing is great. Discernment.

Lets not do this judging thing. Heaven help me, I tried to make a positive themed thread. Flush it down, right?

I'm a simple man and will deal with whatever reality throws at me. As if I had any other choice. lol 

- likes me 
- likes to have sex 
- doesn't demand too much of my time
- more cheerful than not

"Oh no, you woman, you are not X, Y, or Z enough for me. I've defined my standards and you don't meet them." 

Just not how it works IME, or at least, that's not how I want to be. The heart gravitates to what it gravitates to. Circumstances and fleeting emotions dictate more than our standards ever will.

One could just go with the flow of life and if you suffer from ill-defined standards, that's just life. If I could have any girl on the planet, I would not hold any high standards. I would just see who I gravitate to. Dreaming about the perfect partner just rubs me the wrong way, for some reason. 

Sorry if this seems negative. 

[Natasha Tori Maru]

@Joshe This isn't the place for judging others.

[Joshe]

8 minutes ago, Natasha Tori Maru said:

@Joshe This isn't the place for judging others.

Yes ma'am