whatever you chase will run

[Olaf]

law of attraction is bullshit, I get that. BUT there is something important about it. Because if you take no action, nothing happens. Of course. Like no fucking way, nothing happens when I take no action?? Yes. Finally. You get it. BUT does that now mean you chase? See there are two different things we switch between doing. We either do nothing at all OR we do everything and chase. Rarely are we in this magical in between zone. Where we are taking action, but we are in an attractive state, we don't chase, we attract, we still take action, but we don't try to get to an end destination.

Aslong as you have a goal for a certain outcome, you won't reach it as you put it on a pedestal. Doesn't mean you shouldn't have goals, sure, but the goal is more like, okay how much action do I need to take to achieve this goal, instead of obssesively trying to reach it. If my goal is to find a girlfriend and everytime there is a girl that I could see as my girlfriend I would pedestalise her, like I finally found the gold. What happens? She runs away, so you can never get what you put on a pedestal, same with money. So this is where law of attraction is real, you attract and can only get what you want by attraction, not by chasing it.

That is why you call an attractive person attractive and not chaseactive  So screw law of attraction, screw taking no action, screw all of that, yet, don't go out there and chasing and investing in things and putting things on a pedestal, because only when it feels normal, can you get it. Aslong as that 10 is not normal to you and you put her on a pedestal, you can't get her, no matter how competent you are, because you can simply not recieve what you put above yourself, so put yourself above everything, above money, above relationships, work on you and then things get attracted to you. And by working on yourself I don't mean so much the superficial stuff like looks/money etc.

But more the deeper stuff, inner work, inner mindset. Can you see a life where it is actually more normal then not to have these things in your life or are you gonna be putting them as a goal somewhere far into the distance that you have to work up for and have to grind to recieve. "Action yes, attraction yes, chasing no." That is how I would describe it in baby language. It is normal to succeed, but if you make it such a big deal, it won't be normal and it won't come into your life. Everything that seems like a dream, will stay a dream, because you put it on a pedestal. 

[Ramanujan]

bob proctor has an amazing explanation of law of attraction. its scientific. i heard that esther and jerry hicks have the cutting edge information on law of attraction. i like bob proctor's version of law of attraction. 

bob proctor is a fucking legend

 

law of attraction is not the right tool for pick up. LOA sucks when it comes to picking up woman.. 

Edited 5 hours ago by Ramanujan

[enchanted]

@Olafgreat posts lately!

[Salvijus]

The Law is simple: if your fragrance, your quality is that of a honey or a flower, you'll attract bees. If your smell is that of a dump, you'll attract flies. 

Edited 2 hours ago by Salvijus

[Olaf]

@enchanted thank you, appreciate it

@Ramanujan especially pick up is about attraction, the problem is that we only see looks and money as the way to attract rather then energy/frame/social skills etc. try chasing a woman and see how fast she runs from you, even the energy of chasing will make her run for the hills.

@Salvijus good quote, from now of on I will always put on honey parfume 

Edited 2 hours ago by Olaf