being invited to clubs

[Olaf]

I have had many times with my wingmen that we got invited to go to clubs by girls that we approached. I wonder if this is a good thing or not, one time they wanted to kidnap my wingmen into the club hahaha. But I see this many times even in a few seconds. But then I wonder, is that because they want free drinks or truely attracted? 

Edited 3 hours ago by Olaf

[Valach]

Just go there if you want to go there. Stop strategizing so much.

[LordFall]

I would recommend trying it a few times but more than likely you'll realize it's a bad idea. Better to invite women to your events than to come out to the club with them. It will leave you in a reactive frame where also she'll probably subconsciously or intentionally put you against other guys she knows or random dudes that come up to hit on her. If you've been gaming a lot then you might be able to meet other women there and merge sets and use the opposite effect on her but either way you start off at a disadvantage.

It's not a bad thing to experiments with environments that don't favor you but in general you obviously should build a social life that works for your goals and not against them.