my wingmen went crazy today

[Olaf]

So I want to make this post, because I want to share how proud I am of my wingmen. He started literally 1.5 months ago and we have been going on a journey together. I remember coaching him the first day, keep in mind this guy is a virgin, 26 years old, lives in a little village and had 0 social experience. He was full of approach anxiety the first day and I pushed him HARD, as if my life depended on it. Now 1.5 months later he took on the challenge of the 100 approaches, because he had seen me doing it. 100 approaches is allot and it is really hard and for that I am proud of him for doing that, but not only that, he closed 18 girls, 2 dates, and kissed for the first time in his LIFE!! He literally closed a 10 and multiple 9s. This was such a magical day. I am so happy to see everyone around me grow. I coached him literally for 10 hours long I am exhausted as I am writing this, I was just there for him, and approached only like 6, because I didn't had time, I was constantly looking for girls he could approach aswell as telling him in sign language which girl he could close or which girl he could escalate with as when I did 100 I only 1 time tried to close as I completly forgot, I didn't want him to make the same mistake. What I learned was a few things, one dropping the mask, normally he is very funny and making jokes, but today he stayed congruent (got to give zenterus credit for teaching me congruence) and he was not performing anymore, he dropped the mask so to say. Staying close to himself, his energy went from validation seeking to being grounded, in the past he used to get reactive over a rejection and now it is just "yeah" it doesn't touch him anymore. What was amazing to see was the energy of the day as I recognised exactly what happend also with me when I did 100, it first started of with huge anxiety (because of the pressure of the big goal) then it went into go getter energy "lets go, lets roll" to later on open and chill, the fear had officially left. And it was beautiful, because I could tune into the energy (as I can read energy very very well, even from girls that walk by) and started to make those changes in myself. I realised how it is about staying close to yourself, not trying to give to get (validation seeking) or trying to give too much (bad energy management leading to burn out and low value behavior) to more grounded, stable, being present and that being its value on its own. Not the joke that you say, but you, you are the value when you drop the mask, when you drop the performing mask of the ego that is looking for validation. This is also what frame is, frame is that you are close to yourself and not change for someone else (someone talks fast you start talking fast etc. instead keep your own pace, your own rythm, your own vibe, don't change so that they might like you or don't change as a way to qualify yourself, remain true to you, steady, grounded, not giving or taking, just being there for her. And what was beautiful that I talked at the end to a girl and we both stood there and she started to give me compliments, she started to giggle and feel nervous around us, saying how we are so cool and she started to open up, talking about how she feels in her heart that she needed this, that it is healing in her. I felt like a celebrity, with a girl that is laughing like a fan. I felt like we were there for her, we didn't wanted to take, we were like her therapist, just being there and it was beautiful, because even tho my wingmen closed her, I didn't feel like I would have wanted to misuse my power on her, she just was really deep into our frame. I think that is ultimately what it is, being there for her, not trying to take from her, even getting a number is just to connect logistically, not like YES I GOT A NUMBER, but like lets connect, I think in a world where everyone is taking, everyone has a mask on, everyone is validation seeking, being there, for real, grounded, present with her, that is what is attractive and literally healing her. I have never seen so many girls laugh, smile from ear to ear, look in my wingmens eyes full of love. Not to forget that last week he couldn't close a single girl and got endlessly rejected. He worked hard on this and worked hard on healing things inside aswell as on the outside, we both have been on this journey and now I became a student, the teacher has become the student. Most sets were like 5 to 15 mins and it was both quality and quantity. Anyways I really want to sleep now. I am so excited where this is all leading to, I can feel we are on a magical journey and for me this is not only pick up, it is really about becoming a different version of yourself. As what we talked about today, dropping the mask, the fear, being open and grounded, close to yourself and not trying to take by validation seeking or "fake giving" which is giving to get. Just you are enough as you are and that is what being high value means, not performing, not putting her on a pedestal, just know your worth, you are a grounded men, chill, open and go through the fear so you realise what is beyond it, a whole new world, abundance baby. Goodnight champs.

Edited 10 hours ago by Olaf

[Inliytened1]

Sounds like you are teaching him a bit too well! Don't let him steal all the girls haha. But that's awesome. 

Edited 8 hours ago by Inliytened1

[Ulax]

I remember RSD Madison saying the following after he got good at game. My life is like going around painting rainbows with people

[Olaf]

UPDATE: He is no longer a virgin, he did it guys, I am healing the world!

[Olaf]

This only reinforcing my God complex hahahah I AM A FUCKING GOD SHIIITTTT

[Ulax]

3 minutes ago, Olaf said:

This only reinforcing my God complex hahahah I AM A FUCKING GOD SHIIITTTT

Bro got god-realization doing pickup

[Ulax]

YOU ARE A FUCKING GOD OLAF

[Olaf]

@Ulax I just helped someone lose their virginity OF COURSE I AM A GOD!