Black Sheep Mindset

[CARDOZZO]

If you are on a journey to become original, this is your way to go - black sheep mindset.

He is making a point about daygame but you could use the same strategy for life in general.

Accept that you have your own path, original choices, tastes, ideas, desires.

 

[something_else]

This is great advice if you’re already vaguely put together. If your life is a mess it’s better to learn to fit in to society first before you try to break out.

The ideal is to be just familiar enough to new people that they feel comfortable but just unique enough that you’re interesting.

A lot of people try to go straight for unique and interesting without learning to calibrate first I.e. fit in, and that’s usually a mistake.

[CARDOZZO]

6 hours ago, something_else said:

This is great advice if you’re already vaguely put together. If your life is a mess it’s better to learn to fit in to society first before you try to break out.

The ideal is to be just familiar enough to new people that they feel comfortable but just unique enough that you’re interesting.

A lot of people try to go straight for unique and interesting without learning to calibrate first I.e. fit in, and that’s usually a mistake.

Sure, first things first