talking fast and dopamine

[Olaf]

I was talking with a wingmen I didn't went out with in a while, he has been doing much better lately getting 5 numbers a day or so. We did a set together and I was genuinely not interested in both girls so I kinda went silent and sometimes said something that atleast amused myself, they were from Serbia so a bit shy or something, not my type. And when I don't have a click with a girl I find it hard to hold an interesting conversation.

Anyways after that he told me a good way to talk with woman in general even girls that you don't like too much. And it was about stacking, I already know this, but not in the way he does it. Basically just saying many things that are self amusing and mainly about the girl in a fast speaking way. So you speak fast just like how a granny talks, like girls even with eachother talk very fast, I am more the person to be silent, take my time. But that is too little dopamine for someone you just meet in the world, so what I started practicing with him was just talking faster and being in a fun state and then I tried it with a girl, I wasn't interested in the girl that much, but I could still hold a conversation very well and she was hooked very quickly asking me questions and being compliant, I genuinely wasn't interested in her but she had like an attitude of like "are we gonna do something together" so that is good, she was down to do something for sure.

So I will experiment more with this, but I can already see this being an important sticking point, because it is not so much about deep flow state (doing many approaches and feeling like super men) as this is about a talking fast state, which is different. Then I looked at videos from Owen Cook and I realised how fast he talks in his youtube/instagram. It is kind of like free associating, because you talk so fast without breaks that you kinda flop out some funny shit, you will just come up with funny shit. And because you talk so fast, one thing in 60 seconds will hit that she likes.

I think this will even help in growing on social media, especially tiktok and instagram where people have low attention span and looking for dopamine, I think the best example of what I am describing here is a female social media influencers, look at a female social media influencer that talks fast, then you get the point that I am trying to make. Of course charisma is important, but I feel I am already quite charismatic and only getting more charismatic, I am fucking hilarious. So maybe I got that advantage here, also my vocal projection is getting much better, so it are many different things of course, this is not the holy grail, but I can see how this will improve my game allot. 

[Inliytened1]

10 minutes ago, Olaf said:

I was talking with a wingmen I didn't went out with in a while, he has been doing much better lately getting 5 numbers a day or so. We did a set together and I was genuinely not interested in both girls so I kinda went silent and sometimes said something that atleast amused myself, they were from Serbia so a bit shy or something, not my type. And when I don't have a click with a girl I find it hard to hold an interesting conversation.

Anyways after that he told me a good way to talk with woman in general even girls that you don't like too much. And it was about stacking, I already know this, but not in the way he does it. Basically just saying many things that are self amusing and mainly about the girl in a fast speaking way. So you speak fast just like how a granny talks, like girls even with eachother talk very fast, I am more the person to be silent, take my time. But that is too little dopamine for someone you just meet in the world, so what I started practicing with him was just talking faster and being in a fun state and then I tried it with a girl, I wasn't interested in the girl that much, but I could still hold a conversation very well and she was hooked very quickly asking me questions and being compliant, I genuinely wasn't interested in her but she had like an attitude of like "are we gonna do something together" so that is good, she was down to do something for sure.

So I will experiment more with this, but I can already see this being an important sticking point, because it is not so much about deep flow state (doing many approaches and feeling like super men) as this is about a talking fast state, which is different. Then I looked at videos from Owen Cook and I realised how fast he talks in his youtube/instagram. It is kind of like free associating, because you talk so fast without breaks that you kinda flop out some funny shit, you will just come up with funny shit. And because you talk so fast, one thing in 60 seconds will hit that she likes.

I think this will even help in growing on social media, especially tiktok and instagram where people have low attention span and looking for dopamine, I think the best example of what I am describing here is a female social media influencers, look at a female social media influencer that talks fast, then you get the point that I am trying to make. Of course charisma is important, but I feel I am already quite charismatic and only getting more charismatic, I am fucking hilarious. So maybe I got that advantage here, also my vocal projection is getting much better, so it are many different things of course, this is not the holy grail, but I can see how this will improve my game allot. 

I mean at the end of the day it's really all about communication.   So it's not so much about the talking fast. It's getting through to her. Directly to her. So then when you lay the pipe it is sealed.  

Edited 4 hours ago by Inliytened1

[Olaf]

@Inliytened1 what do you mean exactly?