abundance around money

[Olaf]

I am starting to understand abundance and abundance mindset more and more around dating and relationships. I can much more clearly be aware where I am in scarcity or abundance with girls, but with money it is harder to recognise for me. As money is much more fundamental then relationships to me, it is my survival. So probably I am in a scarcity mindset somewhere around money. But I don't have a clear distinction what my abundant and scarcity is around money so anyone who is clear on this, let me know, feel free to give your point of view. 

[Lyubov]

It's hard to know what to share with you what I know since your post is really broad and somewhat vague.

The thing about money is that one size fits all information isn't something that works. Everyone has their own unique situation, strengths, weaknesses, etc. Getting ideas here can help with insights and what you can work on.

What is your current skillset? Earning money is very much about having valuable skills and assets which help other people meet their needs. What do you do for a living? 

[Olaf]

@Lyubov I am a magician, but I have taken a break from that and now figuring out if it still alligns with me. I would say that for me it is hard to see what is abundance around money sometimes, do I spend? Do I safe? Do I invest? It is like, abundance can feel quite vague when it comes around money for me, because even if I give, is that abundance? I don't know, because I give, maybe feel good for a day and thats it. I buy and feel good for a day and that is it, I invest and I feel nothing about it, it doesn't really make me feel abundant around money whatever I do and in a way I don't feel it is about how much money you have, but what you do with it that will make you feel abundant or not. 

[Lyubov]

3 hours ago, Olaf said:

@Lyubov I am a magician, but I have taken a break from that and now figuring out if it still alligns with me. I would say that for me it is hard to see what is abundance around money sometimes, do I spend? Do I safe? Do I invest? It is like, abundance can feel quite vague when it comes around money for me, because even if I give, is that abundance? I don't know, because I give, maybe feel good for a day and thats it. I buy and feel good for a day and that is it, I invest and I feel nothing about it, it doesn't really make me feel abundant around money whatever I do and in a way I don't feel it is about how much money you have, but what you do with it that will make you feel abundant or not. 

Are you wanting to earn more money? If yes, why are you wanting to earn more money? 

[Olaf]

@Lyubov I think it is not about earning more as much as it is about my patterns around money, like I probably have many scarcity patterns around money that I am not aware of. If I REALLY wanted to make more money I would work more, but I don't feel that is so much the thing for me, it is more about becoming aware if I am coming from abundance or not. Atleast that is what I am trying to figure out in this topic.