Conscious dating

[LordFall]

10 minutes ago, Joseph Maynor said:

Actually no.  You must be dealing with so much drama lol.  

Not at all.  Fucking a bunch of women is very low drama, you have sex and cuddle and they go home or spend the night and they go home in the morning.

Friends with benefits is specifically a low drama arrangement since it's not as emotionally involved as a full on relationship. They came over to my place, I fucked them then we went out for food or went to chill with my friends at festivals in the summer then we went back to my placed again, fucked some more, watched movies/tv shows and cuddled then slept. Then we went our separate ways when things fizzled out or one of my FWBs got a boyfriend while we were seeing eachother. 

Another one was actually too boring and we just chilled, fucked and played video games together which would've been my dream relationship at 15 but I got bored of it real fast. That's why I like more influencer type women, artistic women or corporate women now, I'm trying to conquer the world with my women not play call of duty mobile. 

My personality type is grounded and intellectual so if one of them raised an issue I don't usually get triggered my default response is like "Huh, tell me more about this" so I tend to be pretty good at interpersonal conflict resolution. 

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[Joseph Maynor]

54 minutes ago, LordFall said:

Not at all.  Fucking a bunch of women is very low drama, you have sex and cuddle and they go home or spend the night and they go home in the morning.

Friends with benefits is specifically a low drama arrangement since it's not as emotionally involved as a full on relationship. They came over to my place, I fucked them then we went out for food or went to chill with my friends at festivals in the summer then we went back to my placed again, fucked some more, watched movies/tv shows and cuddled then slept. Then we went our separate ways when things fizzled out or one of my FWBs got a boyfriend while we were seeing eachother. 

Another one was actually too boring and we just chilled, fucked and played video games together which would've been my dream relationship at 15 but I got bored of it real fast. That's why I like more influencer type women, artistic women or corporate women now, I'm trying to conquer the world with my women not play call of duty mobile. 

My personality type is grounded and intellectual so if one of them raised an issue I don't usually get triggered my default response is like "Huh, tell me more about this" so I tend to be pretty good at interpersonal conflict resolution. 

So you keep the relationships light.  I tend to emphasize relationship.  

[LordFall]

9 minutes ago, Joseph Maynor said:

So you keep the relationships light.  I tend to emphasize relationship.  

Yes since I broke up with my ex in 2020 I felt like there were some flaws both in my life and my character as a man that prevented me from making that relationship work that I needed to fix to take my next serious relationship past that bottleneck and be able to find a true long term partner to raise kids with.

That road has lead to me to focusing on raising my attractiveness as a man, working on my social circle and scaling my business. The overall bottleneck was basically being a weak man that ran away from his problems through that relationship instead of becoming a powerful man that was is an asset to myself and others.

There are more nuanced specific character flaws I had and some of them are fixed now and some of them I'm still actively working on.

How did your last relationship end and what have you learned about yourself from it?