How do you lock a woman in to where she isn't thinking about anyone else but you?

[Inliytened1]

1 minute ago, LordFall said:

I'm confused, you think you disappear once you have an awakening? I did it a few times and it felt like I was having sex with myself with two bodies at once, it was pretty cool.  The eye contact is intense. Hard to think about who exactly you're looking at in the moment but it feels otherworldly for sure. 

Its Pure Consciousness.  The body isn't you. You are Nothing.  The dream is still there with a samadhi. Right.  The sounds and the visual field. The touch is still there.  But there is no self. Nor is there other, although you may not realize sll of these things at once.  

[LordFall]

2 minutes ago, Inliytened1 said:

Its Pure Consciousness.  The body isn't you. You are Nothing.  The dream is still there with a samadhi. Right.  The sounds and the visual field. The touch is still there.  But there is no self. Nor is there other, although you may not realize sll of these things at once.  

I wouldn't call it nothing, I never liked that phrasing of it. It's inaccurate, and  I would say reality revolves around the exact opposite concept. It's more like you are everything. 

I think the nothing phrasing also leads to nihilism, I see it in users on this forum. Thinking of yourself as everything makes way more sense to me, then you're simply experiencing yourself infinitely in all kinds of ways. Most spiritual people tend to be very limited people that don't have much impact on the world and I think it's because they get lost in a nihilistic solipsistic bubble and awakening somehow makes them weaker instead of more powerful. 

[Inliytened1]

7 minutes ago, LordFall said:

I wouldn't call it nothing, I never liked that phrasing of it. It's inaccurate, and  I would say reality revolves around the exact opposite concept. It's more like you are everything. 

I think the nothing phrasing also leads to nihilism, I see it in users on this forum. Thinking of yourself as everything makes way more sense to me, then you're simply experiencing yourself infinitely in all kinds of ways. Most spiritual people tend to be very limited people that don't have much impact on the world and I think it's because they get lost in a nihilistic solipsistic bubble and awakening somehow makes them weaker instead of more powerful. 

I don't want to stray too much off of the topics of this section, which is about getting laid..but you can realize they are identical. Everything and nothing.  And when I use the word nothing you shouldn't give it a negative connotation.   It's no less beautiful then everything.   I always enjoy our talks. I told Leo and I will remind him. I think you will make a great mod just in how interactive you are with everyone. 

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[LordFall]

3 minutes ago, Inliytened1 said:

I don't want to stray too much off of the topics of this section, which is about getting laid..but you can realize they are identical. Everything and nothing.  And when I use the word nothing you shouldn't give it a negative connotation.   It's no less beautiful then everything.   I always enjoy our talks. I told Leo and I will remind him. I think you will make a great mod just in how interactive you are with everyone. 

Appreciate it bro. It is on topic though, I very much dislike how a lot of spiritual people try to wish away materialism. I don't think it's wise, I think it's spiritual bypassing.

Words have meaning though otherwise we can't have accurate conversations. You cannot be nothing otherwise you wouldn't experience phenomena. Being everything makes sense under the non-dual paradigm. Being nothing makes no sense and I think is pseudo-intellectual.

Likewise bro, I appreciate you. 

[Inliytened1]

1 minute ago, LordFall said:

Appreciate it bro. It is on topic though, I very much dislike how a lot of spiritual people try to wish away materialism. I don't think it's wise, I think it's spiritual bypassing.

Words have meaning though otherwise we can't have accurate conversations. You cannot be nothing otherwise you wouldn't experience phenomena. Being everything makes sense under the non-dual paradigm. Being nothing makes no sense and I think is pseudo-intellectual.

Likewise bro, I appreciate you. 

It is a specific awakening which will annihilate materialism.  A dream has substance, does it not? And what is it made out of.  Reality is precisely the same. 

[LordFall]

10 minutes ago, Inliytened1 said:

It is a specific awakening which will annihilate materialism.  A dream has substance, does it not? And what is it made out of.  Reality is precisely the same. 

Annihilates in what way? I didn't realize the literal definition of materialism is the philosophical belief that physical matter is the fundamental substance of reality, so I give you a point there. The point I meant to attack is that enlightenment comes bundled with eliminating desire. I think it reshapes our relationship to it but definitely not eliminate it.

Desires are a feature, not a bug. Compulsive cravings are another subject entirely. 

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[Inliytened1]

9 minutes ago, LordFall said:

 The point I meant to attack is that enlightenment comes bundled with eliminating desire. I think it reshapes our relationship to it but definitely not eliminate it.

Desires are a feature, not a bug. Compulsive cravings are another subject entirely. 

It comes bundled with that just like the Bible comes bundled with believing the messiah will return.  Word of mouth tends to distort things, even true spirituality   I agree.  Years before you were here we used to argue about this stuff. But when you come full circle you realize that reality isn't restrained to anything.  It has to be unrestrained.   

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[Inliytened1]

6 minutes ago, LordFall said:

Annihilates in what way?

 

 

The awakening to Infinity annihilates it. Infinity has no ground.  Materialism says it does.

[LordFall]

2 minutes ago, Inliytened1 said:

It comes bundled with that just like the Bible comes bundled with believing the messiah will return.  Word of mouth tends to distort things, even true spirituality   J agree.  Years before you were here we used to argue about this stuff. But when you come full circle you realize that reality isn't restrained to anything.  It has to be unrestrained.   

One of the deepest awakenings I've ever had was on shrooms and the biggest feeling I got from it was basically like "this is too good to be true."

I think that's what a lot of stage green people on the forum feel especially in regards to sex. Like I can have as much sex as I want and still have an awesome life? It's too good to be true. I think it has to be done responsibly but I like pushing back on people's limiting beliefs. 

I indeed agree that unrestrained reality is peak. 

[Inliytened1]

3 minutes ago, LordFall said:

One of the deepest awakenings I've ever had was on shrooms and the biggest feeling I got from it was basically like "this is too good to be true."

I think that's what a lot of stage green people on the forum feel especially in regards to sex. Like I can have as much sex as I want and still have an awesome life? It's too good to be true. I think it has to be done responsibly but I like pushing back on people's limiting beliefs. 

I indeed agree that unrestrained reality is peak. 

No I really really appreciate your contributions it's very open minded when it comes to sexuality and does not limit itself to one particular ideology.   It's great.   The only question i have with the polyamory lifestyle is if you can have true love like you can have with a single partner.  

[LordFall]

I don't see why not. 

[Inliytened1]

Just now, LordFall said:

I don't see why not. 

Hah. It was a trick question.  Who says you can have it with one? 

😀

[LordFall]

1 minute ago, Inliytened1 said:

Hah. It was a trick question.  Who says you can have it with one? 

😀

True love is everywhere. We have to define our terms here. If you mean an everlasting relationship with no conflict that's a bit harder achieve.

True love is like seeing the perfect ass when you were depressed and realizing that life is worth living after all.

I think this is my favorite love song ever

I sometimes wish that I could fly
Hold me tight in your arms tonight
Sick of livin' inside a lie
Alright
I can't count the times I've tried
Stand alone just to lift you high
You're my answer to the question why

[Inliytened1]

10 minutes ago, LordFall said:

 

True love is like seeing the perfect ass when you were depressed and realizing that life is worth living after all.

 

That's doing a disservice to what love is. No one can explain what it is.  So let's not even try.  Suffice it to say..if you lose her and you loved her, it will become apparent.  

[LordFall]

3 minutes ago, Inliytened1 said:

That's doing a disservice to what love is. No one can explain what it is.  So let's not even try.  Suffice it to say..if you lose her and you loved her, it will become apparent.  

I'm not a big fan of mystifying things. Relationships are great and clearly filled with love. It's the concept of true love that you seem stuck on. What does it mean to you? 

I was somewhat joking but I think part of the magic to life is the drive to keep giving your all even when life is hard. Relationships/female companions with nice butts are part of that for sure. It's the magic of duality baby, definitely not nothing and certainly a very nicely shaped Everything. 

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[Inliytened1]

1 minute ago, LordFall said:

I'm not a big fan of mystifying things. Relationships are great and clearly filled with love. It's the concept of true love that you seem stuck on. What does it mean to you? 

I was somewhat joking but I think part of the magic to life is the drive to keep giving your all even when life is hard. Relationships/female companions with nice butts are part of that for sure. It's the magic of duality baby, definitely not nothing and certainly a very nicely shaped Everything. 

I wish I could demystify it. But Love is the single most mystical thing in the universe.  If one could put their finger on it I'm sure they would.  

[LordFall]

6 minutes ago, Inliytened1 said:

I wish I could demystify it. But Love is the single most mystical thing in the universe.  If one could put their finger on it I'm sure they would.  

Plenty of people have. What exactly is the part that still frustrates you about true love? Demystifying concepts requires asking the right questions.

You seem hesitant to phrase your exact concerns on the issue. Is it mainly about having relationships stand the test of time? Or keeping the spark alive after initial infatuation? Or a soul mate type of question, like with all the 4 billion women out there which one is really the one meant for me? 

There's really only two main tracks of questions if we look at love in a romantic relationship. Finding it and keeping it. 

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[Inliytened1]

10 minutes ago, LordFall said:

Plenty of people have. What exactly is the part that still frustrates you about true love? Demystifying concepts requires asking the right questions.

You seem hesitant to phrase your exact concerns on the issue. Is it mainly about having relationships stand the test of time? Or keeping the spark alive after initial infatuation? Or a soul mate type of question, like with all the 4 billion women out there which one is really the one meant for me? 

There's really only two main tracks of questions if we look at love in a romantic relationship. Finding it and keeping it. 

Plenty of people have is not an adequate benchmark. Plenty of people have thought the earth was flat.  

Have you experienced love? Just an honest question. 

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[LordFall]

6 minutes ago, Inliytened1 said:

Plenty of people have is not an adequate benchmark. Plenty of people have thought the earth was flat.  

Have you experienced love? Just an honest question. 

Of course, I was pretty deeply in love with my last girlfriend. 

I think avoiding deconstructing love helps save us from the painful parts of our past and specifically why our last relationships fell apart. To create much stronger ones in the future though that avoidance must be addressed to not repeat our mistakes continuously. 

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[Inliytened1]

Just now, LordFall said:

Of course, I was pretty deeply in love with my last girlfriend. 

And as we spoke before I don't think you were OK with another guy caressing her and going inside her. But. Correct me, if I'm wrong.