Red women: Respect

[Valach]

31 minutes ago, LordFall said:

Well this is why some guys dislike high body count women because they say that they're comfortable with their sexuality so if there are problems in the relationship they'll go sleep with another guy for that easy dopamine. 

I think it's good to date with some experience since she'll already know random men can't fix her problems whereas a woman with less experience or even a virgin still idealizes men and if she finds some minor flaws with you it's more likely she'll try her luck elsewhere even if what she wants is unrealistic. 

Yea. There is a middle ground for this in my experience. Some experience is nice, but constantly seeking new highs does not correlate with the most stable people.

Edited 17 hours ago by Valach

[integral]

15 minutes ago, Valach said:

Yea. There is a middle ground for this in my experience. Some experience is nice, but constantly seeking new highs does not correlate with the must stable people.

Exactly there are plenty of people who have the mindset to work on problems in the relationship.

Woman getting the "ick" then losing attraction is a different type of operating system.

Edited 17 hours ago by integral

[Valach]

20 minutes ago, integral said:

Exactly there are plenty of people who have the mindset to work on problems in the relationship.

Woman getting the "ick" then losing attraction is a different type of operating system.

People are very complex. It is just about cultivating your own intuation and healing yourself so you can see them for who they truly are.

[Basman]

All women value respect imo, just like guys want a woman they can respect for a serious relationship. If you can't take them seriously why would you want to be with them? 

I believe what stage red women value is just uninhibited talent for survival. Alexander The Great type shit. Stage red is a stage about survival on a primal level. Personal expression is more so a feature of stage orange. A personal preferance for black guys is orange because preferances is already at a level where your trying to get what you want out of life, which is deeply characteristic of stage orange, as opposed to negotiating with life through uninhibited survival. Stage red doesn't think in terms of preferences. 

I remember reading the Saga of the Volsungs once which is a story written during the medieval ages about the history of a particular viking clan. Medieval litterature can give a lot of insight into how stage red societies operate because they are from societies that are genuinely at that stage. They'll write stuff that sounds demented in our modern age like it's completely normal. Like child murder is treated very flippantly. It's a world that is quiet alien in constrast to ours that is hard to appreciate. The book details a princess who falls in love with the main character who became a king. What she praises him for always stood out to me. Not his dashing looks or personality but his bravery, talent for conquest and war and being rich. She was so in love with this guy that when he ended up marrying a different women she killed him and his kid and then threw herself on his funeral pyre. In the end she lamented how he had declined as a warlord and king. Now that's stage red. It's very monkey. 

Edited 2 hours ago by Basman