This is what You and Existence is

[Joseph Maynor]

12 minutes ago, Someone here said:

That’s true but not always .  In this context the conversation was that you are the one who said that you have “your spirituality “ ..and that in “your spirituality “ there is a room for both Ego(the finite ) and God (the infinite )..by saying “God creates thru the finite “.  That reads false to me . God creates whatever it wants through pure Abracadabra magic  because it’s omnipotent. Like a magician pulling a rabbit out of an empty fucking hat .Which means your claim that you understand what god is and how it creates is false in my opinion. 

Why are you looking to me to tell you what your spirituality is"

[Someone here]

2 minutes ago, Joseph Maynor said:

Why are you looking to me to tell you what your spirituality is"

Nothing in what I said suggests that . I did say what “my spirituality “ is : I don’t reinvent the wheel. I have verified to myself in my own contemplation everything I told you in this thread which all spiritual teachings and teachers have taught since the dawn of time . Once again you are the one who disagrees and claimed that you have your own unique spiritual understanding..without any further explication. Just using vague one liners . If you keep using vague one liners I’m sorry but I won’t carry this conversation on .

[Joseph Maynor]

2 minutes ago, Someone here said:

Nothing in what I said suggests that . I did say what “my spirituality “ is : I don’t reinvent the wheel. I have verified to myself in my own contemplation everything I told you in this thread which all spiritual teachings and teachers have taught since the dawn of time . Once again you are the one who disagrees and claimed that you have your own unique spiritual understanding..without any further explication. Just using vague one liners . If you keep using vague one liners I’m sorry but I won’t carry this conversation on .

So what are you arguing with me about specifically?

[Someone here]

@Joseph Maynor I remember reading in a book that asking questions instead of making statements is a neat little psychological trick to keep people talking. The idea is that people enjoy being asked because it feeds their ego .they feel important..so they stay engaged.

I don’t like it.To me it comes across as manipulative..like you’re assuming I’m some naive sweetheart who won’t notice what’s happening. I notice. I always do.

So now you know. If we ever have another conversation about these kinds of things..don’t try that again. I see through it. 

 

[Mellowmarsh]

7 hours ago, Someone here said:

I remember reading in a book that asking questions instead of making statements is a neat little psychological trick to keep people talking. The idea is that people enjoy being asked because it feeds their ego .they feel important..so they stay engaged.

Indeed, it is one thing to ask questions in an innocuous manner to someone else, and then perhaps does not understand the answer then proceeds to ask for clarification.

But then to be met with being repeatedly questioned about your particular manner of questioning, by answering the question asked with another question about what’s being asked, without first seeking some kind of conclusion or clarification, …   is a manipulative way of trying to take command and control over the ideas posited in the discussion.
It’s egotistical behaviour , it’s trying to dominate the discussion. I agree. 

Let’s draw awareness to what the ego really loves to hear, here.

 

[Joseph Maynor]

On 6/25/2026 at 11:26 PM, Mellowmarsh said:

I grant you your wish. Please do not speak to me both personally or addressing any idea I may write about. This is not rocket science. 
 

If you ignore my plea for you to stop interacting with me, then I will report you to Leo directly as breaching your own wish.

 

Thank you for your honesty. But you are dead to me now. 

You wrote this to me before and now you are speaking to me, which is it?

[Mellowmarsh]

7 minutes ago, Joseph Maynor said:

You wrote this to me before and now you are speaking to me, which is it?

I’ll tell you what it is, it’s what happens when you shut communication down/ off.

 

By doing so, it becomes difficult for you to know which is which. It just all gets a bit witchy, and that’s all your own fault.

[Joseph Maynor]

1 minute ago, Mellowmarsh said:

I’ll tell you what it is, it’s what happens when you shut communication down/ off.

 

By doing so, it becomes difficult for you to know which is which. It just all gets a bit witchy, and that’s all your own fault.

I felt like you honored your word until today.

[Mellowmarsh]

Just now, Joseph Maynor said:

I felt like you honored your word until today.

This is what happens when you shut communication down/ off.

 

 You find it very difficult to honour your own plan, by simply sticking to it. You become trapped in your own desire to raise the dead. You seem to enjoy communicating with dead people. Ever convinced that it’s never your agenda to do so. 

 

 

[Joseph Maynor]

Just now, Mellowmarsh said:

This is what happens when you shut communication down/ off.

 

 You find it very difficult to honour your own plan, by simply sticking to it. You become trapped in your own desire to raise the dead. You seem to enjoy communicating with dead people. Ever convinced that it’s never your agenda to do so. 

 

 

Okay.  Then are you okay that I respond to your posts now?  I don't know what you are talking about otherwise.

[Mellowmarsh]

3 minutes ago, Joseph Maynor said:

Okay.  Then are you okay that I respond to your posts now?  I don't know what you are talking about otherwise.

You were the one who wanted me to block you. You were the one who wanted to close down/ off communication, not me.

 

 Forgive my ignorance here but I’m not really sure what you are talking about, one minute you are wanting me to block you, now it seems you are asking me if it’s okay that you respond to me.
Can you just make yourself very clear as to what you really want. I’m a very open communicator, just make sure you are only doing what you want to do, there’s no pressure here. 

[Joseph Maynor]

Just now, Mellowmarsh said:

You were the one who wanted me to block you. You were the one who wanted to close down/ off communication, not me.

 

 Forgive my ignorance here but I’m not really sure what you are talking about, one minute you are wanting me to block you, now it seems you are asking me if it’s okay that you respond to me.
Can you just make yourself very clear as to what you really want. I’m a very open communicator, just make sure you are only doing what you want to do, there’s no pressure here. 

Alright.  I encourage constructive criticism and try to give it too, but it is best to deliver it with respect.  

[Mellowmarsh]

Just now, Joseph Maynor said:

Alright.  I encourage constructive criticism and try to give it too, but it is best to deliver it with respect.  

I’ve always respected your opinions. I have never not liked your ideas to the extreme that I’ve wanted to block them. I’m open to discussing ideas only, I’m just not interested in people personally that I want to gaze lovingly at their adorable faces and hang out with them over a coffee at Starbucks. Just so you are clear about that, if that’s okay with you then I’m happy to proceed discussing ideas with you, okay?