10 years of dating advice in one minute - Mark Manson

[LordFall]

Yeah that makes sense. I've started going to corporate events on eventbrite to meet more corporate minded women. They're also more logical than the average women so I like that personally. Crypto events have been good too for gen-z type women that are also into finance and money.

What's your favorite type of event to meet women? 

[Joseph Maynor]

11 minutes ago, LordFall said:

Yeah that makes sense. I've started going to corporate events on eventbrite to meet more corporate minded women. They're also more logical than the average women so I like that personally. Crypto events have been good too for gen-z type women that are also into finance and money.

What's your favorite type of event to meet women? 

No just stretch and talk to regular people.  This is hard to master.  You have to be somewhat extraverted.  But you also want to not have a need for anything.  You need to be curious but not needy.  It is hard to communicate this.  To avoid the abstraction just strike up a conversation in person respectfully with all people.   Learn how to talk to every kind of person in person.

Edited yesterday at 11:16 PM by Joseph Maynor

[LordFall]

No I don't find much value talking to random people. My social energy is limited so I need to be selective otherwise I find myself getting angry at wasting my time and losing time on my goals. 

[Joseph Maynor]

2 minutes ago, LordFall said:

No I don't find much value talking to random people. My social energy is limited so I need to be selective otherwise I find myself getting angry at wasting my time and losing time on my goals. 

Learn how to talk to everyone.  

[LordFall]

It's not that I cant it's that it's not valuable to me and a waste of time as I've said. I've talked to homeless people and random people outside of an event and it's not a 100% waste of time there is always something interesting to find in anything but there are better uses of time. 

[enchanted]

17 hours ago, Ulax said:

 

However, every relationship also has a beginning period. A first meeting. A first date. And pickup is all about making that first period go really, really well. And making that first period go so well, means you have MANY more options, and are able to choose someone who is more of an actual match.

Great point. I tend to find that the bar for things to go "really well" is much lower than what guys usually think. 

Edited 11 hours ago by enchanted

[Ulax]

14 minutes ago, enchanted said:

Great point. I tend to find that the bar for things to go "really well" is much lower than what guys usually think. 

Is interesting you say that. I recently having working on a tonne of Todd V stuff, and one of my biggest changes is focusing on qualification as a sign of attraction from the girl. Aka her giving unnecessary clarifications, excuses, explanations when she talks to you. Or just trying to change the perception you have of her.

And I realised women actually qualify quite frequently to guys but I didn't pick up on it. Not only with me but I also watch a lot of more normal dudes in conversations with girls and see girls qualifying themselves too to them. But I bet a lot of those dudes don't think she was into them. But actually the girls were to some degree! 

[LordFall]

2 hours ago, enchanted said:

Great point. I tend to find that the bar for things to go "really well" is much lower than what guys usually think. 

Can you elaborate on your pickup and relationship experience?