Loving love too much is bad

[Joseph Maynor]

Just now, Mellowmarsh said:

Anytime brother. 

Not even.  

[Mellowmarsh]

Just now, Joseph Maynor said:

Not even.  

Okay.

[Mellowmarsh]

Just now, Joseph Maynor said:

You learned from me.  

Okay.

[Joseph Maynor]

Just now, Mellowmarsh said:

Okay.

Lol.  Carry on.  

[Joseph Maynor]

This whole format is based on a need for drama.  

[Ajay0]

Attention is food for the ego, and too much of attention can indeed produce entitled super-brats who insists on 'my way or the highway' . They can be highly destructive due to a limited perspective of life.

The brilliant German chancellor Bismarck considered the young German emperor Kaiser Wilhelm II to be a pampered and spoit brat who "wanted every day to be his birthday". 

Kaiser Wilhelm II heavily contributed to the outbreak of World War I through aggressive militarism, the abandonment of Bismarck’s careful diplomacy, and ill-thought policies that turned a localized Balkan crisis into a global conflict that resulted in the deaths of millions.

 

Edited 9 hours ago by Ajay0

[Mellowmarsh]

44 minutes ago, Joseph Maynor said:

This whole format is based on a need for drama.  

Yes, so no need for stage fright, there’s really no one watching. This is an audience for myself.

[Joseph Maynor]

2 minutes ago, Mellowmarsh said:

Yes, so no need for stage fright, there’s really no one watching. This is an audience for myself.

Oh God let's hope not lol.

[Mellowmarsh]

Just now, Joseph Maynor said:

Oh God let's hope not lol.

No need to petition God. 
No hope is hope.

[Joseph Maynor]

@Mellowmarsh I don't want to say who you remind me of now in your communication style, but you might guess.

[Mellowmarsh]

3 minutes ago, Joseph Maynor said:

@Mellowmarsh I don't want to say who you remind me of now in your communication style, but you might guess.

Oh stop it. You’re just being a drama queen. 

[Joseph Maynor]

13 minutes ago, Mellowmarsh said:

Oh stop it. You’re just being a drama queen. 

Oh boy.  

[Mellowmarsh]

20 minutes ago, Joseph Maynor said:

Oh boy.  

Knock Knock ✊ 

Whos’ there.

It’s me, do you want to come out to play.

Okay.

[AION]

Higher forms of love can’t be recognized by simple humans with a low development. 

At the end everything is love but what matters is from which developmental stage it comes from. 

Context matters too. 

Sometimes conflict is needed and total destruction is needed so there is room for higher forms of love. For example what happened with the dinosaurs and such. Or with certain wars today.

In the same way sometimes punching somebody in the face can be love instead of being a nice guy and not telling people what they need to hear. That kind of niceness is a kiss of death in any kind of relationship. Or a marriage.

That is why I always get into fights because I will tell people what they need to hear instead of doing what everybody does: telling people what they want to hear. That is like n1 rule how to make friends and get gf which is to tell what they want to hear. 

At the same time telling people truths they are not ready to hear is not love eithrr. It is like sticking up your dick up somebody who is not ready. That is not love.

High quality love knows how to strike the balance between kindness versus judgement/discipline. And between assertiveness and reservation. 

Edited 7 hours ago by AION

[Schizophonia]

@AION Imagine Heroin 

[Schizophonia]

18 minutes ago, AION said:

At the same time telling people truths they are not ready to hear

That's what I thought too, but generally if what comes back to you is aggression it's because the underlying intention stems from aggression.

 

That's what emerges from the topic is something like I don't have the right to love (in the holistic/metaphysical sense, not just a specific form) because life is difficult and "it's not the time". But it doesn't work because humans are deeply communist; so when one isolates themselves they generally end up weakening, to become low on energy, develop obsessive-compulsive behaviors, and generally become physically weak. This is something you can observe in yourself and other people; including and especially personal development influencers.

What could have happen is that if you were in contact with very aggressive people at an early age (often one parent, the father, classmates...), because of your karma (and their) in general, you could have to protect yourself adopted a dissociated/stoic persona, a split personality, to suffer less from the emotional sphere. And since everything is polarized, you cling to the positive polarity: "I'm the one who tells the truth, who's blackpilled, blablabla." 

 

Except that it is indeed a response to repressed aggression - to be supposedly consciously stoic I must unconsciously be very emotional - so as in reality one does not go without the other, when you believe you are helping someone you are also transferring to them the unconscious part, that is to say your aggression your fears etc; like a troy horse. 

 

You said you went to a club to look for girls; but if you're inherently quite sensitive/kind and perhaps neurotic because of certain experiences, this will only make you more bitter because the girls who might be interested in that kind of thing don't go to clubs, or hardly ever; They're not on social media either or almost.

 

Regressive approaches (like the orange stage when one is open to the high above) have the unconscious aim of suppressing pain.
This reinforces the neurotic vision, but avoids the original rupture.

 

There's not really an how it's an illusion; if one lets go of its authenticity, their will naturally go to the corresponding place, with the corresponding people (and money, everything else).