Women are attracted to relativity

[Miguel1]

2 minutes ago, StaraX said:

@Miguel1 What is your analysis for the effectiveness of cold approach if the objective is getting 8s and above? A lot of guys use social circle as a dating strategy because that is realistically the better option if the goal is getting 8s and above. 

Via social circle you get the 9s and 10s the easiest, but you can only really date one of them at a time.

Also, building and maintaining a social circle takes enormous amount of time and energy.

To get an 8, cold approaching is way more efficient. There are plenty of 8s out there.

If your skills are really good, even the 9s and 10s are pullable with cold approaching. With social circle, it’s easier but takes way more time.

I don’t have a definitive answer for you. Both has pros and cons.

I would do both at the same time, since they work in harmony. And tbh, I’ve been doing that the past few months but it’s coming crashing down as I am quite burned out from the social games and fakery.

[LordFall]

2 hours ago, Miguel1 said:

I would do both at the same time, since they work in harmony. And tbh, I’ve been doing that the past few months but it’s coming crashing down as I am quite burned out from the social games and fakery.

I'm curious what you mean by that, it shouldn't really hamper your efforts but perhaps I have a unique philosophy on it. Your social circle especially in terms of social strategy is not really friends they are like people with similar goals and hobbies than you basically. Sometimes my friends help out with my events but usually they can't be bothered even if it would be beneficial for them to do so. I like the people in my community and try to create win-win situation but that doesn't always work. 

People will try to use your system for their benefit and sabotage you or just waste your time but that's one of the funnest parts to me, system design and pruning. Nothing I love more than kicking out a dude from one of my group chats. When you're offering your time to build something of value for yourself and others some people will be a net negative to that creation and once you really itemize who benefits it and who drags it down then both sides are beautiful. Equally some people will be such blessings to you that you're thinking you hacked the matrix and perhaps we have! 

[Miguel1]

2 hours ago, LordFall said:

I'm curious what you mean by that, it shouldn't really hamper your efforts but perhaps I have a unique philosophy on it.

What exactly are you curious about?

[LordFall]

Well you said that you tire of social games and fakery can you elaborate on how that manifested itself when you tried it? 

[enchanted]

Everything is relative. So of course women are attracted to relativity. And to say men aren't is a lie. If all the worlds 8-10 women disappearred then the 6-7s would be in high demand from men as they would be relatively the hottest at that point. 

[Miguel1]

3 hours ago, LordFall said:

Well you said that you tire of social games and fakery can you elaborate on how that manifested itself when you tried it? 

Just practice 1 week of being fully honest and say what you actually mean with the people in your social circle.

Warning: don't do this if you don't want to lose your circle.

[Joseph Maynor]

6 hours ago, enchanted said:

Everything is relative. So of course women are attracted to relativity. And to say men aren't is a lie. If all the worlds 8-10 women disappearred then the 6-7s would be in high demand from men as they would be relatively the hottest at that point. 

The Feminine is attracted to relation generally.  This doesn't mean relativity exactly.  

[StaraX]

On 1.7.2026 at 11:39 AM, Miguel1 said:

Via social circle you get the 9s and 10s the easiest, but you can only really date one of them at a time.

Also, building and maintaining a social circle takes enormous amount of time and energy.

To get an 8, cold approaching is way more efficient. There are plenty of 8s out there.

If your skills are really good, even the 9s and 10s are pullable with cold approaching. With social circle, it’s easier but takes way more time.

I don’t have a definitive answer for you. Both has pros and cons.

I would do both at the same time, since they work in harmony. And tbh, I’ve been doing that the past few months but it’s coming crashing down as I am quite burned out from the social games and fakery.

@Miguel1 Sounds like an accurate insights, thanks. I've been avoiding approaching 8s and above because my mind keeps telling me "this ain't gonna work, you need to play status game because they have so many options".

[LordFall]

18 hours ago, Miguel1 said:

Just practice 1 week of being fully honest and say what you actually mean with the people in your social circle.

Warning: don't do this if you don't want to lose your circle.

I do it most of the time. A lot of my conversations with my close friends are in the form of debates like you see me interact with people on the forum. Some people can't handle it but I mean well and my life is built to offer value so ultimately the right people say in my orbit. I've lost friends because of it but some others come back around and I've made new friends that are more aligned with my vision. Some others have a growth mindset and aren't offended and like my honesty and I like theirs and we grow together and do cool stuff.

There is no other way to live in my book, catering to normies is more than draining it hurts the soul. 

4 hours ago, StaraX said:

@Miguel1 Sounds like an accurate insights, thanks. I've been avoiding approaching 8s and above because my mind keeps telling me "this ain't gonna work, you need to play status game because they have so many options".

Trust results, not the mind. Approach 10 8s in your city this week and see how it goes. Status helps make the process effortless and scalable but you can do it without it.

For me I like women to interact with my mind and ideas, that's what I identify most with. If my ideas do not work they are not attractive they are random trivia facts or the ramblings of a madman. The more my ideas concretize and scale the more baddies and people as a whole enjoy them and I enjoy creating avdentures and scaling together so to me cold approach is not in the same dimension of what social circle and social media game can create for you. 

I made a reel for my dating brand the other day mentioning the new reality show Canada Shore and one of the girls from it replied to it a couple of times. It's not like she's in my circle yet nor am I dating her but it shows you can access people of all kinds of status if you put yourself out there on social media and produce quality content. 

https://www.instagram.com/p/DY8LcNnockL/

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Edited 1 hour ago by LordFall