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[Miguel1]

2 minutes ago, StaraX said:

@Miguel1 What is your analysis for the effectiveness of cold approach if the objective is getting 8s and above? A lot of guys use social circle as a dating strategy because that is realistically the better option if the goal is getting 8s and above. 

Via social circle you get the 9s and 10s the easiest, but you can only really date one of them at a time.

Also, building and maintaining a social circle takes enormous amount of time and energy.

To get an 8, cold approaching is way more efficient. There are plenty of 8s out there.

If your skills are really good, even the 9s and 10s are pullable with cold approaching. With social circle, it’s easier but takes way more time.

I don’t have a definitive answer for you. Both has pros and cons.

I would do both at the same time, since they work in harmony. And tbh, I’ve been doing that the past few months but it’s coming crashing down as I am quite burned out from the social games and fakery.

[LordFall]

2 hours ago, Miguel1 said:

I would do both at the same time, since they work in harmony. And tbh, I’ve been doing that the past few months but it’s coming crashing down as I am quite burned out from the social games and fakery.

I'm curious what you mean by that, it shouldn't really hamper your efforts but perhaps I have a unique philosophy on it. Your social circle especially in terms of social strategy is not really friends they are like people with similar goals and hobbies than you basically. Sometimes my friends help out with my events but usually they can't be bothered even if it would be beneficial for them to do so. I like the people in my community and try to create win-win situation but that doesn't always work. 

People will try to use your system for their benefit and sabotage you or just waste your time but that's one of the funnest parts to me, system design and pruning. Nothing I love more than kicking out a dude from one of my group chats. When you're offering your time to build something of value for yourself and others some people will be a net negative to that creation and once you really itemize who benefits it and who drags it down then both sides are beautiful. Equally some people will be such blessings to you that you're thinking you hacked the matrix and perhaps we have! 

[Miguel1]

2 hours ago, LordFall said:

I'm curious what you mean by that, it shouldn't really hamper your efforts but perhaps I have a unique philosophy on it.

What exactly are you curious about?

[LordFall]

Well you said that you tire of social games and fakery can you elaborate on how that manifested itself when you tried it?